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| If you're going to be rude to people why be on this site?? Posted: 11/26/2005 11:21:19 AM | | HI,Italian...I just wanted to say something. I am glad this thread got started. First of all, being typed words on a screen, its very hard to figure out how the person is saying things. We only know what they are saying, not how they are saying it. Now, some things just speak for themselves. You have to remember, a lot of people on here are very lonely, and dont take rejection well..but after all, its just words on a screen..MAybe they have misinterpreted what we have said. Like I said,sometimes theres very little room for doubt. We could all use a kinder,gentler world in which to live. So, if anyone reads this, please remember to follow the Golden Rule...type and talk to people like you would like for them to do to you. | |
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| If you're going to be rude to people why be on this site?? Posted: 11/26/2005 11:32:43 AM |
This is an internet forum, if you are going to take what someone says personally, then perhaps you shouldn't be here. You know why? Not because you don't have a right to be here but because you can't handle what a bunch of strangers say to you. Like really, who gives a f*ck what someone says about you, they don't KNOW you, you do. The most intelligent thing said on this whole thread. And ladies, if you meet the criteria (which I bet is strict) there's your nice guy! Vixen | |
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| If you're going to be rude to people why be on this site?? Posted: 11/26/2005 11:37:55 AM | The most intelligent thing said on this whole thread. O.K...Here we go. I'm just not worthy. We all know that vix is here. No need to worry. We just luv her! Where can I buy those little squigglies that you have on your name? | |
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| If you're going to be rude to people why be on this site?? Posted: 11/26/2005 2:34:56 PM | Brazen I find myself again defending why I put myself as IE - as I do on a regular basis. Why is it that everyone seems to equate "intimate encounter" with "one-night stand"???? They are not the same thing. If that is why I get passed by...so be it. Maybe there should be another catagory for people who are looking to enjoy meeting the opposite sex, and are not adverse to the idea of becoming intimate on an occasional basis. Then again....that is a topic for another string. | |
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| If you're going to be rude to people why be on this site?? Posted: 11/26/2005 2:42:57 PM | Bigstud, I already read your profile, you don't need to remind me.
Maybe there should be another catagory for people who are looking to enjoy meeting the opposite sex, and are not adverse to the idea of becoming intimate on an occasional basis.
That would be called 'dating' or hey even 'other relationship'.  | |
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| If you're going to be rude to people why be on this site?? Posted: 11/26/2005 4:38:12 PM | Dating? Hmmm.....my problem with the term "dating" , is the interpretation that dating has to lead to looking for something long term. I have no difficulty dating. I even had dating as my choice at one time.......but found that the women on dating, seem to only want to go out. NO chance of intimacy. NONE ... ZERO.... unless you are willing to:
1) Only see them 2) Be prepared to hang in long term
I am prepared to do neither. Hence, why I did not choose dating. And hence, why I likely get overlooked. So be it.
AND....I have read many "other relationship" profiles.....and most lean towards finding a guy for a long term commitment. Not saying all...but most that I have read. Or they are people looking to cheat on a spouse.
But to refer back to the string.......rudeness begets rudeness, and as many have said.....why stoop to a lower level. | |
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| If you're going to be rude to people why be on this site?? Posted: 11/26/2005 4:49:18 PM | I'm a pretty goofy guy. And I read a lot. When I create a profile(about 1 per week), or post on a forum, I inject humor and fun references. I play devil's advocate. I end almost every post with <-----this guy, which is usually the opposite of how I'm feeling. Many people read my posts and think that I'm out to make trouble, or start fights. That is absolutely not the case. I'm here to make friends, and maybe lovers. I know there are some offensive people on this site, but please, before you get all hot and bothered about a post, consider: He might be kidding.  | |
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| If you're going to be rude to people why be on this site?? Posted: 11/26/2005 5:24:36 PM | Thank you, johnny.
I know there are some offensive people on this site, but please, before you get all hot and bothered about a post, consider: He might be kidding. I know of at least one woman that is always joking, but ya can't tell the difference because she refuses to use icons. I don't think the fisherman gets used enough..Anyway, she needs to use the smiley more often.  | |
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| If you're going to be rude to people why be on this site?? Posted: 11/26/2005 5:51:01 PM | Johnny, you might want to switch to a devil then because I look at --> and interpret it to mean anger and ranting. I even remember reading your response to me once and I thought, wth, I didn't say anything to piss him off.  | |
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| If you're going to be rude to people why be on this site?? Posted: 11/26/2005 5:59:19 PM | | Part of it is that people can say things here that they could never get away with face to face. They don’t have the guts to get in your face in everyday life. So they do it here, ask me, its pretty chickensh**. | |
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