nacka
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Joined: 11/10/2005
Msg: 26 | |
| What do men expect in 2005???
Posted: 11/26/2005 11:28:01 AM | | i hear ya! I am a person who like to think a lot and analyze every aspect....but i guess it is the wrong place here... people cant even say why they are here.... thats pathetic! | |
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| What do men expect in 2005???
Posted: 11/26/2005 11:31:41 AM | generalization won't get a person far in life....
for every 1000 thorns there is a rose.
maybe your expecations are not realistic. Life is not cut and dry and
dating is even worse. It is a good thing to not worry about what others want...
but to know what you want... so you are not wasting your time
with those you cannot have or make a connection with.
Maybe sit on the sidelines and read some of the threads as to the problems
connected with this...... before you do anything you will be sorry for.
Also about saying what is pathetic... keep in mind when you point your
fingers at someone... there is one pointing out and three pointing back at you.
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| What do men expect in 2005???
Posted: 11/26/2005 11:35:07 AM |
....but i guess it is the wrong place here... people cant even say why they are here.... thats pathetic! We're all in this together. Kind of like one huge funny farm. | |
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nacka
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Joined: 11/10/2005
Msg: 31 | |
| What do men expect in 2005???
Posted: 11/26/2005 11:38:19 AM | | probably there is but just to let you know, on the opposite as what you might think, you probably cannot find someone who knows more what she wants then me. I really do not give a shit of what people can think of me...why would I! And if I wanna know whats in peoples mind, its to understand where the society is going, curiosity only. It s interesting to hear. | |
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| What do men expect in 2005???
Posted: 11/26/2005 11:44:41 AM | If you went to a world series football game....
you would find much the same.... people gathered with
some common interest.
This (online dating) is a segement of the population with a
common interest.
If you think about it..... with the forums... isn't this a nice way
to find others you may have a connection with?
There are going to be people you have no connection with
at all, some routing for the other team... lol..... and those
who don't even care about the football game at all... just there
for the hotdogs and beer.
You get to choose who you will spend time and talk with
and what happens with that.
That is an analogy for you.
Just as life... this as anything else is what you make it.
;)
over analizing something is sometimes a ego defense mechanism
and if this is something you really want no part of.... cannot see any benefit
to.... then go to a movie or bookstore....
not the football game
;)
just my thoughts | |
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| What do men expect in 2005???
Posted: 11/26/2005 11:44:46 AM |
It's the land of misfit toys , who want's to play with a charlie in the box ? I still cry, when I see that movie. I am about to cry over this thread... | |
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nacka
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Joined: 11/10/2005
Msg: 34 | |
| What do men expect in 2005???
Posted: 11/26/2005 11:45:30 AM | | how men thinks, how people react and whats in their brain helps understanding a lot about todays society....doesnt any of you like to hear it? | |
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stats
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Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 35 | |
| What do men expect in 2005???
Posted: 11/26/2005 11:48:30 AM | | Well first off ,welcome to pof site.Im new here as well.I think the best thing i can tell you is what a really nice guy on this site ,said to me as i was nervous and shy and at first i did not post a picture.He told me to be safe in meeting anyone as being a woman you must be careful.And dont meet untill you feel comfortable and do the meeting in a public place at first.He said yes there are guys and gals both that are out for one thing.Which is true,so state exactly what you are looking for so no misunderstandings happen.dont give out your phone number or full name etc untill you know you want to and feel safe with the person.good luck.hope you find what your looking for.Most men are not all the same ,but if your unsure just be straight out with them and ask if your in doubt. | |
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| What do men expect in 2005???
Posted: 11/26/2005 11:49:16 AM | how men thinks, how people react and whats in their brain helps understanding a lot about todays society....doesnt any of you like to hear it? Edit..can somebody help me get my size 13 into my mouth? | |
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| What do men expect in 2005???
Posted: 11/26/2005 11:51:50 AM | | charlie did you read her profile , It cleary states that she is french and the grammar is very different . sort of backwards . Okay i guess you caught that now . | |
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| What do men expect in 2005???
Posted: 11/26/2005 12:03:25 PM | I really am here for a reason. And it's not to play games. No. What I want in the little time left of 2005 and hopefully will have in 2006 and beyond is a wonderful woman to share my life with.
Now, how can you tell if someone is real? Of course there are people here who are not real. But there are also many here who are. It's just like anything else. You have to see for yourself. I guess you could look at it as online shopping. There are some really great deals. But you can also get ripped off. Caveat emptor. | |
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Joy.
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Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 41 | |
| What do men expect in 2005???
Posted: 11/26/2005 12:55:22 PM | From my experience, men want you to think they are as attractive as they think they are (that rarely happens), they want to see naked pictures, see you naked on cam, have you watch them whack it on cam and then give them a piece of ass when you meet. If you are honest and tell them you are not attracted, they get all pissy and nasty but think you should give them a shot anyway. After all, they will be the best lay of your life. There are a lot of guys on here whose mothers have really f*cked them up and have brainwashed them into believing they are God's gift to women.
For the few decent respectful ones who really want something true and meaningful, well it's hard to weed them out. It's almost not worth digging thru a barrel of rotten apples to find the one good one.
I'm not bitter, really.... | |
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| What do men expect in 2005???
Posted: 11/26/2005 12:58:46 PM | hahah finding a good one guy or girl is hard!
i'm not picky at all but i do know what i don't want!
I'm the try of guy that enjoys the simple things in life! | |
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| What do men expect in 2005???
Posted: 11/26/2005 1:47:37 PM | The question "What do men expect in 2005???" I'm interpreting to mean "what do men require to be commited in a relationship today". If that's the question then the answer for me is INTIMACY.(in to me see) For me this requires trust which comes through time by paying attention to how you behave and treat myself and others. If I'm going to open my heart to you I have to trust that you won't try to hurt me if things are not always going the way you want them to.
I also need to feel like an equal and be veiwed as an equal, I don't want to feel less than or greater than a partner.
I don't know what anyone else is looking for but if that's not what dating is ultimately about for anyone I go out with, I'll end up moving on. | |
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