| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/9/2006 10:41:32 PM |
That' s what it' s all about...
it's just a convenient way for people to excusee lust.
love you kids nd the hugs they offer for no other reason than they feel like it. love your family, your friends. love your goldfish, your dog or your cat. love your car, the game of chess with your neighbour, the colour of your house. love your house and the furniture you lounge on. love the music that makes your feet move and your heart skip a beat. love ts eliot for the ladies and their spoons. love shakespeare for iago, falstaff and hamlet. love that joni mitchell pointed out tath we are stardust and golden. blake for his speck of sand and einstein for mystifying us by pointing out that matter is but energy. i've rediscovered a love for fresh grapes.
these things will last and they will change.
love between men and women? neh. it lasts as long as the hormones stay in the system.
love yourself and have fun. that'll last a lifetime. | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/10/2006 12:54:12 AM |
I think it's a damn good idea to be thankful that we can and don't question it! 
... similar as 'kiss of life'  | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/10/2006 7:31:50 AM | | To biologically bond individuals in order to cultivate stronger support systems for raising familes, protecting communities/towns and providing the necessary resources for survival of the species. Love is the quality which protects, saves, heals, and maintains the human species individual members. Without it, individuals have a less likely chance of surviving and reproducing. Self-love has the same quality of permitting the individual to incorporate their individual selves into the available resources. | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/10/2006 8:57:53 AM | Tough question for me to answer! I don't know... definitely something to think about!
But it does feel good to be in love! | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/10/2006 9:11:47 AM | | to procreate..bear children..spread our genes..to MATE...its why we are here | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/10/2006 12:03:16 PM | So in other words its biologically trick to get as many women pregnant | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/10/2006 2:55:28 PM | ^^^^Exactly. Love: An altered hormonal state in which we are inexplicably attracted to another; it usually lasts just long enough for the woman to get pregnant, have a child, and for said offspring to be able to walk on it's own.
Most people have no idea what the 'chemistry' is behind the attraction. The information is out there, though, and it's much easier to find now with the 'net. I still don't think most people really want to know the truth about it. They'd rather think it's 'meant to be', or 'fate'. I spent years reading about the dynamics of attraction. I do conciously know exactly why I am attracted to one person, and not another. Doesn't always make things easier, though. | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/10/2006 6:31:40 PM | | LOVE – Yes it fosters biological life.....and it is the intelligence of the heart; a force greater than our minds, which are merely screens that read frequencies. It’s best to encourage oneself to periodically empty the mind in order to bypass these distracting screens. When we clear it, we flow into a dark inner labyrinth made of pathways to our heart. Thought travels faster than light yet love travels even faster. This enables us to recognize our soul mates and others that radiate to higher frequencies of light like Jesus and Buddha. This light (love) vibrates divine immanence and our response to it is called grace. | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/10/2006 6:36:38 PM |
LOVE – Yes it fosters biological life.....and it is the intelligence of the heart; a force greater than our minds, which are merely screens that read frequencies. It’s best to encourage oneself to periodically empty the mind in order to bypass these distracting screens. When we clear it, we flow into a dark inner labyrinth made of pathways to our heart. Thought travels faster than light yet love travels even faster. This enables us to recognize our soul mates and others that radiate to higher frequencies of light like Jesus and Buddha. This light (love) vibrates divine immanence and our response to it is called grace.
ahha! so i'm correct that none of my exs actually knew what love is/was despite their assertions to the contrary. still have no idea whay they use the 'L' word still even though they left to go and get naked with some other guy. good news is that none of them looked like jesus or buddha. | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/11/2006 3:31:48 AM | its symbolic--the god uniting w the goddess,or
if ur atheist, each partner is half the universe
this sacred aspect is only a small part in most relationships however,
as most ppl are respondin to biological programmin | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/11/2006 6:54:15 AM | I don’t see anything “symbolic” about falling in love or about love itself. Love is an energy force; it is to be felt, not read about or studied. It is to be felt. It is the glue that holds all life together. If you think this isn’t true try to imagine a world without ANY love. It wouldn’t last very long.  | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/11/2006 12:03:06 PM | | We fall in love cause its a given.We are suppose to its expected of us.But there is no certain timeframe for anyone.Some have the good luck to know when it hits them.O thers it just strikes out the blue.But at one time or another you have been in love just not known it. | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/11/2006 12:04:59 PM | | Because it really makes better for sex, and we don't like to spend our days and nights alone. | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/11/2006 12:14:13 PM | Why??? To feel alive, get carried away, take the soul to the next level:))) That' s what it' s all about...
Because the Alternative Sucks! Nuff said!
Have fun 
VVV Yeah I noted that too, but figured what the hell. It's Monday! | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/11/2006 12:19:15 PM | Good golly. This thread is two years old: Posted: 12/18/2004 8 09 AM
lol, now that poster has stamina! :P
Why do we fall in love? Well, because its a state where everything becomes a little better. Its a state where somehow, everything has a reason and anything is possible. I do love to be in love. | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/11/2006 12:25:43 PM | | I don't know. Period. But I do know I loved just about every person I ever met on some level or another and that's not even counting the pets! | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/11/2006 2:46:30 PM | | Falling in love is the easy bit. its when your still in love with someone. and you part ways. is the difficult bit.. falling out of love .. so to saying and move on some have no probs others take a long time some never do........ | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/11/2006 2:53:56 PM | Why do they call it "falling in love"?? Cause we keep falling.....and falling.....and falling, till we go splat?? Why don't they call it "splatting in love"?? Hmmmm.....just wondering. Ok, ok...I need  , I know. | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/11/2006 4:21:43 PM |
Why don't they call it "splatting in love"?? Hmmmm.....just wondering. Ok, ok...I need , I know.
perfect | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/13/2006 10:07:23 AM | ccarneyman
Your father is an extraordinary guy -- he is so right. If you are lucky (as I have been) and find that one person who you would never want to be without, don't screw up. There is nothing better than finding someone whose values and traits you admire over all else. Sex grabs the attention,, but it is the other person's character that keeps it.
I wish true love for all of you. The kind that makes taking care of someone through all the ups and downs, including illness to death and considering just the experience of having the privledge to be there with them a blessing. | |
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/13/2006 10:45:01 AM | There are three components to love. All must be "triggered" in the beloved in just the right way.
1. sex. male/female
2. their way of interacting with the world. introvert/ extrovert
3. their idea-self. liberal/ conservative
As these three aspects of the beloveds personality are affirmed, because they are the deepest most significant part of ones personality, they will experience a feeling so deep, so complete, that the one who causes this feeling in them will become the most important person in there life. Like a pinball machine, as each aspect of their personality is affirmed, now one then the other, the lights come on, and soon a cumulative effect happens, and all the lights light up and the ball shots like crazy! You'll take their breath away!
Only love can do this. Because it requires VERY CLOSE ATTENTION to the beloved. And is not attention just another form of love? She/he must inspire you! Not as just a sex object.
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/13/2006 11:08:57 AM |
I heard that only fools fall in love. I've never been in love and don't plan on it EVER!!!!!!
One can not plan on it or say that it will never happen. Love happens without restriction or bounds and avoiding it is an option, but controlling it is not. When true love grasps you, you will not even be aware of what is taking place but God will be there and you will learn of that which you deny yourself.
We fall in Love because that is our very purpose on this earth as human beings, to decipher the differences of the flesh from that of the soul. When true love presents itself it is a mere glimpse of what God has in store for us in the hereafter.
We are given tests throughout our span and falling in love is the greatest test of spiritual,intimate, and purely passionate being. So many times have we taken this for granted and instead of cultivating it, we try to control it and that is a paradox.
Love is unconditional and can only be found by those who have given it and can not be defined for True, unconditional Love is un-fathomable.
God Bless and best wishes to all
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| Why do we fall in LOVE?
Posted: 12/13/2006 12:57:07 PM |
To biologically bond individuals in order to cultivate stronger support systems for raising familes, protecting communities/towns and providing the necessary resources for survival of the species. Love is the quality which protects, saves, heals, and maintains the human species individual members. Without it, individuals have a less likely chance of surviving and reproducing. Self-love has the same quality of permitting the individual to incorporate their individual selves into the available resources.
An awesome concept!
Hats off to you, excellent post.
Now I must go ponder... | |
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