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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 7/17/2008 8:13:42 AM | The one that had such a hold on my heart, and who I thought about constantly, whether we were seeing each other or not....I went back to 4 different times. Would I do it again? No!!!! In the end he was just wanting me to be waiting in the wings, as a willing and ready f*ck buddy. That is demeaning, disrespectful and unfulfilling, and definitely not what I want for my life. We still speak when we see each other in town, but don't spend time together.
The other one, the one who lied to me then had the audacity to say he didn't think he'd done anything wrong?! Never....once that trust is broken, I can't trust him again. We are good friends, and that's how it will stay. | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 7/18/2008 6:42:08 AM | | Have to admit, I wanted to and talked her into giving it another try. Her heart was never into it as she was not over her boyfriend who had broke us up in the first place. She approached me about the possibility a year or so later, still seeing him. Sorry, been there tried that, twice and didin't even get a tee shirt | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 7/21/2008 4:20:20 PM | Well... this is interesting.
About 1.5 months ago I would have said yes.
Of course, about 2 months ago was when my wife told me that she wasn't attracted to me anymore... but wanted to be friends.
But now the answer is No.
And the reason has to do with self respect.
Why to I want to be intimate with someone who ever told me that she doesn't find me attractive?
Note that I'm actually still legally married... but to me, with no intimacy, it isn't a real marriage no matter what a given piece of paper or government record says. | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 7/22/2008 4:59:23 AM | | This is an issue I've had to consider recently. I agree with dirtydance, once you get over them emotionally there is no going back. | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 7/22/2008 8:32:50 PM | | I joined this site a week after I could honestly answer this question for myself. When I knew that no matter what, not true apologies or remorse would ever make me want to try with him again then I knew I had finally moved on. Never again. I deserve better and won't settle for less ever again. A resounding NO I WOULD NOT TAKE HIM BACK!!! | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 7/23/2008 7:26:01 PM | Nope he screwed my FORMER friend when I passsed out drunk. IN MY APARTMENT OF ALL PLACES. I am quite over him now. Infact I am so over him that I moved and changed all my numbers and emails also changed my appearence and stay away from where he chills.  | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 7/28/2009 9:17:24 AM | Thats true love. True love never dies, only strong people deserve it.
You have to heal and find yourself again, true love just happens, some times when you are not prepared. So I can see myself get back with him if we don't find anyone else that we love like how we loved each other.
I know people get back together after 10, 15 years. | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 7/28/2009 6:54:02 PM | Not in this lifetime...
I'm done...finished with that part of my life. There are no feelings that would indicate that inclination.
With the exception of pity, there's only apathy...
Peace. | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 7/28/2009 7:05:29 PM | Hmmm... we broke up one day.
I met a really nice woman a while later. Things started to take off quite well and the future looked pretty promising. Then I made the big mistake of getting back together with my ex.
One result was a heart-broken woman.
The second result was me realizing exactly why I had broken things off with the ex in the first place.
The third result was experiencing all the same turmoil we went through the first time as we broke up again for a second time.
So, would I get back together with an ex? Um, no. I consider the one time I did to have been one of the biggest life-choice mistakes I've ever made. | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex???
Posted: 7/29/2009 9:17:04 PM | | Never, but we remain friends, no benefits to this day. We had times when things were good and those are the times I want to remember. The rest is in the past but when you have kids together a friendship really helps the kids. You just have to be grown up enough to do that. I hear so many bitter people on here, it's too bad. Life is too short to dwell on things in the past and bitterness is really a waste of time. I like to leave the bad memories behind and keep the good ones. We all had them at one point. A failed marriage takes two not just one and sometimes relationships are just not meant to be. But no one will ever find true happpiness or love, when they can't put the past aside. Chance are we all married for the wrong reason and as we get older and deeper into the marriage we start to realize that the person you married was just not the right one. I think everyone can relate to young and foolish! I think taking the time to learn to be happy with who you are is a big step in finding the right one and no one should ever give up hope, but just take your time and learn from mistakes that were made in the past. It's ok to be angry but there comes a time when you have to let the bad things go so that good things can happen. Your true soulmate might be right around the corner, you just have to be willing to accept what they have to offer as you already know what you don't want but think about what you do want. Life is too short to give up! | |
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