TishaG
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Joined: 11/13/2005
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/17/2006 3:53:47 PM | I just started dating someone and we got on the subject of thongs some how...lol. He said "nothing sexier than a thong" and I said "yeah if you have a tiny butt" (I'm about 20/25 lbs overweight but considering I lost 100 lbs 9 years ago and kept it off..I'm happy with myself) and he said "nah..most butts..besides..I don't want a woman that'll break on me" and kissed me...lol. I think he might be a keeper!  | |
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/17/2006 6:06:28 PM | | messsage 351 maybe you should tell they guy if you can fart in his face with the thong on. | |
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/17/2006 6:19:40 PM |
So many people claim looks don't matter and it doesn't matter what they look like if there's no connection mentally or whatnot...well i say it's BS! It does matter, if it didn't then I wouldn't be trying to lose weight and other people wouldn't be starving themselves to be "perfect".
YES!! Agreed. | |
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/17/2006 6:28:23 PM | | Update, my sister who is a bbw is dating a really good looking guy right now, so there are worthy guys who like big girls. She's had lots of success on bbw sites. | |
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/17/2006 6:28:36 PM | my sister and I have a joke....
"at least i'm not ugly.. I can always loose the weight- but the poor skinny ugly girls can't do jack shit... "
anyways- it makes us smile and yeah... | |
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/17/2006 6:35:05 PM | | I was dating a girl and one time went by her house and was lookgn around at some pics on her mantle. Saw what I would assume was a high school grad pic, and she was huge! She never mentioned that, but her body was a little larger than average, very nice though. | |
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/17/2006 10:10:06 PM | I have a magnet the shape of a PIG... it says:
"I may be fat, but you're ugly and I can go on a diet" | |
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/17/2006 10:11:21 PM | underboss69, besides not being a very nice person.. I've noticed you have a habit of going into threads and posting something really negative.. .you aren't a TROLLLLLL are you???? | |
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/17/2006 10:46:28 PM | Ewwwwww.... they are aren't they... lol
Most people.. "fit people" can't keep up with me so I don't have to explain myself to any man, anyways... that is his choice just like with any of us who likes certain looks in a person. Tonight, I just really don't care, to each their own. | |
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/17/2006 11:30:12 PM | | I dated numerous girls who were overweight, would I do it again? Yes! I'm not going to avoid or make up lame excuses because of their weight, I'd be missing out on some great people if I did that. If they want to lose weight, that's great but like I tell em. Do it for yourself and not for me, I'll just be there to help you out. | |
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/18/2006 9:01:14 PM | mesnafugal
I never said i was a nice guy? did I? me im a bit of a pr!ck
why just because i wont do a fat girl, but youre ok though 
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/18/2006 10:01:53 PM | Hmmm, I used to be overweight and have never had a problem dating and having gorgeous boyfriends (keeping them is another matter altogether), but if personality had anything to do with it, I'm still the same person, just 60lbs lighter. I still don't have trouble dating, but I also happen to be the one that choses wether they stay in my life or not. I do like myself a lot more now though, because I can run up the stairs and still have the energy to go all night  | |
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/19/2006 7:10:16 AM | I have been over-weight my whole life. what most people don't realize is that obesity is often there with depression. Coping with the depression contributes to the obesity and that leads back to the depression. It's a horrible cycle.
One good thing about being the fat one or the ugly one is that you can see the truth about the people around you. If someone is a good person then they will accept you and treat you good. If that someone is a bad person then they will be condesending, rude and inconsiderate, and you will know that you don't nees to waste your time on them.
When you are looking for someone to date or to start a serious relationship with, please consider this, do you want someone who is very good looking but will leave you at the first sign of trouble or do you want someone who while not having perfect looks will love you more than anything and will stand by you no matter what? The choice is yours. | |
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/19/2006 8:55:31 AM | underboss - "why just because i wont do a fat girl,"
You should have known better LOL Fat people don't like it when people are honest about not being attracted to them. I agree with the post that got you called a troll, so put this skinny wench on the troll list if you want, but I will still have the same preferences. Most will claim it is simply because I am shallow and assume that it is the visual that bothers me, when in fact it is having to worry about dealing with their medical issues and watching them suffer through them. That would hurt. So, I guess I am a troll for not wanting to date firemen because I would always worry about whether or not they were going to live through their shift or have lung problems in the future. Some people think preferences are shallow judgements of others, when to me, it is just that I don't think I could take it. | |
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| dating a person who ppl think is overweight
Posted: 4/19/2006 9:06:47 AM | | dating a person who is overweight shouldnt matter theres a thing call crismima **** all the other shit looks are just an added bonus personailty the way they make you feel who cares what there weight is screw what ppl think ppl like that are just idiots ur gurl is ur gurl because she wants to and u want her too **** the weight issue | |
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Posted: 4/19/2006 9:08:32 AM | trolls are ugly and they are strange ppl......... | |
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Posted: 4/19/2006 9:37:10 AM | | LOL if that is the only definition, I wouldn't classify underboss as one. But this place sure is flooded with them | |
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| dating a person who ppl think is overweight
Posted: 4/19/2006 3:07:19 PM | other shit looks are just an added bonus personailty the way they make you feel who cares what there weight is screw what ppl think ppl like that are just idiots ur gurl is ur gurl because she wants to and u want her too **** the weight issue-deuce11
Im still trying to decipher that? WTF are you saying ? my translator just went home | |
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/19/2006 6:11:34 PM | Heat in the winter , shade in the summer !
as Tony says " They’re Gr-r-reat ! " LOVE IT!!
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!!
If the personality is great, then what are you worried about?!
It doesn't matter what you weigh, its bloody society thats put that pressure on so many women/men today...sheesh, get over it, and love what you've got, and who you are, and who you are with  | |
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/19/2006 6:29:16 PM | Honestly someone said it before but there has to be a chemistry of some sort. In general I know I'm not attracted to an overweight girl just from a physical stand point. But before you knock me for being some materialistic jerk or something let me clarify / explain.
It's just like any other attribute. I could never date a girl who didn't have a cute face no matter how good looking the rest of the body was. I want the whole package just like everyone else and am just up and frank about it. When I'm saying overweight I'm thinking like someone who weighs more then I do as not being acceptable for me. I take care of myself to some point that I would think I deserve someone else who takes care of themself also. Definately not to the extent I do *ie working out 3-5 hours a day* but to some extent. It's just adds to character / work ethic. I can understand a girl that does work her butt off but happens to have not great genes and therefore is still slightly packing some pounds.
I'm sympathetic to that because I also have not that great genes and work for everything *even how little it is* I got.
It's just one of those things. If you can't see yourself being with that person there's no point in fronting just so you look nice / considerate in the eyes of society. I'm not saying I deserve or even want some girl that others would say could be modeling. I mean it would be nice but I am realistic and know some girl like that would probably more likely then not, not find me attractive at all.. I can understand this.
So when you say a girl who is overweight it is pointless. Everyone has a different opinion what they consider to be overweight... If it matters any I definately would not date a girl who is bigger then me... And I set a pretty big upper limit. | |
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/19/2006 7:05:10 PM | My two cents (take it for what it's worth, maybe not much, but it's a topic near and dear to my heart).
Fact #1: I am overweight (admission is the first step, right?)
Fact #2: I work with kids (great job, can't ask for a more rewarding career)
My concerns: The body image debate that causes 10 year old girls to feel they are fat and ugly because they don't look like the girls in the magazines and billboards they are bombarded with every day. 10 year old girls on diets!! Diets!!! I'm so tired of making excuses and hearing all the reasons why women or men should lose weight and the attitude (of some) that if someone dares to date us, that they are somehow doing us a favour. Acceptance is acceptance whether it has to do with age, hair colour, freckles, an annoying laugh, weight or anything else that makes us all different, wonderful, unique individuals.
Berate me, debate me, contest my opinion, but I just felt like sharing my humble opinion. | |
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| dating an overweight person?
Posted: 4/19/2006 7:56:52 PM | Personally I could care less if someone doesn't want to date me because of my weight. I do not live my life for other people, I know what type person I am and if someone doesn't want to get to know the real ME because of my weight then it is totally THEIR loss not mine. As for you ppl just trying to get some of us stirred up, get a life. I could care less about your opinions of me or anyone else. If you have preferences then so be it, that is your choice and your life. If you think any of us will fall into your little games you are wrong. You can cut overweight people down if that is what makes you feel like a better person because it only shows the type person you really are. Just because we might have more pounds on us than is "socially" accepted (which is a crock of ****) does not mean we are not caring, smart, pretty and very normal people. To each their own. | |
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