| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/27/2005 10:02:33 AM | hmm... yeah what does that tell you about a woman who wants to be treated meanly from time to time?
is something deficient inside a woman which makes her want this? | |
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/27/2005 10:06:44 AM | | Easy Question. A woman will know what she wants when she sees it or feels it. All the rest is just fluff. And, it is the same thing for a man. When it "right" , there's no doubt about it. If it don't flow, it don't go. Don't let that stop you from becoming friends and being able to enjoy each other's company. The more friends, the better. More people to nourish your soul until Ms. or Mr. Right comes along. Until then, each woman want something else, just like each man. If she Ms. Right, find out what she likes. Ask her, her friends, her favorite color. her favorite scent. Massages? Candles, a glass of wine by a fireplace. You get back from a relationship what you put into it. You know.. Reap what you sow. | |
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Posted: 11/27/2005 10:08:12 AM | Agree with the...get to know yourself before you date seriously. SO many people don't know how to be alone with themselves and enjoy their own company. Most don't even take accountability for creating their own happiness. come on girls...be honesy with the boys. If you are not into them ..we are all adults...just say gently and honorable..I am not that into you . Less games, more honesty...but no harshness needed. Goes both ways.
Dating is all about investigating...don't always get what you want...patient enough..there is always a connecton somewhere. All of those bad ones helps to see what you really desire in your life. Appreciating it when it comes.
Peace wished for all of you on your search. Sheesh...as I read back..I sound so spiritual..yikes..I may also be alone for a while! | |
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/27/2005 10:41:25 AM | Nothing deficient in me Farantino, but I personally like a man to be a man, none of these doormat types, that agree with everything you say and want anything for a quiet life.
Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen - doesn't in my book mean bashing woman about, but having strength of character to stand up for themselves and putting a woman in her place from time to time. | |
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/27/2005 1:58:16 PM | Don't try to figure it out and analyze it to death...you'll only be "correct" in your interpretation half of the time and the other half is anyone's guess.
If your integrity is more important to you, then uphold it. If it isn't that important to you, then cowtow to the females you date and see if that gets you anywhere.
People pleasers lack integrity...big turn off for some women.
And trust me, I know EXACTLY what I want...that doesn't mean it's readily available.
They just weren't "into" you. Different strokes for different folks. | |
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/27/2005 8:31:32 PM | I don't know about all women, but I know what I want. I want to be able to move at my own speed and make my own choices. I want a man who treats me like a lady, i.e. opens doors, brings flowers, doesn't expect sex before a committment. I want romantic dates, candlelit dinner in a quiet restaurant, holding hands, support, communication, listening, understanding, honesty, and patience. I also know what I don't want. I don't want to feel pressured into making a decision. I don't want someone to fall in love with me on the first date. I don't want to be told that I cannot move at a slow speed or the relationship is over. I don't want to go on a date, move in immediately, and find out that I was only filling an emptiness left by another woman. If a man really cares, and it takes time for true feelings of love to surface, then he will be patient and let nature run its course. I believe in fate and that everyone who enters our life is serving a purpose, whether it be to help us see things more clearly or perhaps steer our decisions down the right path. | |
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/27/2005 11:46:52 PM | | Women like honesty, security, and someone who is trustworthy of their time. I think the conflict of not understanding women comes from perhaps being attracted to the wrong type of women, or women who have an extremely opposite personality then you, making it difficult to relate to their views on life and the men they want. | |
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/28/2005 2:52:18 AM |
I have always treated women with respect. In some cases the more i was nice to them the more irritated they became. One girl even turned round to me and said "stop being so nice to me all the time, your doing my head in"!!!
what then ? should i start behaving like a complete and utter **stard, like some guys out there, dya think i will attract more women that way?
does the 'treat em mean keep em keen' theory still work?
Not so long ago, I would have scoffed at that theory. After reading a lot of posts from various women here, it seems apparent that it is working for some guys at least.
Still, you can't just turn yourself into a **stard unless you are really one to begin with. Certainly, you can't do it to attract women who seem to want **stards because they'll see through the act and think even less of you.
I've never EVER in my life been **ssywhipped and never would be but I understand where your question comes from, man! Why is it that there are so many silly mind games happening that make us ask those questions? Does it ever happen anymore in real life that two people are MUTUALLY attracted and MUTUALLY want to treat each other well? | |
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/28/2005 6:15:47 AM | | Looks are not always important as I have seen many beautiful girls, with ugly men and visa versa. Long, passionate, kisses are very important! Whatever you do, never ask for a kiss, as I would say no. Just smack it on her so passionately she cannot resist! Too much talking and questions can really spoil things. Make her fall in love with you first! Too high expectations?.....I doubt it....I am looking for someone who is good with money, does not drink/yell too much, literate, good with children, a good sense of humour, similar interests and only has eyes for me. I also prefer someone with confidence. Love yourself 1st, then others will love you. Good luck.......possibly check out some older single mother's....you may be surprised........by the girl, with the far away eyes. | |
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| Dear Helen of Troy...
Posted: 11/28/2005 8:49:53 AM | yeah ive seen a few princesses with their frogs aswell.
But hey long passionate kisses ? ? ? smack it on her ???
Im more likely to smacked back and charged with sexual harrasment !!!
How do i make her fall in love with me? now thats a tricky one!
no i dont have any expectations left... too bruised and wounded by my own experiences :(
Well, i once tried dating a slightly older woman, but her kids just didnt take to me and after one of them told me "your not my dad, so dont tell me what to do", i left. This is another dating minefield for us single guys, it comes with alot of risk for us.
But i wudnt shut the door on that one completely just yet.
Never say never? | |
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/28/2005 12:12:15 PM | maybe i shud change my name to bradd pitt, david beckham, tom cruise or george clooney.
yeah then they wud soon be queing round the corner eh? | |
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/28/2005 12:37:15 PM | Whatever you do, never ask for a kiss, as I would say no. Just smack it on her so passionately she cannot resist!
Thanks for letting us know that some women at least don't like to be asked before being kissed, Helen. If you weren't so far away, I'd smack a passionate one on ya!  | |
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/28/2005 3:53:58 PM | We want to be made to feel special, a priority, and respect.
I want someone I can talk to and have fun with. Who makes me laugh and also makes me think. | |
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/28/2005 4:22:28 PM | Every woman I know, wants to be in a relationship that will allow her to make her own choices, explore her needs as they relate to the needs of her partner, and not have to apologize for her views. I don't want my partner to be anything but what they are. If he has aspects about him that are new and interesting to me, I will want to share them. If he has things about him I can't deal with, then we will work on it or we will part.
We don't want our partners to be on their best behaviour, we want the truth. No one needs a schoolboy looking for approval. I want a man who is all grown up and proud of his masculinity. | |
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/28/2005 4:52:40 PM |
We want to be made to feel special, a priority, and respect.
Well, I'm glad to hear that, Polly. Apparently, according to the "bad boy" threads around here, a lot of women like it better when they aren't a "priority" and have to work their little fannies off to get the guy's attention. It's good to know that some women at least appreciate having a "gentleman" around! | |
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/29/2005 9:45:16 AM | well it all sounds pretty good in theory.
But im sure when your actually in a relationship, sadly all that goes out the window, then the priorities change! | |
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/29/2005 10:08:04 PM | Who knows? Not even women themselves....
You know the story: "God made man and then He rested. God made woman and neither God nor man has ever rested since!"
Then again, what's so bad about being a little restless?
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/30/2005 12:02:56 PM | | IMO Women want security. I see nothing wrong with that at all. It's my perrogative (old-school) to be the provider. | |
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/30/2005 12:16:53 PM |
Just be yourself and treat girls how you want to be treated.
It's really not rocket science. Heed the advice above. | |
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/30/2005 12:50:01 PM | "I don't want you to be the guy in the PG-13 movie everybody is really hoping for. I want you to be like the guy in the rated R movie your not sure if you like yet..." Swingers w/ Vince Vaughn
Nice guys finish last. I have never hit a woman and im faithful in a realtionship. That being said I am not a "nice guy". I don't fall all over women, give non stop compliments, always do what they want etc... give it a try. Remember everybody loves a challenge. If you do exactly as she wants she will think she can have you at her beck and call. She will not put any effort in and will probably tire of you. Later on when the relationship is solid is the time to impress her with romance and treat to special lil sometings. | |
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| WHAT IS IT THAT WOMEN WANT ? ? ?
Posted: 11/30/2005 1:00:41 PM | Positive attention if they want, apperence/presence/help if needed,
..............money/savety as backup,
.......................sex if you are nice!!!!!
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