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| Would you get back with your Ex??? Posted: 7/17/2008 8:13:42 AM | The one that had such a hold on my heart, and who I thought about constantly, whether we were seeing each other or not....I went back to 4 different times. Would I do it again? No!!!! In the end he was just wanting me to be waiting in the wings, as a willing and ready f*ck buddy. That is demeaning, disrespectful and unfulfilling, and definitely not what I want for my life. We still speak when we see each other in town, but don't spend time together.
The other one, the one who lied to me then had the audacity to say he didn't think he'd done anything wrong?! Never....once that trust is broken, I can't trust him again. We are good friends, and that's how it will stay. | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex??? Posted: 7/18/2008 6:42:08 AM | | Have to admit, I wanted to and talked her into giving it another try. Her heart was never into it as she was not over her boyfriend who had broke us up in the first place. She approached me about the possibility a year or so later, still seeing him. Sorry, been there tried that, twice and didin't even get a tee shirt | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex??? Posted: 7/21/2008 4:20:20 PM | Well... this is interesting.
About 1.5 months ago I would have said yes.
Of course, about 2 months ago was when my wife told me that she wasn't attracted to me anymore... but wanted to be friends.
But now the answer is No.
And the reason has to do with self respect.
Why to I want to be intimate with someone who ever told me that she doesn't find me attractive?
Note that I'm actually still legally married... but to me, with no intimacy, it isn't a real marriage no matter what a given piece of paper or government record says. | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex??? Posted: 7/22/2008 4:59:23 AM | | This is an issue I've had to consider recently. I agree with dirtydance, once you get over them emotionally there is no going back. | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex??? Posted: 7/22/2008 8:32:50 PM | | I joined this site a week after I could honestly answer this question for myself. When I knew that no matter what, not true apologies or remorse would ever make me want to try with him again then I knew I had finally moved on. Never again. I deserve better and won't settle for less ever again. A resounding NO I WOULD NOT TAKE HIM BACK!!! | |
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| Would you get back with your Ex??? Posted: 7/23/2008 7:26:01 PM | Nope he screwed my FORMER friend when I passsed out drunk. IN MY APARTMENT OF ALL PLACES. I am quite over him now. Infact I am so over him that I moved and changed all my numbers and emails also changed my appearence and stay away from where he chills.  | |
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