| hugging after sex Posted: 11/27/2005 6:51:52 PM | | Okay, so thank you to alllll who have shared their thoughts!!!! I will keep snuggeling and enjoy being held in the after glow while all those guys out their are grabbing their ice or taking a piss!!!!!! HAPPY CUDDLES!!!!!!!! | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 11/27/2005 7:33:48 PM | I would love to have you laying on my chest. You described me to the tee.  | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 11/27/2005 7:45:41 PM | I love after sex sometimes more than the sex itself. It can be so warm, fun, super affectionate and a prelude to even more sex,
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| hugging after sex Posted: 11/29/2005 9:39:08 PM | | angelheart63..........thats sick! u r like way too old for me! Im sure u can find someone a little more age appropriate to cuddle with | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/6/2005 3:23:05 PM | I love to hold her afterwards. Cuddling is great. My problem is that, apparently I have an ability to caress her just so........ and it puts her in a deep sleep.  | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/6/2005 3:29:33 PM |
angelheart63..........thats sick! u r like way too old for me! Im sure u can find someone a little more age appropriate to cuddle with
Easy now, retract the claws...I'm pretty sure the man was just flirting with ya. Not like he asked you to be his bride...chillax. | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/6/2005 3:30:38 PM | the whole cuddle/hug thing after sex is fine..........
UNLESS
it is stated before hand that its just a screw and nothing else... then why is she trying to get "close" to you after?... | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/6/2005 3:44:33 PM | Ahhhh screw it! We had the sex...can I just go to sleep now? I'm all tuckered out! | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/6/2005 4:40:46 PM |
but love to have my guy give me a huge tight hug just to let me know he's there and he's not going anywhere? Is this weird?
Nope, it is stereotypically female though. My advice to guys is if you want to please your lover then do the cuddling thing.
Personally, I love it! | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/6/2005 5:48:28 PM | | I like the exhausted sleep idea, would mean something good my way came. I'm capable of cuddling, just let me rehydrate though please. If you can't bare to let me go for a couple of minutes plan ahead with that water or wrap yourself around me and saddle up for the ride and let me get us to the elixir of life before we lope back for the post carnal bliss. yuo can lead this horse to water and make him cuddle. | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/6/2005 7:18:34 PM | But why does anyone NEED the cuddling. I mean don't get me wrong, it's "nice" and all but you've just had a good session of sex...I mean you've ALREADY totally demonstrated your affection for one another...why the cuddling right after? I don't get it. Just seems corny to me. I'm serious though...if it's end of the night, I'm off to zzzzz land. We can cuddle any time of day/night...
I never understood the "cuddling" thing. Maybe I'm just messed up. | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/6/2005 10:01:43 PM | | If it's done right, you'll fall asleep from exhaustion! That means going a lot longer than the usual 10 to 15 minutes I hear about all the time. If hugging is your big worry, then maybe he wasn't worth getting naked for in the first place! | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/7/2005 12:33:19 AM | | I would prefer none...I actually like to sleep right after...or just lie there, with no hard core snuggling. I think it;s ok just to not say anything at all, after. I hate it when a man gets snuggly after the sex...It's stifling in the end. There are some few exceptions though...all depends if they're my man or just a fling. | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/7/2005 2:14:37 AM | I'm not a big cuddler, I will hold her if she asks as long as she doesn't mind me falling asleep.
I guess I kind of like it when she rests her head on my shoulder after wards with my arm around her and all that.
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/7/2005 6:11:39 PM | Pan.......thats exactly what I'm talking about! Just laying together, hearing each others heart beating really fast, feeling the heat off of each other! Nothing has to be said its just basting in the moment! (even if ur sleeping) | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/7/2005 6:31:30 PM | | Sure I'll hug you (her) after sex, but I'll also be rubbing her ass!! | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/7/2005 9:45:38 PM | huh.. ne one who says they dont like to be cuddled..is a damn lyer..im going to be upfront with all of you..considering im new and all, might as well start off being honest..lol....i loves to cuddle...especially after sex..i luv that shit..sure you just had a great lifetime experience..'sex', lol, but one likes to be held after wards, lets one know that its just not about sex...plus your usually too tuckerd out that your too tired too get up ne ways..might as well charrish the moment.. | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/7/2005 9:55:04 PM | | I don't really like to cuddle after sex. I'm more of a roll over and sleep kinda girl. Oh and no... that's not a lie. | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/7/2005 9:59:54 PM | | I'm with you equipped. Cuddling is fine on a cold night (like tonight) watching movies or something. However...I dont equate sex and love normally...so I'd much rather just pass out with thoughts of sugar plums dancing in my head..instead of thoughts of "oh god if i have to pee I have to some how get his arm off of me, damn it." | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/7/2005 10:02:29 PM | ^^^ Yeah, I like the..... " That was real nice, now get off me" | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/7/2005 11:13:25 PM | | well... there's a lot to be said for spooning after sex... 'cause it usually leads to more sex... | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/19/2005 5:25:19 PM | | Gotta say I love cuddling after sex!! in all forms whether she pulls my arm around her ,or she puts her head on my chest, or we just colapse from exhaustion sweaty and breathing hard in each others arms. THE WORST feeling in the world is when a girl gets up right after and leaves ( yes ladys do it too ) | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/19/2005 5:28:59 PM | | cuddling is nice after sex but i would rather fall right to sleep. means i have had exhausting sex, hmm oddly that hasnt happened yet. | |
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| hugging after sex Posted: 12/19/2005 8:17:02 PM | | My problem is talking. I am always extremely talkative after sex. | |
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