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Joined: 10/14/2006
Msg: 176 | |
| ugly men
Posted: 7/1/2008 1:02:27 AM | | Don't worry about it man!When i was a kid..i was so ugly my momma used to feed me with a sling shot.And still found one woman who found me attractive a few years back. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 11:58:54 AM | Well, i'm personally waiting for a TBT (total body transplant)   | |
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Zain.
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Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 178 | |
| ugly men
Posted: 7/2/2008 3:05:14 PM | "Confidence is very attractive...I think confidence comes from liking yourself. "
if you're ugly you're ugly all the confidence in the world won't change that. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 3:42:59 PM | | Since I never get any takers I guess that makes me ugly too... | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 8:08:55 PM |
If there is a guy that is considered to be unattractive and he is straight (that is, heterosexual) but women never give him the time of day, what would be the best thing for him to do to enjoy his life since he might have to settle for being alone?
There is always plastic surgery. 
Nah, but just because someone thinks a women/man is unattractive doesn't mean they are automatically ugly to everyone in the world. "Beauty is on the eye of the beholder" I dont know if someone wrote that already but it's true. 50 million people out there can think I am the most unattractive lady on earth but there might be a handful who thinks otherwise and knowing that would make me feel dandy.  | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 8:22:10 PM |
If there is a guy that is considered to be unattractive and he is straight (that is, heterosexual) but women never give him the time of day, what would be the best thing for him to do to enjoy his life since he might have to settle for being alone?
Yup. That's pretty much what I do. We've all got something we can give, ugly or not, and fortunately there's more in life than girls. | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 9:05:29 PM | | if you're concerned about your appearance (and it seems you are), there are always ways to spiff it up. a confident demeanor will also add to your allure. best wishes! | |
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| ugly men ... can find love tooooooo!!!
Posted: 7/2/2008 9:06:36 PM | | Anyone who actually thinks that fugly people can't find someone to love, needs to check out the Success Story section of this site! I guarantee you'll change your mind! There are some seriously fugly people profiled in there. Oooooooowe! | |
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Posted: 7/9/2008 2:18:22 PM | | Being PHYSICALLY unattractive doesn't mean you can't meet a wonderful, beautiful woman. Some of us look deeper. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2008 10:54:19 PM | This post has taken a bad turn; some people are trying to be serious and some people are just acting like insensitive jerks.
Not getting it. No one in this post should quit there day job. not funny. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2008 1:09:42 AM | | I'm starting to believe women are attracted to 2 things and they are young sexy guys or money. | |
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Joined: 6/15/2008
Msg: 188 | |
| ugly men
Posted: 7/10/2008 1:53:10 AM | Make alot of money then use that to entice women.
U will need to lie ... yes reality sucks but look at it this way - if a woman has sex with U because of your money - she deserves to be exploited.
If U do not have the looks - U better have the money or learn to lie and cheat them. | |
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Posted: 7/10/2008 4:59:54 AM | In the end we all feel a little insecure , and confidence sometimes over runs into arrogance , and illusions of greatness .
self confidence , being humble , and identifying the things that make you happy , and seeking those out . the rest with a woman will fall into place .
Personally as far as an "ugly woman" , Your personality has to be lacking , before i would say that . I would give anyone that licked with me a fair chance , i respond to personals without pictures , because looks are secondary to me .
Im personally not a handsome man . im average at best , but i believe that my personality plays alot into the attention i get . I can only attest that to the fact that i have a decent profile outlining who i am and what i want , and i write a decent email , trying to really get to know the women i talk too .
Sometimes a good conversation goes a long way , and thats all they need to see past any physical short comings .
Case in point , there are amputees that find women that are perfectly normal , and fall in love . Quadriplegics still get married , it happens ! Ugly is only a malfunction of the personality. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2009 10:34:03 PM | common buddy, how ugly could you possibly be?
Okay, three years ago, i used to think i was super ugly. turns out thats not true. I just didn't take proper care of myself, and was way too hard on myself.
there is someone for everyone, i believe it truly (even though I didn't find my guy yet, but I'm eccentric) so don't go chasing nothing but the girls who actually appeal to you and not the stereotypical "you want" girls
next, you can convince girls you're beautiful. be a beautiful person. Loving and kind and confident, helpful, loyal, you know, the classic "needs to haves". if love is there, how you look really doesn't matter
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Posted: 8/13/2009 10:55:30 PM |
Being PHYSICALLY unattractive doesn't mean you can't meet a wonderful, beautiful woman. Some of us look deeper.
Oh that is Bull Crap.
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Posted: 8/14/2009 1:53:49 AM | I had a good friend, a guy, who was not what most girls would find physically attractive. He had acne, his mom insisted on cutting his hair, she bought the dorkiest clothes for him, and the poor guy had a unibrow. But he was smart, funny, and though most girls wouldn't give him the time of day, he was a really wonderful guy
I convinced him to get a job after school and start making his own cash. Then we went shopping and I helped him pick out some nice clothes that helped him fit in with the regular kids. I also took him to a dermatologist who worked with his skin and cleared up the acne problem. I personally took the tweezers to the unibrow, and after literally hours and hours of sitting on the toilet in my bathroom (God love his heart, he bore the pain like a man) I had him two eyebrows that still looked manly, but showed his eyes. We went to a good salon and got him an awesome haircut.
He looked in the mirror, and for the first time, actually liked what he saw. He felt good about himself, and though I had been telling him for years what a great guy he was, he felt that his outward appearance was starting to reflect his inner qualities.
When we went to school, my friends, who before had wondered why I had hung out with a guy they considered to be 'beneath me' (I really hate that term), well they started giving him a chance.They took the time to get to know him, and began to see what I had known all along, he was an awesome guy. Being a good person, he looked past their former behavior, and started over in getting to know them as well.
He had his first date, with one of the prettier, but shyer girls in our class. They went to the prom together and had a blast. They were a good couple and dated for a long time.
He and I still stay in touch, he is married with children, and has an excellent education and wonderful job. We laugh now about me 'makng him over', but I feel that I did no more than give him a little direction in making the outside reflect the inside.
If you are unhappy with the way you look, do something about it. Don't wear unattractive clothing, have a bad haircut, poor hygiene, and poor manners and expect a woman who takes care of herself to fall into your lap. Don't sit on the couch and eat Cheetos and play video games or Majic and bemoan the state of your loneliness. Be proactive and make your life what you want it to be.
Beth | |
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Posted: 8/14/2009 5:47:49 PM | Beth that is a really cool story. Nice.
Attractiveness is entirely subjective. If you think you're ugly, so will everyone else. Learn to appreciate and like/love yourself. If there are things you can update - hair, styling, clothes, go to the gym/get in better shape - do that. Sometimes a makeover can do wonders. Be the best "you" you can be - start slow but try - you will be OK. | |
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Posted: 8/14/2009 6:22:18 PM | Make a LOT of money.. Hollywood has shown us many many a wealthy man who has hotties ALL over him. Forget cosmetic surgery and just go for the golddigger gene that seems to be somewhere in most women.. and then, once you have their attention.. select out the ones that are also kind, considerate and loving..
Oh.. make sure you prenup them all.. and wear condoms at all times to not get trapped | |
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