| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 9/9/2006 10:48:30 AM | | Take it from a pro....DON'T DO IT........the person is the person and will always be the person, been there done that...................run away......................... | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 9/9/2006 11:00:01 AM | | There is no way I would ever get back with my ex. Was married 20 and came home to a letter, he was gone. He hasnt seen me or talked to me since that morning i kissed him bye and told him I loved him and went to work. How can some one do this, and why would someone take them back? Sorry its called no balls. ANNETTE | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 9/9/2006 11:02:58 AM | | He made me a better person when he left, I look better and feel better about my self. Iam stronger than I thought I was. ANNETTE | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 9/30/2006 5:09:07 PM | HELL NO!!!! I looked at him the last time he came to pick up the kids, and I thought to myself, "WTF was I thinking!!!"  That right there proves to me that I'm soooo done and won't even consider going back. | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 5/22/2008 6:36:51 PM | My ex is a moron and a jerk, so no he doesn't interest me that way. There are people out there alot more worthwhile and appealing then he could ever be! | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 5/22/2008 7:07:01 PM | Well it would definitely depend on the circumstances for sure! Speaking from personal experience, ummm BIG NO! I thought perhaps we could... not once but twice after we had broken up. First time we became friends and I found out he was still lying to me, and we were not even a couple, just friends! The third time which was just in February past, once again he came eto me but he told me "he thought he was suffering from depression" so I gave him again my friendship and told him I would help the best I could! Turns out, he still lying and takenn advantage of me soooooooo, the next time he has NO ONE, he won't have me there either to fall back on...Three strikes and he is definitely out!
I know now I was very, not just naive and gullible, but StUpId as well to allow him to do this....BUT I suffer with depression,have for a number of years now and I wouldn't turn my back on anyone claiming that they think they do as well!
So... It would have to depend on the circumstances involved! But for me and him...Never gonna happen again!
Besides, he isn't what you would say all that good looking either  he just got that "sweet talking way" with women!
Cis | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 5/23/2008 5:52:38 AM | This one is hard. About 19 months ago I pretty much left 'pof' because the kids dad 'missed his family and wanted to work things out. He actually went through a lot of crying on the phone, visiting, buying stuff, empty promises and whatever else he could come up with telling me the 'things I wanted to hear'. Talked about being married in 2 years..(he has 5 more months and I havent even been asked...it was all a ploy!..lol) Things changed for a short while...and I can honestly say they arent as 'bad' as they were when he left the first time, but he still is pretty much the 'same'. Old habits are back, just the rudeness and disrespect. Pretty much it is a loveless relationship and he is my housemate. (we dont even share a room anymore..lol)
In my circumstance my kids are young and I thought I owed it to them to at least try. But I'm done trying. A lot of people told me not to let him back and that it was all going to be the same blah, blah, blah but I didnt listen because I'm stubborn. Anyway, we all will do what we want to do, but at least I can say been there done it. | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 5/24/2008 7:26:31 AM | My ex was unfaithful towards me as well. Once that happens the trust you had in the friendship or relationship is broken..I haven't met anyone yet that I felt I could completely trust, I knew in my heart that they were not going to be good and right for me. So I stay single... | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 5/27/2008 5:33:22 AM | when we were together I tried everything I could to try to make it things work for us
but I am not saying I wasnt to blame as well - these days seems its just easy to walk from away from a family -I`m not talking about any kind of an abusive relationships whether physical or mental-that I can understand that
but knowing how easy it was for her to quit I would not get back with her
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 5/29/2008 7:07:01 AM | Call me a sucker, or whatever you want, even after all the crap that the both of us put each other trough I still would if she could try to put a little effort into being a little more sensitive. It was always me reacting to her hurtful words and some of my reactions were to say the least crazy !
I have a big heart and I don't stay angry for long, forgiving is one of my better traits I guess. Still care about her and miss her, but I'm not going to contact her, if she wants and sees this post she can contact me !!!!
Cheers
Paul | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 5/31/2008 12:27:02 PM | My vote?? Never. You would remember why you broke apart every waking moment of the day after you got back together again and think why did you get back together???
Fool me once, shame on you....fool me twice, shame on me.... | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 5/31/2008 5:50:16 PM | If I had a zero tolerance to pain and my life's ambition was equal to constantly being poked in the eyes with a hot poker, then maybe, if I tilted my head sideways, squinted, and looked at him again through rose coloured glasses...then maybe..
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 9:31:19 AM | Now that I've had time to step away and look at what I had with a critical eye.
I wouldn't get back with the ex, I'd reup for deployment in the Forces to Afganistan first, which would be less of a hell, the bing with my ex was !
I would rather die in combat, than go back with her. | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 6/16/2008 3:59:45 AM | No ....... Just say no ........ If it didn't work the first time it isn't going to work .
I am still very good friends with a couple of my exes who have married and moved on as well as I have ..... enjoy talking to them and would never kick them out of my life ..... but it didn't work and was time to move on........ | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 6/17/2008 9:52:19 PM | | Been there, done that, quite a few times actually. All it's done is finally proven to me that he will never change. He has always been a C-Clamp, he always will be a C-Clamp! Never again! | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 6/19/2008 7:14:20 AM | They are Ex's for a reason(s).
You can be friends with them, if the relationship break up allows, but thats it.
Just my 0.02 cents | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 6/21/2008 7:31:35 PM | | been there and done it and it doesnt work unless both parties give 100% in which he didnt....and of course the circumstances why the 2 split in the first place. A relationship can not build or last with one party working harder than the other . | |
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