| ugly men
Posted: 6/30/2008 5:57:42 PM |
Since you are so insecure about your looks there is only one solution that will satisfy both you and the woman who can stand to be with you without ultimately destroying the relationship…………
You need a woman who is BLIND
Blind Chicks are hot.... uhhh... mostly.... in movies....
Errr......
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| ugly men
Posted: 6/30/2008 6:49:51 PM | | They say there is someone for everyone. I am sure that every one here could be dating someone right now - just none of us like the people who like us. Ugly women need love too. Or maybe there's a blind woman somewhere. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 6/30/2008 11:55:22 PM | I don't exactly know what you mean by ugly, but I bet everyone could be improved by a makeover (even if it's just a psychological effect that makes you feel better about yourself, which then shows up to other people). Without knowing what you are insecure about specifically, I can't know what would help, but here are some examples that could help most people:
- getting a decent, up-to-date haircutand facial hair trim or shave can do wonders (yes, this might seem a waste of money, especially if you go to someone talented, as they will be expensive, but it really is worth it).
- get someone to show you how to pick out a nice flattering outfit. Something a bit dressy, but also casual, that would be nice on a date. Button down shirt, for example. If you wear glasses, get some up to date frames (get help picking them out).
- fix whatever it is that is bothering you - if you have huge boils on your arm, or a major acne problem, go see a doctor about it. If you have crooked or yellow teeth, talk to your dentist. If you are self-conscious about your weight, get on a program or get a personal trainer. Work on some muscle definition at a gym if this will make you feel good.
- I know this sounds girly, but it can really make a difference - go to a spa for a skin treatment like a facial, or to tidy up your nails. Some men have the most grotesque toe nails, and a good pedicure could solve that easily.
In other words, if you feel ugly, do something about it. If this doesn't help at all, it's time to book an appointment with a counsellor and get a little help in raising your self esteem. Walking around calling yourself ugly is NOT healthy. It's just like going to any other kind of doctor. They are there to help. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 7/1/2008 1:02:27 AM | | Don't worry about it man!When i was a kid..i was so ugly my momma used to feed me with a sling shot.And still found one woman who found me attractive a few years back. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 7/2/2008 11:58:54 AM | Well, i'm personally waiting for a TBT (total body transplant)   | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 7/2/2008 2:22:59 PM | you'd never see a thread like this coming from wimminz here..
Men can look in the mirror and say hey look at this ugly sack of ..... and laugh....
I've never met a woman who could do that...
Ugly mofo #181, reporting for duty...  | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 7/2/2008 3:05:14 PM | "Confidence is very attractive...I think confidence comes from liking yourself. "
if you're ugly you're ugly all the confidence in the world won't change that. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 7/2/2008 3:42:59 PM | | Since I never get any takers I guess that makes me ugly too... | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 7/2/2008 5:27:54 PM |
if you're ugly you're ugly all the confidence in the world won't change that.
I agree. It doesn't matter how much confidence you have. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 7/2/2008 8:08:55 PM |
If there is a guy that is considered to be unattractive and he is straight (that is, heterosexual) but women never give him the time of day, what would be the best thing for him to do to enjoy his life since he might have to settle for being alone?
There is always plastic surgery. 
Nah, but just because someone thinks a women/man is unattractive doesn't mean they are automatically ugly to everyone in the world. "Beauty is on the eye of the beholder" I dont know if someone wrote that already but it's true. 50 million people out there can think I am the most unattractive lady on earth but there might be a handful who thinks otherwise and knowing that would make me feel dandy.  | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 7/2/2008 8:22:10 PM |
If there is a guy that is considered to be unattractive and he is straight (that is, heterosexual) but women never give him the time of day, what would be the best thing for him to do to enjoy his life since he might have to settle for being alone?
Yup. That's pretty much what I do. We've all got something we can give, ugly or not, and fortunately there's more in life than girls. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 7/2/2008 9:05:29 PM | | if you're concerned about your appearance (and it seems you are), there are always ways to spiff it up. a confident demeanor will also add to your allure. best wishes! | |
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| ugly men ... can find love tooooooo!!!
Posted: 7/2/2008 9:06:36 PM | | Anyone who actually thinks that fugly people can't find someone to love, needs to check out the Success Story section of this site! I guarantee you'll change your mind! There are some seriously fugly people profiled in there. Oooooooowe! | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 7/9/2008 2:18:22 PM | | Being PHYSICALLY unattractive doesn't mean you can't meet a wonderful, beautiful woman. Some of us look deeper. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 7/9/2008 10:54:19 PM | This post has taken a bad turn; some people are trying to be serious and some people are just acting like insensitive jerks.
Not getting it. No one in this post should quit there day job. not funny. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 7/10/2008 1:09:42 AM | | I'm starting to believe women are attracted to 2 things and they are young sexy guys or money. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 7/10/2008 1:53:10 AM | Make alot of money then use that to entice women.
U will need to lie ... yes reality sucks but look at it this way - if a woman has sex with U because of your money - she deserves to be exploited.
If U do not have the looks - U better have the money or learn to lie and cheat them. | |
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| ugly men
Posted: 7/10/2008 4:59:54 AM | In the end we all feel a little insecure , and confidence sometimes over runs into arrogance , and illusions of greatness .
self confidence , being humble , and identifying the things that make you happy , and seeking those out . the rest with a woman will fall into place .
Personally as far as an "ugly woman" , Your personality has to be lacking , before i would say that . I would give anyone that licked with me a fair chance , i respond to personals without pictures , because looks are secondary to me .
Im personally not a handsome man . im average at best , but i believe that my personality plays alot into the attention i get . I can only attest that to the fact that i have a decent profile outlining who i am and what i want , and i write a decent email , trying to really get to know the women i talk too .
Sometimes a good conversation goes a long way , and thats all they need to see past any physical short comings .
Case in point , there are amputees that find women that are perfectly normal , and fall in love . Quadriplegics still get married , it happens ! Ugly is only a malfunction of the personality. | |
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