| ugly men
Posted: 2/2/2007 5:23:10 PM | | I will say this as simply and clearly as I could. NOBODY is ugly....everyone has something nice about them. sure some peoples attitudes, ideas, views and philosophies may be considered ugly, but physically speaking, no one is ugly, I just don't beleive in using that word when describing someones appearance.....because that is uncaring and very insensitive. | |
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M2k7
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Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 127 | |
| ugly men
Posted: 2/2/2007 6:09:40 PM | Guy, just because one is unasthetic, it doesn't mean he is unattractive... The unattractiveness comes from the lack of self confidence. There are skads of 'less than beautiful' men that get incredible (looking) women.
If that's all you desire, then you need to have a position of power - CEO or president of something... A high profile or creative job, or something that is life altering... (doctor)
Women respect confidence, drive, ambition, coupled that with humour, a little compassion, and creativity - you'd be surprised how much attention you get.
The last thing they want is someone's ego to mop up, | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 2/2/2007 7:30:57 PM | Take life by the tail and make friends >>>lots of them. Treat them all like gold and respect them for all their wonder and flaws but let them know where your boundaries are.
Be the guy that everyone knows your name.
Travel, cook, garden, collect something do anything your heart truly desires.
Be happy for being alive... life is not short >>>>>its long but can fly by so fast.. you have to have memories to look back on and cherish ... good or bad. That's life. That's living.
Don't settle! Stop caring about being alone. Love yourself first.
Women don't want georgous men.... They want beautiful ones. Inside and Out!!!
What I mean is... and I'll reverse the roles....
you can see the most beautiful woman in the world that has the personality of a nasty viscious viper that turns you upside down, inside out and eventually turns you right off and makes you run like hell even though she screwed like a bunny.
and meet an ugly woman that because of her warmth, compassion and gentle ways she becomes more beautiful each time you see her. You are always glad to see her and very very comfortable to bask in her warmth as you enjoy her company as much as everyone else you meet with her. She has many friends and a close family. Everyone is always welcome...and man can she cook!
What is ugly anyway. Who defines it. Its an individual thing.
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Jadore
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Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 129 | |
| ugly men
Posted: 2/2/2007 9:17:10 PM | | I would strongly agree with forum chick on this one....confidence attracts me all the time..and intelligence.... | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 2/2/2007 9:44:45 PM | | I would say don't settle. There is someone out there who will find this guy attractive! People are attracted to other people for a variety of reasons. Maybe it is not his looks that is the reason for women not giving him the time of day, but his approach and social skills! These can be worked on and altered to help him relate better to females. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 2/2/2007 11:41:40 PM | | Well, considering I am one of those dudes, it's best just to focus on your career or whatever you have. You make the fortune 500 and buy you some expensive toys or something like that and travel the world an "ugly" dude will find someone over in another place "just because" he is so "odd" looking. Then maybe you can turn the tables on the people who called that person "ugly" when they are pregnant from their 3rd "attractive" babies father. Looking for someone to take care of them and "love" them so. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 2/3/2007 8:44:19 AM | | Work hard ,be successful look at all the ugly fkers that are actors that pull women ..Power is suductive for women . | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 2/3/2007 11:03:34 AM | This website clearly is not meant for someone who is not attractive, or doesn't look good in pictures..
because most men and women here, want nothing to do with them... | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 2/3/2007 11:29:09 AM | | Be your self and bide your time, your time will come. Maybe you are aiming too high, I don't know, but the big thing is to put yourself out there. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 2/3/2007 11:47:27 AM | | Find an ugly woman. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 2/4/2007 4:07:45 PM | | Date ugly chicks... There is someone out there for everyone. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 2/4/2007 5:08:15 PM | I have never looked at another human being and formed an opinion about them. I've met people that were truly ugly on the inside, which spills like acid to the outside, and I've met some really beautiful people, but again, it came from inside. I can't stand when someone makes rude or crude remarks about another person. When they do, it tells me alot about who I am standing beside. As the old saying goes, never judge a book by its cover.
I have to say I was really surprised at some of the posters insensitivity to the question. Boy if only we could all be so perfect, to give such helpful advice!! | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 8/11/2007 6:52:54 PM | | My sentiments exactly! Treat me bad once, shame on you, treat me bad twice, shame on me. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 8/12/2007 8:52:13 PM | | I see "ugly" guys with hot women all the time... I mean, I almost think it's unfair! | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 8/13/2007 11:57:26 AM | Just because you are unattractive to one person that doesn't mean that your life stops......for crying out loud, getting a hobby and what retreating inside yourself to become an introvert.
Go out and continue living your life, embrace the people in your life at present...ie: family and friends. Do things you enjoy, have fun with your life. When the time is right you will meet the person that is meant to be with you.
Thinking that you are unattractive and believing it only makes people see you in that light. Think positive and do positive things and you will attract those things in your life.
That's my two cents.... | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 8/13/2007 1:38:21 PM | | Do what I do, play a lot of video games! | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 8/13/2007 4:24:30 PM | | I suggest you find ways to become even more distinctively ugly. You may have noticed the phenomenon that at some point ugly becomes "cute" to some women. However, if your personality is also ugly, you are doomed. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 9/10/2007 1:19:15 AM | Work hard....work smart....make big bucks....and watch women come to you....but beware they still don't want you.....they want the cash and thats all you can do. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 9/10/2007 5:37:05 AM | Well, in my experience, majority of women (90% of those on this site) are shallow, arrogant and ultra picky.
Alot of women here believe that because they have put a pic on their profile gives them the right to demand a pic from the guys stating "i put my pic on my profile, its only fair you do the same".
I always laugh when a woman says that, cause i always think "why should i show you a pic as soon as we start chatting? i never asked you to put your pic on your profile, you did it yourself!"
But in the end, i do understand before you meet someone face to face, you need to see a pic, but i never plan to meet anyone, even if we do decide we liked each other, i would need like 4+ months before i meet them, if a woman needs a pic as soon as they meet me, they don't even deserve to see a pic and if they demand it, they get an instant block from me.
Either Way, the site says you will get 80% more replies or so with a pic on my profile.....sorry, but they are wrong, it hasn't changed, its still 0-5% chance of a reply and the 5% are taken and only looking for friends. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 9/10/2007 9:41:43 AM |
Well, in my experience, majority of women (90% of those on this site) are shallow, arrogant and ultra picky.
Maybe this is why they are still single LOL
I don't know if I'd say 90% but you are right the number is pretty high.......their just playing games.....maybe passing time at work (I've seen it myself) they get together with their friends and laugh at guys on here.....they like to see how far they can lead them on.......but don't worry about it at least it's free.....and maybe........just maybe......you will meet a real woman in that remaining 10% | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 9/11/2007 5:06:51 PM | @Sweetieguy_81
Well, in my experience, majority of women (90% of those on this site) are shallow, arrogant and ultra picky.
Right...so we should all just take the first guy that shows an interest in us to be our man ? Where's our sense of self worth ? We are not shallow...we have preferences for what kind of man attracts us...Just like you prefer more meat on your woman.
the site says you will get 80% more replies or so with a pic on my profile.....sorry, but they are wrong, it hasn't changed
Quit with the negativity and you might find yourself a lot happier...One pic of you that looks like your about to fall asleep is hardly gonna get you women swarming to your profile...Add a few different photos with you actually looking at the camera...maybe outside in the sun and you might have better luck...
With your attitude it's no wonder you're not having any luck on this dating site...you need a can of *lighten up*... 
It's all to do with attitude... | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 3/9/2008 4:06:53 AM | | good question as i am ugly but very feminine but no one wants me in the new forest | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 3/9/2008 6:16:49 AM | | i think we all want somone we can look at and think they are nice looking...but sometimes thats all we look at...it's like waken up on xmas morning and two gifts are under the tree for us...one wraped in beauitful paper with a nice bow...thats the one we open first...but sometimes there is a surprise...what we really want is in the gift thats not wraped to nicely...look at whats on the inside you may just find what you really want...on these sites we are like a kid in a cande y store we have to much to choose from... | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 3/9/2008 6:45:13 AM | | i find that working all the time helps. too bad the currency markets are closed on weekends :( | |
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