| hugging after sex
Posted: 1/31/2006 12:59:05 AM | | I used to be a fan of NON-HUGGING..until I met someone on here who was very much into cuddling. And I was instantly hooked...I think he is the first one I have ever hugged after sex :) | |
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 1/31/2006 2:19:34 AM | It's the only problem with 'sex for one' or phone sex...no cuddling and sometimes a horrible loneliness.
Cuddling is always best as far as I'm concerned... | |
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 1/31/2006 6:41:21 AM | I don't find myself being lonely or even sex but I do miss warm hugs, cuddles and having the warmth of someone naked sleeping with me....strange huh? | |
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 1/31/2006 6:45:55 AM | | Hugging after sex is important because it makes a statement: that the one you are with is significant and not a fling. | |
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Posted: 1/31/2006 6:50:19 AM | @Bandito: Not at all Sweet Pea that is the deeper form of intmacy, sex can happen anytime, but hugs and cuddles and just the security of sleeping next to someone is a deeper relationship and the best kind at that...    | |
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Posted: 1/31/2006 7:03:57 AM | From erinscute
"Pan.......thats exactly what I'm talking about! Just laying together, hearing each others heart beating really fast, feeling the heat off of each other! Nothing has to be said its just basting in the moment! (even if ur sleeping)"
I hope she meant "basking" since basting would seem to indicate one huge wet spot. | |
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 1/31/2006 7:21:51 AM | sometimes I have to pee,
so right after sex is not always great but after the pee and washing the hands and getting the girl a glass of water and taking out the trash, then yes I am all down with the huggs | |
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Posted: 1/31/2006 7:34:22 AM | [Its very important after a B&D session of sex to do alot of hugging.
Especially if your love slave has performed well to all of your commands.]
veedub-YES!  very well said slave...now back to your Master!  | |
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 1/31/2006 8:41:12 AM | I like cuddling whenever I can get it but after sex cuddling is good, though I also appreciate some clean-up time and having water or Gatorade with my hypothetical partner and THEN cuddling.
Or some immediate post-cuddling, then clean-up and beverages and then some more cuddling or better yet, more love-making  | |
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| ahh Bulls**t
Posted: 1/31/2006 9:06:43 PM | My man always holds me close as we bask in afterglow. Otherwise the connection we made during lovemaking would be broken all too soon.\
what is this thred "harliquin romance novels"
get a grip lady. Im not saying your wrong , but , WE ARE INSENSITVE MALE BRUTES. lol
We just need a little teaching and coaxing. But dont put us out on the couch because we dont do it. OH , wait a minute -sleeping on the couch is like camping out (we men like that)
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| ahh Bulls**t
Posted: 1/31/2006 9:13:26 PM | | after sex, I just want to go to sleep...it's nice to fall asleep in eachother's arms, but I don't do any basking, and I don't recall any afterglow | |
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Posted: 1/31/2006 9:14:57 PM | | I dont think its weird... I love cuddling after sex... I know most men really dont like it but even for just a few minutes. Dont break the connection as soon as "..and i'm spent"!! | |
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Posted: 3/1/2006 2:38:35 PM | depends on if its a quicky over the kitchen sink or a nice love making session yeah hugs are always nice n is lovely to fall asleep at night in the persons arms who just shared your body  | |
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Posted: 3/1/2006 2:54:10 PM | | I love it! nothing says that you are wanted and adored as much as when a woman curls up into my arms. What really pisses me off is when they just toss the cash on the bed next to me and say "Same time next week?" How cold. . . | |
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Posted: 3/3/2006 6:16:22 PM |
I love it! nothing says that you are wanted and adored as much as when a woman curls up into my arms. What really pisses me off is when they just toss the cash on the bed next to me and say "Same time next week?" How cold. . .
I Prefer it that way... You just know you're good enough that you should be paid for it, and that you WERE good enough they're coming back for more...
Then again, most of the girls I've been with wanted like Motley Crue and Slayer on during =P
.. which reminds me ... Im gunna tape my mp3 player to the next ones back. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2007 3:49:44 PM | | i love to hug and cuddle after sex. first i gotta get a drink of dr pepper then a smoke tho. but after that i would love to cuddle all night or day whatever time it is | |
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Posted: 1/19/2007 3:56:12 PM | | Its not weird at all. I feel that if a guy doesnt hug me after its like wham bam thankyou mam a job over and done a hug lets you know that what you both did meant something to both of you and that it was more than just sex. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2007 3:57:21 PM | I think your need for hugs after sex is your way of saying 'show me you love me'. I think there are more important times for hugs than after nookie.
Personally, I'd rather roll over and go to sleep, or get up and get back to what I was doing.
I dont think its weird, but I do think its clingy. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2007 4:03:23 PM | | Nope, not at all. If there isn't at *least* a 2 or 3 minute cuddle/hug afterwards, I'm starting to re-think how smart of an idea it was in the first place. | |
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 1/19/2007 4:03:36 PM | personally i'd rather go watch tv or take a shower maybe even just catch my breath  but your mate might have other ideas so if you aim to please then a little hugging very much like a little yssup doesn't hurt  | |
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Posted: 1/19/2007 4:13:12 PM | | Have to agree with the majority of posters and say huggin' after sex is essential to completing a hopefully wonderful blending of two bodies, two souls into one. I used to be an 'ok we're done you can go or stay but I'm going to sleep' type guy. I learned a few years ago the value of a good snuggle session after sex. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2007 5:53:21 PM | | Hugging /cuddling is great .. and even better .. usually ends up being more! | |
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Posted: 1/19/2007 7:03:13 PM | Cuddling is great....it makes you feel soooo good....I like slipping my head into his nook....
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Posted: 1/19/2007 7:48:40 PM | Yuppers, like that spooning afterwards, especially if you are in love with a person, the intamacy afterwards is the afterglow of sensuality. Lightly running my hands and fingers along the curves of her body, stroking her hair, damn, i'm getting worked up again, maybe i'll self manipulate and hug myself afterwards.. | |
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