| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 11/30/2005 5:22:02 AM | We are friends for the children. Would I reconsile no, once a snake always a snake. Once the trust is gone so am I. I wouldn't have had my kids if it weren't for him but..... Do I want to go through that distrust again NO THANKS.
Now I do have an ex beau I wouldn't mind hooking back up with, but that would only be for sex. So I guess not. | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 12/26/2005 10:02:13 AM | Sure - would be nice but I know it won't happen. Hopefully we can still be friends, can never have too many good friends
Update - Hell NO! | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 12/26/2005 10:51:26 AM | | We are friends now...We get along better now then we did before, which is cool. But we would never get back together, no way, nope not gonna happen..lol | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 12/26/2005 4:41:22 PM | I did take my ex back after he lived with his g/f for a year.
Now he is on Plenty of Fish, trying to see what else is out there. He is so mixed up he doesn't know WHAT he wants. I have stood by him through thick and thin, and still going through hell because of it.
He may wake up one day a very lonely and broke man - my lawyer will always be better than HIS lawyer. If he doesn't stop farting around online, and start fixing what's broken at home, he is going to the curb. I can't live my life looking over my shoulder and wondering if he is still cheating. | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 12/26/2005 4:46:28 PM | After what she did & how she went about it I would have to be totally out of my mind to ever even think about it. Nope not gonna happen. she has made her bed & will have to live with it now & forever. I will move on. Who ever I wind up with will never have to worry about what might happen if she comes back into my life because it simply won't be tolerated by me  | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 12/26/2005 7:39:26 PM | Uhm...no.
You see I have this theory...
Relationships are like a carton of milk. If you take a carton out of the fridge and see it's gone bad, you throw it out. You don't put it back and hope that the next time you try it, it'll be better. | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 12/27/2005 9:04:57 AM | Take my ex-husband back....absolutely no way!
I would however take my ex-boyfriend back, if he would take me back since I did the breaking up. There were hurts at the time but I think both of us managed to minimize them as much as possible. Our relationship ended due to the long distance over the space of several years and neither of us relocating although we tried. Now, we are in a difference space in our life and the distance issue would easily be resolved. A case of bad timing in our lives!  | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 12/28/2005 12:33:40 AM | | HELL NO......besides, after 5 years I didn't get to know who she really was anyways....I found out the last 2 monthes,,,,,sad | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 12/28/2005 12:43:32 AM | seems to be that the answer for everyone is NO!!
good call..good call.
i tried that with mine.
was worse the second time around.
saw more and more of her flaws. | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 12/28/2005 10:14:44 PM | | The longer I am on my own and the more I see of that btard....I have to question my sanity at the time I married him...I kid you not! Best thing I got from that union was my two children...I entered into having children but did not think for one minute that they would be MY total responsibility....but they were as they are now that I am on my own....and I don't begrudge that for one minute....but could honestly say in my heart of hearts....there is no way in hell that I would ever go back to that....not spurned, vindictive, nor spitefull....just totally real here for the first time in years! | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 12/28/2005 11:46:45 PM | sigh... I missed out on the Ex this year. Meant to get out and try the deep-fried chocolate bars, but I just couldn't get away from work.
Wait a minute.... we're not talking about the C.N.E.? | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 12/29/2005 2:24:00 AM | | the way i see it, if it isn't there it will never be there so why bother with it, i would sit and have a coffee with her or go for lunch as a friend but to try and rekindle that old flame NOT!!! | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 9/9/2006 7:56:46 AM | My good friend and her ex got back together and remarried after about 5 years apart. He was going through some pretty tough stuff and "chose" to do it alone, really pushing her hard out of the way. With time and counselling he got his act back together and the 2 of them were able to work it out.
Abuse--no way! | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 9/9/2006 9:59:26 AM | Well most of you said "NO" but if i had the chance to go back to my ex i would. The thing is ive known this guy for 25 yrs and we were on and off for 13 yrs so i dont even know if its considered an ex or even a b/f when its a long distance relationship and that you only saw him maybe 4 times total in person in 13 yrs.. We talked a lot on the phone (and yes phone sex for those who's wondering) lol but the thing is as soon as the word committment would come up he'd find excuses not to talk about it. I got tired of the phone sex after awhile because i needed the real thing and so our fights would cause a few months of not talking. He knew of my financial situation and that i couldnt move to where he lived but because he kept talking about moving me and my kids in with him i felt i didnt need to find the money for that. Of course i did intend to find a job once i was there but its hard to get a job in another city when youre not living there (they hire locally first) most of the time. Anyways this past June i kind of got the hint that he was never going to committ and i just decided to move on. The only reason i would go back to him is because i feel we are soulmates, i can talk to him about anything, and deep down inside i still love him no matter what.
Am i a fool for thinking this way??? | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 9/9/2006 10:46:17 AM | Your ex is your ex for a reason....that's my theory. Personally, too much damage has been done between myself and my ex. I'm still in love with the person that I married, but the person that he's become is someone I can barely tolerate anymore.
Remember, just say no to drugs, kids............wish he'd heard that a little more. | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 9/9/2006 10:47:27 AM | | My exhusband is doing fine without me - he needs to stay away from alcohol and if he has to take care of himself, with out me enabling him, he may just do that. We are good friends - we talk daily on the phone, but he can never come back into my life face to face. | |
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