| How are we as men to know what a women wants ?
Posted: 11/24/2005 6:05:07 PM | | carolfrombuffalo there is nothing wrong with going after what u want and being upfront about it thats kool sory to here about the ruff time u went thru but I think somtimes things like that make us stronger in alot of ways | |
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| How are we as men to know what a women wants ?
Posted: 11/24/2005 6:16:12 PM | | All I can really say is what others have said - just be yourself. I have a son as well and he's the only man I need in my life. I'm honestly not worried about finding a guy, but it would be nice to be able to share my life with someone. But of course women are going to have so many different ideas on what kind of guy they want because no one's the same. You just gotta keep on looking, be yourself and you'll find someone that you actually connect with. I honestly don't like telling anyone what kind of guy I like because whenever I do that, the guy I meet feels he needs to be what I want and he ends up not being himself, so I just go with the flow and see where it takes me. As long as your open and honest to others as well as yourself, you should be okay ;-) | |
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| How are we as men to know what a women wants ?
Posted: 11/24/2005 6:16:14 PM | IT IS CALLED ''COMMUNICATION GUYS"" ''ASK'' '''TALK''!IF YOU CAN,T COMMUNICATE WITH ONE WOMAN-KEEP LOOKING TILL YOU DO!!!''ONE THING ABOUT NEN I HAVE NOTICED-EITHER THEY TALK TOOO MUCH & DON,T LISTEN ,OR THEY DON,T TALK ENOUGH @TRYING TO UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY ARE ALL ABOUT, IS LIKE TRYING TO WIN THE LOTTO!!!!!! | |
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| How are we as men to know what a women wants ?
Posted: 11/24/2005 6:31:58 PM | Communication.... that means two different things to a male and female in a relationship. To a man it means say what you mean, to a woman it seems to mean i need to vent and it can be on you.
My female friends and i "communicate" really well. For girls i have dated, it means i am about to cop an irrational barrage of everything i say means something else. Mostly
I think Jazz was spot on earlier in the thread, especially about so many guys tripping over each other to be the biggest pu$sy. And they do seem to get alot of in thread responses from the women in the positive... Maybe that IS what women want, to hear what they want to hear... | |
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| How are we as men to know what a women wants ?
Posted: 11/27/2005 3:32:42 PM | I still crave excitement and passion more then I did when I was younger. I have also showed guys the door when I was younger. AND I am still lookin 4 that bad boy but a giving, passionate and respectful to me and my family one,(which is not that large). Aquainted with any? Send them my way. Nice guys, well I like my men to be sensitive but not feminine, thoughtful but not doing everything for me, romantic not mushy and experienced.
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| How are we as men to know what a women wants ?
Posted: 11/27/2005 5:04:42 PM |
we as men have no freakin clue anymore here is some examples
Speak for yourself. Why are you trying to cater to what someone else wants you to be? Why not try being yourself? It seems to work for me. | |
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| How are we as men to know what a women wants ?
Posted: 11/28/2005 5:14:59 PM | | well just be you in time when you relax after you have been around her for awhile then you will anyway.......then she will find out the true you....money to me isn't everything.....do what you want to do if you want to pay for everything then go ahead.....don't worry so much on what " they want " if you start having this attitude they will take you fro everything..... its what's in the heart that matters....sounds like you have had some pretty immature girls in the past ......lets play head games........NOT GROW UP... | |
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| How are we as men to know what a women wants ?
Posted: 11/28/2005 5:33:28 PM | Unspoken agenda by women and men...............:
What many women want :Starts with Buy me; feed me; take me , give me my space and let me control you.
What men want: when I do the above your know how to pay me.... when I get tired of payng ; I'll leave to find some one new.
No none knows what they want except ; instant gratification.
Everyone is a good or bad piece of meat, if you only went out with people you would marry and spend the rest of your life with, how often would you date.
It' party time, no rules, get what you can and move on . OR go to places where you can find someone who wants to know you and develop a slow long term relationship be fore they get involved.
It sounds like you want to find all chicks hot buttons so you can become a player.  | |
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| How are we as men to know what a women wants ?
Posted: 11/30/2005 5:57:14 PM | HOLY HANNA What a question;Lol there are very intuitive people here and its seems so ominous a question, after all men have probably been asking it since the dawn of time,,,Lmao! You do know the famous pose, "with the man sitting head on hand" staring blankly downward??
Well I would to bet dollars for donuts that someone asked him the same question, "and there he sits pondering for all eternity, never living the answer.
So, here's my theory,,and this is for theorectical purposes only.(lol) It is my belief that most people, men and women alike, start out with very different tastes and this is probably a very good thing. After all if every man and women clicked,,just imagine the mess,,,it would be chaos,,and forget monogamy.LOL
Anyways, back to my point which is mainly, that people generally don't know what they want until they find it,,ahah!! chicken and the egg story....,,,From here I will refer to just women, due to the specifics of the question. I believe that most women have in them good intentions and honesty as a rule,"keeping in mind that ppl can only be as honest as there are to themselves",,and here it comes ,,,who was it that said, "know thy self ,,and to thyne own self be true",,,this applies to women and men ,,we meet people at varies stages of our lives and personal growth. The circumstances of each meeting not being the reason for the feelings or emotions that develop,,,,Yes people it is the age old word or words used so often here ,,,such as spark, fireworks, butterflies, and lastly Chemistry!!!!!,,,yes ,,,you see it's not that women don't know what they want it's only within our abilitiy to draw on our past experiences and with whom we had these feelings of chemistry in the first place. So when people try to summarize the person there looking for it's based, quite often on qualities and traits associated with ,,,the so complex a subject, "chemistry" and also the reason it is often seen and proven to be wrong is because we often draw from these experiences that ended in failure. The upside is most of us learn and grow from each and if we look inside of ourselves it can help to build a profile of someone we might click with but thats all,,,the rest, "Just Is or just isn't there" and completely beyond our control.
All we can really do ask for is the opportunity to meet and see if there is that mutual connection or bond with those we are interested in.
I know long winded,,,phew,,,Lmao,,It is in my belief that you should never try to force chemistry and no matter who you try to be. Eventually you'll end up being yourself, and still alone. So why not just start out being yourself to begin with, it saves a lot of time and heart ache.
Oh!!by the way this applies mainly to people who would rather be alone for the right reasons than with someone for the wrong ones, for fear of being alone.
After all that and the plain and simple truth is. No one that I have met in my lifetime can truly, predict the presence of chemistry or wether it will be there or not. It is as real and true as the basic laws of physics. so we should call it the basic law of human attraction before emotional corruption.(meaning baggage)Lol
Goodluck have a great Christmas everyone! | |
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| How are we as men to know what a women wants ?
Posted: 11/30/2005 7:20:12 PM | This above all
To thine own self be true
for it must follow as dost the night the day
that canst not then be false to any man
Shakespeare (Hamlet) inspired by Socrates (Know thyself). | |
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| How are we as men to know what a women wants ?
Posted: 11/30/2005 11:43:31 PM | one more person say "be your self", s/he just dont know that line doesn't really work.
anyways, i think you are asking at the wrong place. If you want to be good at it, you got to ask the guys who gets alot of girls. | |
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| How are we as men to know what a women wants ?
Posted: 12/1/2005 12:33:43 AM | Frankly wants are luxuries. I've always said I can't afford the luxury of a man. LOL
Find out what she needs. Then you can work on feeding her needs.
If more concerned themselves about needs instead of wants.
Less of us male and female would be starving from those unfulfilled needs.
One part is spoiling........ the other part is necessity.
Less are willing to give up a necessity then a luxury anyway.
Wants are nice and all in a shallow surface way.
But baby I neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeed you tonight.
Is a thrill to hear.
Of course don't quote me on that , just my opinion. LOL | |
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| How are we as men to know what a women wants ?
Posted: 12/1/2005 6:47:47 AM |
one more person say "be your self", s/he just dont know that line doesn't really work...If you want to be good at it, you got to ask the guys who gets alot of girls.
I guess it depends on what you are looking for. If you want to be a player and get a lot of girls, be whatever you think will get you into their pants. If, on the other hand, you want the right girl for the right reasons, you will never find her unless you are yourself. | |
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| How are we as men to know what a women wants ?
Posted: 12/1/2005 12:49:01 PM | I started this thread awhile ago and its kinda taken on a life of its own here is my personel view on this subject im gona get right in to it now lol I think that women are emmotional creatures and they might say they want a sensitive man but thats not true not at all I believe most women want a guy that takes control in and out of the bedroom even know most women wont admit it Im not saying they want a cave man or a gather hunter kinda guy lol all im saying is I dont think they want a guy that cant defend them when needed I know theres gona be women that say they dont need men to defend them or take control but lol I know in the back of there minds they want just that I think this is more true with younger women then older women I believe older women know what they want and know how to ask for it but I still believe they want a take control kinda guy in the bedroom with older women its mostly in the bedroom outside of it different ball park lol One other thing the question How are we to know what a woman wants ....It takes along time alot of questions and still we will only know what weve learned thru experience and what works What am I looking for in a woman someone I can love and charish till the end of time and give her what she needs and in return if its the right one Ill also get what I need  | |
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| How are we as men to know what a women wants ?
Posted: 12/1/2005 3:00:38 PM | | you stick to your GUN"S I feel the same way I have been comming to the realization that these women want GUY's like YOU and me to take care of them after they have been BANGING the bad boy then they come CRYING to us . Where is our brain"S they think they can do it and as long as we let them THEY WILL ! god bless you. Glen | |
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| How are we as men to know what a women wants ?
Posted: 12/1/2005 3:07:13 PM | | Yea And when that BAD BOY slap"S the hell out of you THEN WHO WILL you be lokking for? I think SEX with a FEMALE grizzly would be good too but after I get off I"M GONE! and PRAYING that she DON"T catch me | |
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