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 shyguy1331
Joined: 6/28/2005
Msg: 126
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I LUV to CUDDLE after sex. If it's done proper that is about all you can do after sex.
Then get a little nap and start all over again or get a sandwich.
 PrettyGatita
Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 127
hugging after sex
Posted: 7/21/2007 12:54:28 PM
Is very important, and for me is a must. No matter how great the sex is, If he doesn`t show me any affection afterwards(hugging, kissing, etc) is a complete turn off.
 nemchucks
Joined: 5/8/2007
Msg: 128
hugging after sex
Posted: 7/21/2007 7:21:33 PM
I think this is really funny hearing guys talk about sex like this.Men dont talk like this.Your all just trying to look good for the ladies or you dont know when to shut up.
 BROOK1963
Joined: 5/11/2007
Msg: 129
hugging after sex
Posted: 7/22/2007 7:23:03 AM
Hugging after sex to me shows a true man that he is really into you and just not having sex.Men like you must make a women feel very special after sex i feel sorry for any women who gets mixed up with you .
 blueyedbabe49
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 130
hugging after sex
Posted: 7/22/2007 9:04:36 AM
It depends on what "kind of sex" we're talking about. Intimate encounter: get dressed and go shopping.....lol. Making love with the guy i'm madly in love with: Ya damned straight he'll be holding me after.......well, after his legs stop trembling that is......lol
bad, bad blue
 smsweendoggy
Joined: 6/19/2007
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hugging after sex
Posted: 7/22/2007 9:09:33 AM
spooning is great but forking is awesome,lol.
 bayrab
Joined: 5/16/2007
Msg: 132
hugging after sex
Posted: 7/22/2007 9:18:48 AM
you are soooooo baaaaaaaad doggy
 smsweendoggy
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 133
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hugging after sex
Posted: 7/23/2007 10:18:33 AM
booooow woooooow!
 NerdStatus
Joined: 1/9/2007
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Posted: 7/23/2007 10:30:51 AM
I'm a bit of a hybrid... there are times when I want to cuddle, sometimes not...

I usually don't cuddle right after 'cause I just got done doing a lot of work, and need to get some watter But, I'm back quickly to do the cuddle / hug thing.
 splitrock
Joined: 5/16/2007
Msg: 135
hugging after sex
Posted: 7/23/2007 11:10:11 AM
I think it is important; some of the deepest conversations can happen after good sex.
 Paprikash!
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 136
hugging after sex
Posted: 7/23/2007 1:09:19 PM
Hugging after sex?! What! Next they'll be trying to french kiss me!!!!
 lovevampy
Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 137
hugging after sex
Posted: 7/23/2007 1:49:27 PM
hug me , kiss me , lets make love again!
 Limestone_Lady
Joined: 6/20/2007
Msg: 138
hugging after sex
Posted: 7/23/2007 2:47:06 PM
To keep him in bed for the cuddle, there is a case of water within reach of the bed.... simple really. We are both cuddlers, so it is seldom that we don't hold each other afterwards, except sometimes in extreme heat.
 doors1999
Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 139
hugging after sex
Posted: 7/29/2007 9:44:24 PM
Is it not important that a man respects and honors the person he has just made love to
 Fractalwater
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 140
hugging after sex
Posted: 7/29/2007 9:49:19 PM
Hardcore: After the sweat has dried and fluids replaced, I am all for cuddling.

Softcore: Cuddling is almost essential, its kind of like the icing on the cake or the cherry on top.

My girlfriend and I ALWAYS cuddle afterwards, I would actually feel kind of rejected if that didn't happen.
 Joquer
Joined: 9/26/2005
Msg: 141
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Posted: 7/30/2007 6:58:22 AM
usually after sex (especially a casual sexual partner) im like, alright, nice seeing you again, get your sh!t and leave so i can take a shower.

usually after sex (with my S.O.) its, cool... im gonna go get a shower *loL*

i dont know... im such an anti-girl on so many levels I guess... i just dont like to be touched if i dont have to be... i like to cuddle and stuff, but not that often and definatly not after sex.
 Anazdaddy
Joined: 7/12/2007
Msg: 142
hugging after sex
Posted: 7/30/2007 8:01:07 AM
I enjoy cuddling and the talk after it yes..but if it's really hot or we are both really sweaty, we may do the pillow talk without spooning. and often we are both very thirsty so getting a glass of water is important.
 winspirit8
Joined: 7/24/2007
Msg: 143
hugging after sex
Posted: 7/30/2007 2:11:29 PM
Sounds like a good plan...alittle mechanical don't you think? But right components. Humm?
 winspirit8
Joined: 7/24/2007
Msg: 144
hugging after sex
Posted: 7/30/2007 2:12:28 PM
I love to cuddly too.
 Kellabee
Joined: 4/14/2006
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Posted: 7/30/2007 6:10:48 PM
It all depends on the time of day and how it was done. Seriously! If I had morning sex...fantastic but I have to go to work so I shoot out of bed and get ready and if it was rough, blow your mind out sex....iiii need a cigarette....and now. But, if it was night, passionate sex, well yea, hold me now b/c my love hormones are raging.
 krissey1963
Joined: 8/4/2007
Msg: 146
hugging after sex
Posted: 8/13/2007 6:14:17 AM
i think its a great thing long as the other person like me i love it but thats just me
 the executioner
Joined: 12/19/2006
Msg: 147
hugging after sex
Posted: 8/13/2007 8:27:22 AM
err your supposed to touch after sex??? no no no thats sleepy time shhhhh
 GreySpot
Joined: 9/18/2005
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Posted: 9/4/2007 3:11:01 PM
For me anyway, it sort of depended on how I felt about the woman, what did sex mean, to me, to us. If I was with a woman I didn't really care for and about, just a friend, I'd want to move away from her fairly quickly, often go to the bathroom to clean up before going to sleep. Much different with my lover though. I don't even want to let go of her for a long time. I used to joke with her sometimes, about lets not even bother to pull it out this time. We can just go to sleep like this and then we will be all ready to do it again when we wake up in the morning. lol
I think for most people it's like that with someone they love. Sex is not just about a burst of physical pleasure and release. It's about connection, the joining together of more than just your bodies. The touching and holding both before and after, such an important part of the experience.
 Melissa888
Joined: 7/18/2007
Msg: 149
hugging after sex
Posted: 9/4/2007 5:27:45 PM
I don't think this is weird at all .... it's always nice to be hugged and held after sex, it lets you know that they didn't "check out" afterwards, that it meant something to them too! lol
 TTM_1974
Joined: 5/6/2007
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Posted: 9/4/2007 6:22:16 PM
I love cuddling after sex, so I don't know what's wrong with your man.
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