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Posted: 3/9/2008 6:28:12 PM | | Workout! Build some muscles, women will drool, I have seen it. | |
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Posted: 3/9/2008 7:52:22 PM | Mail order brides
I've known several men have done this, worked out great.
No one should ever be alone, its a big world, just use that brain of yours and you'll find the woman perfect for you.
Good luck! | |
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Posted: 3/9/2008 8:35:33 PM | For every ugly man there is an ugly woman.
I would suggest compromising a little on what yo uwant. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 5:51:31 AM | | what appears on the outside may in fact be rotted on the inside...There is so much more than looks... | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 8:07:56 AM | I HAVE SEEN SOME REAL UGLY DUDES WITH HOT HOT CHICKS AND VICE CERSA
Who cares life is short, insercurity is a terrible thing, it so aint about looks, it is about confidence that is all it is.U need to see someone that makes u feel condifent, there is plenty of ugly women matey, this crap is defined by books and kids read those books then kids grow up with this fictious ideal of being beatiful then the next generation is a bit more superficial then the last.
Be urself and forget the ideal of u being ugly and alone which u project onto every furture partner u meet,it is all a mindset, women are intuitive extremly they can sense ur insecurity by looking at u, ur poor body language would suggest a weak self image.They work of body language, is not really upto a woman to find u but for u to find her is much easier than waiting for something to walk through ur front door.Rejection is such a good thing being uncomfortable and not in a comfort zone is a really good thing, this brings growth and that is what u need to move forward.
U NEED A WINGMAN WHEN U GO OUT TAKE A MATE THAT TELLS U HOW GREAT U ARE ALL NIGHT AND CAN BREAK ICE LIKE A MOTHERFARKEr | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 8:54:38 AM | | hi im sick of hearing men feeling sorry for them selves..why is it always men chasing women it should be the other way round if u ask me.when i look at the internet sites i see girls who r not even pretty being sent 100000 of messages then i look at some blokes who look quite cool and they get none.i think this shit needs to be reversed..i think men send so many cheesy over the top messages that it goes to some womens head and they think they r beautiful. i know men need sex more than women its in the master plan but they should act a bit more aloof.i think the internet has really not helped the common man at all .dont get me wrong ive always been quite sucessful with women and very much respect them but i think the internet makes alot of blokes feel a bit down..so girls if u get a message from a guy even if u dont fancy him say hello back..people should be resperctful.and men stop being slimy **stards..peace out | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 8:54:55 AM | | hi im sick of hearing men feeling sorry for them selves..why is it always men chasing women it should be the other way round if u ask me.when i look at the internet sites i see girls who r not even pretty being sent 100000 of messages then i look at some blokes who look quite cool and they get none.i think this shit needs to be reversed..i think men send so many cheesy over the top messages that it goes to some womens head and they think they r beautiful. i know men need sex more than women its in the master plan but they should act a bit more aloof.i think the internet has really not helped the common man at all .dont get me wrong ive always been quite sucessful with women and very much respect them but i think the internet makes alot of blokes feel a bit down..so girls if u get a message from a guy even if u dont fancy him say hello back..people should be resperctful.and men stop being slimy **stards..peace out | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 9:05:57 AM | Since you are so insecure about your looks there is only one solution that will satisfy both you and the woman who can stand to be with you without ultimately destroying the relationship…………
You need a woman who is BLIND | |
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Posted: 3/10/2008 11:37:33 AM |
If there is a guy that is considered to be unattractive and he is straight (that is, heterosexual) but women never give him the time of day, what would be the best thing for him to do to enjoy his life since he might have to settle for being alone?
find a hobby or something you are passionate about.
and i don't mean 'girl watching' lol
Workout! Build some muscles, women will drool, I have seen it.
So what happens after he takes the time to build muscles strictly to impress ladies....and the ladies aren't impressed? he's wasted his time since he wasn't working out for 'himself'....he was working out for 'the ladies' and the ladies don't care.
Either work out to make yourself feel better... or don't do it at all. Working out to impress ladies is stupid and accomplishes nothing. | |
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Posted: 3/18/2008 11:21:06 AM | | There's someone for everyone. Work on improving yourself any way you are able. This applies to everyone. | |
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Posted: 3/18/2008 1:19:31 PM | Havent you all been watching "House" when the Dr says to a patient that a 5 marries a 5 and a 10 marries a 10?? Now there was some detail in this script in " if a woman is a 10 in looks and marries a 5 but he has not got the looks of a 10 he must have the success/intelligence/money/confidence etc of a 10"....
I got that point....and thought it was clevely put.... | |
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Posted: 3/18/2008 2:01:31 PM | | He should emphasize his intelligence, wit and humor...come on, you can't tell me that people like Nicholas Cage, Lyle Lovett and Jeff Goldblum are good looking, but they are very magnetic personalities! | |
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Posted: 5/24/2008 3:42:04 PM | OP - I agree with forumchick. Confidence is very attractive...I think confidence comes from liking yourself.
The way I think about it is: It doesn't matter how good-looking, rich or young you are....there's always someone more good-looking, richer and younger than you out there. It's not a competition, everyone brings something different to the mix. Find out what makes YOU special. No one out there can be you, except YOU.
Just my opinion  | |
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Posted: 5/24/2008 7:54:08 PM |
If there is a guy that is considered to be unattractive and he is straight (that is, heterosexual) but women never give him the time of day, what would be the best thing for him to do to enjoy his life since he might have to settle for being alone?
Move to Nevada. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 11:41:22 AM | "If there is a guy that is considered to be unattractive and he is straight (that is, heterosexual) but women never give him the time of day, what would be the best thing for him to do to enjoy his life since he might have to settle for being alone?"
Move to Ameterdam | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 5:50:29 PM | Well, if this ugly guy is giving out self hatred vibes then no woman will ever be attracted to him... If he doesn't love himself no one will ever love him!
I just go around pretending that I think I'm the most handsome and intelligent bachelor in my whole town. And women DO give me the time of day! I... really don't get much more than that but knowing what time it is can be helpful... | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 8:53:17 PM | | What a terrible concept. I don't think there are ugly men, just some men are not attractive to all just like women are not attractive to all men. We can't all like one another, it would be one big orgy. On 2nd thought...lol. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 8:58:53 PM | An ugly woman can get laid by just going into a bar and saying, "I'm horny, anyone up for some fun?" She may not get the pick of the litter, but she will be able to go home with someone.
An ugly guy in the same situation would have every female in the place heading in the opposite direction. | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 9:21:41 PM |
What a terrible concept. I don't think there are ugly men.... - pbaby21 (Msg 169)
That's a wonderful and noble thought, but... | |
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Posted: 5/29/2008 9:59:43 PM | | Google "Ross Jeffries." Take a look at his mug. Realize that he is considered by many to be the best pickup artist in the world. Then come back to me and say with a straight face that being ugly is a handicap when it comes to attracting women. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2008 4:08:10 PM | I am a ugly men that turned to music.
I think music is a good thing for ugly men. so I focus on music. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2008 5:33:00 PM | | Most men who are physically fit are attractive, maybe that will boost your confidence, get fit, and cleanliness goes a long way with women, good luck with self esteem issues | |
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Posted: 6/30/2008 5:57:42 PM |
Since you are so insecure about your looks there is only one solution that will satisfy both you and the woman who can stand to be with you without ultimately destroying the relationship…………
You need a woman who is BLIND
Blind Chicks are hot.... uhhh... mostly.... in movies....
Errr......
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Posted: 6/30/2008 6:49:51 PM | | They say there is someone for everyone. I am sure that every one here could be dating someone right now - just none of us like the people who like us. Ugly women need love too. Or maybe there's a blind woman somewhere. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2008 11:55:22 PM | I don't exactly know what you mean by ugly, but I bet everyone could be improved by a makeover (even if it's just a psychological effect that makes you feel better about yourself, which then shows up to other people). Without knowing what you are insecure about specifically, I can't know what would help, but here are some examples that could help most people:
- getting a decent, up-to-date haircutand facial hair trim or shave can do wonders (yes, this might seem a waste of money, especially if you go to someone talented, as they will be expensive, but it really is worth it).
- get someone to show you how to pick out a nice flattering outfit. Something a bit dressy, but also casual, that would be nice on a date. Button down shirt, for example. If you wear glasses, get some up to date frames (get help picking them out).
- fix whatever it is that is bothering you - if you have huge boils on your arm, or a major acne problem, go see a doctor about it. If you have crooked or yellow teeth, talk to your dentist. If you are self-conscious about your weight, get on a program or get a personal trainer. Work on some muscle definition at a gym if this will make you feel good.
- I know this sounds girly, but it can really make a difference - go to a spa for a skin treatment like a facial, or to tidy up your nails. Some men have the most grotesque toe nails, and a good pedicure could solve that easily.
In other words, if you feel ugly, do something about it. If this doesn't help at all, it's time to book an appointment with a counsellor and get a little help in raising your self esteem. Walking around calling yourself ugly is NOT healthy. It's just like going to any other kind of doctor. They are there to help. | |
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