| hugging after sex
Posted: 1/19/2007 10:23:52 PM | | Yeah…..feeling close; like you are still connected; spooning afterwards, me spooning with my breasts up against his back, feeling the warmth coming off of him; him turning over face to face giving me a hug I can still feel his heart beating fast; I love that feeling!! For me it is still part of the high! | |
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 1/19/2007 10:57:40 PM | | Hugging ...or cuddling afterward is a common courtesy if the sex was sincerely shared as an intimate encounter and it was the start of something truly intimate. I am no expert for other's experiences along these lines, but I have no problem w/ hugging, cuddling. or spooning w/ a woman who bared herself w/ me ...and beared w/ me for what I no longer enjoy w/o some compassion beyond the passion. Hugging and cuddling may just be what I need to know for a woman's heart, who may not have been as satisfied w/ our doing it to start ...and I was less than sure for the nature that abandoned me when I was w/ a totally self-centered woman determined to make me less appealing to the next one. No need to add further, either by you or myself ...for this thread, but i'd be more than happy to field email inquiries if your're confused by this. There's nothing that I welcome more than clarifying what I mean by what, but not necessarily here on this most public venue for sincere communication. | |
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 1/19/2007 11:59:59 PM | yep, that's a must..I need to feel his arms around me..it's just the intimacy thing..not to mention that the cheeks of my a$$ and my back are always like ice so the warmth of his naked body against mine just makes me feel....content, warm and safe. god I need a man..my a$$ is freezing right now. | |
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 1/20/2007 12:49:01 PM | I dont really need a hug after sex, as hugs are usually something you give someone when they are sad or your saying goodbye to someone. Its more something u do with friends or family.. not after sex?
I wouldnt mind a back massage instead of a hug, lol just kidding. Im not that demanding.
But I do like to lay by myself and relax for a bit, then maybe get something to drink or smoke.
But jumping out of bed right away doesnt seem right to me either, gives me the impression they dont feel comfortable enough or they only want to be in bed just for sex.
I thought cuddeling somone leads to or hints at the fact someone wants to have sex, not afterwards?
Cuddeling is okay before going to sleep sometimes for me. But if your going to take up the whole bed and squish me at an attempt to cuddle, im probably not going to be able to sleep comfortably. Then Im going to be a **** the next day cuse im not a morning person.
Some guys like cuddeling more than me, and I always have to push them away to fall asleep, and they think I dont wanna touch them or something, and they usually get kinda offended.. so I would just have to wait till they fall asleep so I can. Something to keep in mind, when your boyfriend or man doesnt want to cuddle with you, its not because he doesnt want to be close to you... he already was during sex. lol.
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 1/23/2007 8:13:48 PM | | Snuggling is always nice..just laying in each others arms relaxing after a great experience. Kissing...laying my head on his chest....just enjoying the moment! | |
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 1/23/2007 8:35:06 PM | | Personally for me and I know it probably sounds corny, but I'm such a hopeless, I love it. I feel like it makes me and takes me closer to my partner. And from my experiendes does it not make for a fire starter in the morning? | |
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 1/24/2007 2:13:49 AM | | Definatly not weird. In fact I think it's a good thing. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2007 2:17:13 AM | | My ex used to get mad at me because when we were done, I would give him a quick kiss and then off to the bathroom. It wasn't anything to do with him. It is just that if I don't get up and use the restroom immediately, I end up with a severe urinary tract infection. When I come back to bed, though the cuddling starts. I think hugging and cuddling after sex is important. It shows that you are loved. | |
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Joined: 1/2/2007
Msg: 109 | |
| hugging after sex
Posted: 1/24/2007 2:31:49 AM | NAHHHHhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!..........I'm far too hot and sweaty afterwards for that.......Plus if he snores...............
They had it right in the fifties......Two single beds in one room.........Push em together for some nookie then apart for some sleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep!!!!!........I'll hug him in the morning with an added BONUS for getting my eight hours of beauty rest!!!!!!  | |
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ste72
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Joined: 5/3/2007
Msg: 110 | |
| hugging after sex
Posted: 5/24/2007 10:45:43 AM | | I think hugging after having sex is the ultimate icing on the cake. I feels great, it's nice to be so close to the one you care about most and it shows you care. Hugging after sex, if ya don't do it, ya missing out big time. | |
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Posted: 5/25/2007 8:25:16 PM | To me there is nothing more intimate then holding one another after making love and falling asleep in one another's arms. A man I dated used to hold my hand and would not let me go,...as that was his comfort zone following our love making and would ever blow me butterfly kisses to express his affection,...and he would tell me that just because we are not doing the "hockey poky",...... does not mean our love making has to end.......
Looking back he truly understood what it meant to make love and the fact that he wanted to hold me afterwards made our time together AMAZING and like nothing I had ever experienced before. Just writing about this is making me miss those days but that it was so special that I would like to incorporate it into my next relationship. | |
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Posted: 5/26/2007 7:56:46 AM | | I only like the real cuddly part after if I really like the guy. | |
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Posted: 5/26/2007 9:06:11 AM | | I kinda like laying together, and having him close to me, or even touching...but not a big fan of the whole cuddling deal. I don't mind falling asleep later with him against me...and yea...even leading to a sleepy round three or four | |
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 5/26/2007 4:52:42 PM | After-play is just as impotant as forplay. There's nothing worse then having your partner high tail it out of bed as soon as he's done and head back to the TV. That's what my EX did, even when I explained to him that it hurt my feelings when he did this. Sure it's fine to get up, get a drink of water after, but please don't forget the hugs, snuggles and added kisses, after all, two people just shared in a very intimate togetherness. To simply get up and walk away is cruel and hurtful and shows no second thought of even caring what just happened. | |
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Kazot
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Joined: 12/7/2006
Msg: 115 | |
| hugging after sex
Posted: 5/26/2007 5:09:25 PM | Mmmmmmmmm After sex intimacy!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I love the glow, the warmth, the smell and taste. Holding her close, feeling her skin cool, nuzzling and light kisses, tasting the salt.
Sometimes we have to get up to do things, sometimes it was a quicky and fun but not a good place or time to savour it but when I can I want to enjoy every second. | |
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 5/26/2007 6:35:17 PM | | my gf loves to be hugged after sex makes her feel secure as when i told what i use to do when i was in the army.she said that i make her feel more secure. | |
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 7/17/2007 11:30:42 PM | I couldn't agree with you more!
Snuggling after sex brings you closer together. Lying there in each others arms, Skin touching, hearts pounding, the softness of your lips touching.
It shows you how much the other person cares for you and visa versa. | |
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Posted: 7/17/2007 11:33:06 PM | Cuddles are good after sex but sometimes .. Sleep is better  | |
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Posted: 7/18/2007 1:51:48 AM | No. this is against the law.
Its one of the 10 commandments.
#11Thou shalt not cuddle after sex.
Its simple;
Im too hot afterwards and want to go to sleep.
In my experience the woman only wants to cuddle if she didnt have that PEAK orgasm.
If the woman had a peak orgasm she would be too hot too!
Now lets argue. We know that we dont know what the mystery to a female orgasm is.
Some women get them. some dont and some think they do.
In my oppinion if the woman wants to cuddle, it means I have to go down and do some more work to get the job done! She shouldnt want to cuddle. She should be too hot, or else orgasm didnt happen.
yes I know everything.
No one is reading this. But I feel like a professor anyways. | |
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 7/20/2007 7:54:36 PM | | Guys try this. after all the fun, gently rub the girls face and body. Then gently barely touching, kiss her neck and down to her belly. OOPS, IT STARTS ALL OVER AGAIN!!! OVER AND OVER.. NO MINUTE MAN !!! Trust me, it works...... I suprised one girl that I could have over three orgasams..... She could not handle that, so she would make me deliver my goods inside her so I could not go anymore... I know some neat things that will get a girl hanging by her toes that she did not even know would knock her socks off... Maybe I should write a book....... Naaaaaa I like to keep my secrets so I will have some edge of getting much more pleasure.. :) | |
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bayrab
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Joined: 5/16/2007
Msg: 121 | |
| hugging after sex
Posted: 7/20/2007 8:07:56 PM | UM YEAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
especially if you're sweaty and a little messy. hug and kiss and he brushes my hair from my face
and then we get up and take a shower to gether to clean up
and then start playing and kissing and fondling in the shower with water running all over us
and then exploring
and well, chit, here we go again....
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 7/20/2007 8:42:19 PM | | Sometimes it's nice and sometimes I feel like we are both too hot and sweaty etc. that it's better to unglue ourselves from one another right away. As long as I hug sometime and get hugged back then it doesn't matter if it's after sex or not. | |
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| hugging after sex
Posted: 7/21/2007 4:33:04 AM | | I'm not sure how it applies if you just met the same day. I have heard of a bear hug turn into her putting on her shoes and leaving. | |
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Posted: 7/21/2007 4:58:21 AM | | It depends on the man I'm with. Some I'm very comfortable snuggling after sex. Others it's off to the shower and good bye. | |
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