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 majyk1

Joined: 4/26/2009
Msg: 26
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oh my god.....i'm over him
Posted: 8/13/2009 9:23:00 PM
My only respons is wake me up when this thread is done.
 twofish22

Joined: 5/9/2009
Msg: 27
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Posted: 8/13/2009 10:40:40 PM
Your memory have just been over written.
 GoodWitchBeth

Joined: 2/21/2005
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Posted: 8/13/2009 10:43:18 PM
Yes, it happens, then you get your period, and WHAM! you're back to crying again.
But it does get easier as time goes on, until finally you stop crying completely. And you look at the man in your arms and think 'What was I crying so much for?'
Beth
 killene

Joined: 3/28/2009
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Posted: 8/13/2009 10:51:11 PM
It is not easy for some and others its as easy as walking out a door.
I think that the moment is when you truly realize there whole ramifications of why you broke up, especially if it was something they did.
My lightbulb I think was fairly quick in a way. It was actually added by my ex when I found out the depth to which his lies had gone. Actually best thing that ever happened.
 776877

Joined: 7/7/2009
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Posted: 8/13/2009 11:01:17 PM
'I don't think I will ever love a guy'_______________________


Oh come on now 8567...if you weren't hopeful you wouldn't be here ;-)
 Ezbthdrcy

Joined: 11/3/2008
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Posted: 8/13/2009 11:03:57 PM
Yes.
Especially because you were together with him for so long.
I think sometimes we get stuck loving the person that we used to be with, so much so that we don't notice the person they've become.
You can't go back in time to that guy that you first fell in love with, and I'm guessing that the guy's changed and so have you.
It's normal, and one day he'll be just a part of your past that brought you happiness while with him. :)
 Invictus74

Joined: 7/3/2009
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Posted: 8/14/2009 12:00:07 AM
The Necromancy skills of 8567 are unparalleled.

She can raise any thread from the dead.
 VivaciousVixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008
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Posted: 8/14/2009 12:16:02 AM
i think one of the biggest healing gifts that an ex can give you is for you to realize that he doesn't want you and doesn't care. if he did he would be with you. why would you want somebody who rejects you?
 gourmetchef2009

Joined: 7/9/2009
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Posted: 8/14/2009 4:21:03 AM
yep..happens to me the minute they walk out the door!!! lol..
 mustlovedogs480

Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 35
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Posted: 8/14/2009 4:59:53 AM
I have been very much in love and I was. But I was supposed to mold into whatever it was he wanted. I realized that I would rather be alone and be myself then be with someone who didn't love me for who I was anyway.
 ~GoneSailing~

Joined: 6/5/2009
Msg: 36
oh my god.....i'm over him
Posted: 8/14/2009 10:30:59 AM
Where in God's name does someone have to go to pull a thread back to life from the year 2005? Jeez.

I've been very much in love, and I've been very much conned.
Which one is real?
Don't know, learning how not to care.
 freedomagn

Joined: 2/17/2009
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Posted: 8/23/2009 12:30:45 PM
You'll know when it's over. You'll wake up and it hits you square in the face.
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