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| do any girls actually want nice guys?
Posted: 6/2/2009 12:40:25 AM | | I would say no. Been told myself that plenty of times so turned into a son of a **** and plenty of offers (they think they can tame you - wake up and smell the coffee!) | |
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Joined: 5/4/2009
Msg: 403 | |
| do any girls actually want nice guys?
Posted: 6/2/2009 7:08:09 PM | hell no they dont. its just something women say that they dont really mean. when it comes down to it women really want a 6 foot tall, bronze god with a big house, big car, big bank account and a big c**k. i miss out on all accounts.... which is why im still single..... | |
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| do any girls actually want nice guys?
Posted: 6/2/2009 9:08:51 PM | Here's the way I've seen it lately!!! I do like to look at all the beautiful supermodels on here, but I also pay attention to all the more beautiful "average" women on here. As for most (Not all, and you know who you are) of the women on here, they want the super model guys and will put up with there womenizing crap to obtain the statis of being with the beef cakes out there. And by no meens am I a beef cake, dont want to be. I have other things to do than spend every hour in the gym, or roiding out. Besides I would rather be completely in love with my average girl, rather than working two jobs and being miserable trying to keep the super model. We are who we are! I tried supporting and changing for the super models once and will never do it again! We have our families, friends, and when were least expecting it - love will land on our shoulders with out having to look for it! Enjoy living life and it will all fall into place | |
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| do any girls actually want nice guys?
Posted: 6/2/2009 10:04:05 PM | My opinion is that most girls want a nice guy. So far, of the girls you've met - you're probably just not the right nice guy.
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meloff
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Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 407 | |
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meloff
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Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 408 | |
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| do any girls actually want nice guys?
Posted: 9/17/2009 5:54:37 PM | | Of course we (I do anyway) want a nice guy. But nice applies to huge percentage of the population so there has to be more to it than just being 'nice'. We have to be compatible otherwise what's the point? | |
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| do any girls actually want nice guys?
Posted: 9/17/2009 6:16:11 PM | I would love to meet a nice guy. All the guys I have met off of here have been real ***holes. If they aren't an ***hole, they are so into drama, b.s., mind games, and very immature. I'm a nice woman, who is soooo tired of all the bullshit and jerks. If there are actually REAL nice guys..I'm interested!! | |
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| do any girls actually want nice guys?
Posted: 9/17/2009 11:41:38 PM | | I think any man has the capability of being "nice"....but I am a sucker for a really good man, a man with a good heart, values, and morals. But we also have to have physical attraction and chemistry as well.... | |
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| do any girls actually want nice guys?
Posted: 9/18/2009 12:17:50 AM | | LOL Umm yeah thats what alot of them say. I think its natural human impulse that some just want a nice guy. On the flip side there are others that truly go for the a**hole types. And then again for the ones that want a nice guy, maybe they are just using that as a smokescreen? | |
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| do any girls actually want nice guys?
Posted: 9/18/2009 12:21:29 AM | Yeah after they had kids with an a-hole.And u got some money.
^^^LOL Why of course. Especially if she's struggling to make ends meet. | |
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| do any girls actually want nice guys?
Posted: 9/18/2009 8:05:07 AM | Girls WANT a bad boy, but eventually want to MARRY a good guy. Then DIVORCE the good guy, when they find out he's so F#@king boring and go back to the bad boy, who will eventually dump her @ss......
It a vicious circle mate. | |
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| do any girls actually want nice guys?
Posted: 9/18/2009 8:23:55 AM | If we've learned anything from the forums we know there are no nice guys (this is according to a vast majority of female posts). According to the postings any guy who says he is a nice guy is a liar and any guy who really is a nice guy has issues or is really gay.
So how can they want what they say is not out there? | |
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meloff
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Joined: 8/8/2009
Msg: 416 | |
| do any girls actually want nice guys?
Posted: 9/19/2009 3:01:12 AM | | I am a nice guy! I'm kind to animals,pick up hitchhikers,take good care of a woman,Not gay but I get slammed by them.(I get no respect from women)They think it's asskiss but it's just me. Honor is the only gift a man gives himself,everything else comes from the maker.I should be swarming with girls but NO! | |
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| do any girls actually want nice guys?winston877..............
Posted: 9/20/2009 12:05:12 AM | There are exceptions, but for the most part the very young women who really do want a nice guy will be engaged before graduating from college.
If you are not interested in dating women who are not old enough to drink, then you will have trouble finding women who really do want nice guys, until you start dating women in their mid to late 30s.
Once a woman has a few kids, gets divorced, and has been through many upleasant relationships she will sometimes reach the point in her life that she requires her next boyfriend to be a nice guy, even if that means dating a boring guy. This is your next big chance to find women who want a nice guy. As you date even older women, it will be even more common for them to want a nice guy.
At all ages there are some women who want to date nice guys, but they are the exception, not the rule.
My advice is to examine how you behave in relationships, change the things you do not like about yourself, and hold you and potential girlfriends to a high standard. Try to improve your ability to weed out the women who say they want a nice guy, but do not actually want a nice guy. You may also want to try to approach more women who do not go clubbing, and generally struggle to meet men at all. | |
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Joined: 9/13/2009
Msg: 418 | |
| do any girls actually want nice guys?winston877..............
Posted: 9/20/2009 4:33:28 PM | | Yes they do!!! But you also cant be without a back bone. Do not let yourself be taken advantage of. Some woman want a challenge and some really nice guys are not. I have seen many of my guy friends treat their woman like gold, but they dont have a mind of their own. Dont always agree with a woman when you dont. She will appreciate you more for having an opinion. | |
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| do any girls actually want nice guys?winston877..............
Posted: 9/21/2009 8:05:56 AM | | I think deep down women do want a nice guy but the problem is that women do not respect or want sex with nice guys because the percieve nice guys as being weak. Being a nice guy does not mean having no backbone it means being polite and courtious and treating people with respect and possibly putting others ahead of yourself at times when it is the right thing to do. Unfortunatley though I find the nicer I am to women the less they respect it. | |
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| do any girls actually want nice guys?winston877..............
Posted: 9/21/2009 8:18:16 AM | | Nice is just one aspect of what makes the man. Just like men, we are all attracted to a different combination of personality traits. For some women niceness is one of those traits, for other's it's not. But it's all in the combination. If he is nice, clingy, weak, .... he is going to have more trouble finding a woman that one who is say, nice, independant, strong.... | |
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| do any girls actually want nice guys?winston877..............
Posted: 9/22/2009 6:55:49 AM | You see some of you " nice guys" are just too stupid to realize things, you think by ass-kissing, catering to her every desire, being her best girlfriend/boyfriend and being nice is what keeps a woman, and you whine that you have no idea why they put you in the " friendship zone" booo hooooo hooooooooooooo
The best piece of advice I can give you is STOP WHINING. It's just not attractive to women. Period. Calling yourself a nice guy isn't going to get a woman to start fantasizing about you, most of you are sooooo insecure and is ready to judge than the "bad boy/non nice guy blah blah blah" who's done it all and understands the hypocrisy of casting the first stone. | |
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| do any girls actually want nice guys?winston877..............
Posted: 9/24/2009 8:06:32 AM | Neither gender wants someone fawning all over them-it gets old very quickly. That said, many woman are attracked to "bad boys" and maybe don't even know it and won't admit it.
What women say they want, sitting at their keyboard in the light of day and what they are actually attracked to at the point of contact are sometimes two entirely different things....... | |
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| do any girls actually want nice guys?winston877..............
Posted: 9/24/2009 8:25:11 PM | Many men here still don't get it.
NICE ----- BALANCED ----- JERK
You want to be in the middle. Not too nice, not too mean (but sometimes you need to be either, just at the right time).
A balanced, GOOD man is what all men should strive to be. Too far to either side and well, you're not relationship material. Period. | |
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