| men that love big women
Posted: 7/26/2009 1:37:51 PM | i never said fat girls were ugly. and id never make fun of them in person.
So you'd make fun of us... not in person? Maybe to a guy friend... who may happen to LIKE big women?
... no wonder men are scared to date women that turn them on.
Let me ask.... if you saw me (or any other big girl) in the gym... lifting weights along side of you. Even keeping up with you. You've seen this girl going for three months. You SEE the small changes happening in her slow weight loss... do you STILL go back to the locker room and make fun of her? Is she STILL ugly?? | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 7/26/2009 2:11:15 PM | Short men rule the world? I don't think so. Love tall men with broad shoulders. It sounds like your ego rules you. What would happen when you go to the club and actually meet a BBW and like her, would you ask her out? Or...would you be ashamed to be out in public with her? What would happen if a taller woman or BBW was ashamed to hang out with you? Try putting yourself in someone else's shoes. | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 7/26/2009 4:44:46 PM | ooOOOooo How DARE you!!
Well, the patriots ARE a bunch of girls, after all.
That Patriots will kick your ass and your mom's.
GO PATS!!!
(I found the above quote the most insulting, insensitive post I have ever seen on here. He must be a Detroit Lions fan.) | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 8/20/2009 7:59:47 PM | sorry,
I Think that you are,either broke or full of you know what.
This is coming from a 6ft tall blonde beautiful 250 pound women
Hope to talk soon | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 8/21/2009 1:32:33 AM | | I really love BBWs including the supersized ones have dated one who was 520lbs and she blew my mind...pity there arent more of them here in the uk...sigh. | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 8/21/2009 9:18:34 AM |
What would happen when you go to the club and actually meet a BBW and like her, would you ask her out? Or...would you be ashamed to be out in public with her?
I would never meet a BBW I would ever in the course of a million years feel lead to ask out.
Ever.
That said, the men who are attracted to a BBW in a club, and don't ask her out because of what they think someone may think.... is really pathetic. And those men don't deserve the happiness that a compatible woman could give them. | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 8/21/2009 4:30:15 PM | | what ever happened to Rubenesque women???? Seems either BBW or Skinny Minnie!! | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 8/21/2009 6:50:55 PM |
what ever happened to Rubenesque women????
We're still out here....
... No matter how much weight some of us lose... and how much muscle we gain... we will still have those Rubenesque curves. | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 8/22/2009 3:30:53 PM | My point may be irrelevant to this thread but,
I prefer petite (like 4'9"-5'5") and slim (100-110 lbs.) because I am 5'7" and weigh 133 lbs.
Just thoughts. | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 8/22/2009 4:37:50 PM |
That said, the men who are attracted to a BBW in a club, and don't ask her out because of what they think someone may think.... is really pathetic. And those men don't deserve the happiness that a compatible woman could give them.
This might explain why some men haven't the balls to go for women they are interested in... no matter what attracts them... their buddies are saying this to them...
I don't understand it and I personally think anyone 100lbs overweight is disgusting.
It's really absolutely fine to not be attracted to someone because of the way they look.
... But to say someone is disgusting... just by the way they look... really... ? | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 8/22/2009 5:01:51 PM | "...I personally think anyone 100lbs overweight is disgusting."
That's YOUR opinion. Everyone is entitled to thier opinion/preferences.
However, what's really Disgusting is the way some people will treat/behave towards you according to your wieght/appearance. As a person who has lost over 75 pounds in the past year and a half, I KNOW what this is like! Funny how some people will practically ignore you AND/OR basically treat you like trash, until you lose wieght.
I have learned that people who behave like two-faced, fair-weather-(or rather "fair-weighted")-"friends" are self-centered, untrust-worthy, immature idiots....and THAT behaviour is absolutely DISGUSTING! | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 8/22/2009 5:06:40 PM | | I am a 'petite' rubenesque woman (155lbs size 12)with curves!!! 36-28-42 and proud of them curves in all the right places. When I was heavier I found it much easier to attract men. I think the majority of men are attracted to obese/large women because they think that obese/large women don't have standards. But, I have a hard time getting a date now that I'm 'thinner'! | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 8/23/2009 8:21:10 AM | | Well how pathetic is that to think that larger frame women dont have standards. I think that actually our standards are higher, well at least mine are. Would definitly be considered a rubenesque woman. If anything I get looks for being so damn curvy more than anything. | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 8/23/2009 10:17:13 AM | I would never meet a BBW I would ever in the course of a million years feel lead to ask out.
that's fine because i'm sure BBW's would never ever go out with you in a million years either!! | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 8/23/2009 10:18:42 AM | No, I don't understand it and I personally think anyone 100lbs overweight is disgusting.
well that is YOUR opinion,not everyone's. personally i find short men disgusting but that's just me. | |
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Posted: 9/28/2009 1:54:35 PM | | I am a big girl and can say that I am not ashamed at how I look. You are so right to say it is a choice. I am not a shallow person and LOVE to read a book before you judge it. Pretty sad in the society that we live in people are still shallow. One thing that I would appreciate is that if you want a skinny or barbie doll say it in your profile. It does not hurt my feelings if that is the person you will only settle for. But save me some time when I read thru profiles. Then I would not contact that person because hey, then you would not be a good fit for me. So I am not shallow I love men and do not judge until we chat. CUZ hey first impressions are everything! | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 9/28/2009 2:01:26 PM | | I have to agree w/ you. My standards are very high. I want to be treated like a lady,have old fashion standards and morals. Honesty ,Integrity, Respect and most of all live by the "Golden Rule". I never ever sleep w/someone on the first date or do one night stands. Don't get me wrong I have plenty of opportunities however I want more than that. | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 9/28/2009 2:16:42 PM | Dear GR8 D8,
How dare you say I am fat because I sit in a ice cream parlor. Yes some I have to agree sit in an ice cream parlor. Mine is genetics. Next because we are fat we are lazy. You are a fine peice of work and need to self check. You ignorant man. We live in a melting pot in our society and no one should be sterotyped. I bet you say things about racism as well. | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 9/29/2009 6:41:09 AM | | There are a lot of men who only go for big women. I'm not the smallest woman in the world and the guys I have dated either don't see weight as an issue or only like bigger women. I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A lot of women out there only like skinny guys with no muscles so i guess the same thing can happen in men, you can be attracted to someone who wouldn't be seen as desirable to everyone else quite easily. | |
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| men that love big women
Posted: 9/29/2009 8:53:55 AM | | Human beings are quite flexible and adapt to their surroundings and options well. People tend to develop preferences that they can attain. If my preferences didn't match the women I can actually date, then I would be an aberration. The same thing goes for everyone. If you cannot find a person (you are attracted to) to date, then your standards are too high, or you need to work on your own appearance (or whatever it is that's holding you back... Finances, personality, personal hygiene....) in order to elevate your quality of options. | |
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