| Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them!
Posted: 2/2/2006 4:16:12 PM | You know, I'm just curious, since we're about to hit the inaugural 50th page for this thread.
I haven't been in this thread since the start - has anyone? - but I have learned a few things in the last 20 or so pages:
1. I hate whining, and yet I have returned to this thread over and over again, like a dog to its own vomit, to listen to it. I have no explanation for this other than the fact that dropping verbal napalm on the herd, and listening to them collectively groan, amuses me. I am definitely NOT a nice guy.
2. This is a sexist confession. Guys whining makes me more sick than the whining of women.
3. Some people need a collective, swift, hard kick in the rump. I have plenty of vices and character flaws, but this is not one of them.
4. Some women enjoy coddling whiners. Thankfully, these women are in the minority. I read a definite and undeniable stench of disgust from most of the women who participated in this discussion.
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| Will all the nice guys stop asking why we don't want them!
Posted: 2/2/2006 4:41:19 PM | { redviking } boy did you hit it on the head it seams all the girl out hear are too stuck up on themselves to even answer us some times or all they do is complain about the last guy we are not the same we are just like you women all different some good ,some bad, and some plain wild , why do we judge each other by are Ax's then we wounder why we don't have any luck come on people get real ! | |
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| Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them!
Posted: 2/2/2006 4:54:33 PM |
I personally think terrorists, mass murderers, rapists, child molesters, drunk drivers, wife abusers, and the like are much more disgusting then men who are whiners. - poorgie
You know, I like how you always put everything in perspective, poorgie. It's usually not relevant, and it rarely accomplishes anything, and it's not even really a POINT, but you are absolutely right. Mass murder, rape, pedophilia and beating up your wife are worse sins than whining.
The difference, though, is that sometimes - rarely, but sometimes - murderers, rapists and abusers can be reformed.
Whiners can't. This thread proves that. | |
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| Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them!
Posted: 2/2/2006 6:03:02 PM |
I personally think terrorists, mass murderers, rapists, child molesters, drunk drivers, wife abusers, and the like are much more disgusting then men who are whiners. - poorgie
Are these groups not usually made up of Men. Have you ever wondered that if 1 out of ever 3 women have been either raped or molested by a man. Many by family members that they have trusted and were brought up to think of as nice people. So 'nice guys' don't always have a good reputation to a girl, then when she grows she doesn't trust them as adults.
I do see, and understand that many women on this site have rude tendancies. I have seen some that appear self indulgent, or self absorbed with their looks or personality, but when you don't know someone personally should you judge their character. Just like them judging your character, which 'nice guys' don't seem to like. You judge them and don't like it when they judge you. | |
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| Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them!
Posted: 2/2/2006 6:49:23 PM | | I'd just like to say that waiting around for the guy to approach me doesn't work, nor did working up the courage to make the first move. Everytime I decide to be bold, & approach a guy, it'll go ok for a bit, then it comes right back to bite me in the ass. I feel as if I'm stuck in that "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situations. Why is it so hard for nice girls & nice guys to find each other???? And then to stay together once you've found each other??? | |
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| Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them! [Closed - Chat]
Posted: 2/2/2006 7:22:56 PM | Why I think for one minute that you would know the answer I'm not sure but here goes anyway, I have lived with a girl for four and a half years but she recently moved out because she thinks she over heard me say something offensive about her to a stranger ( I don't know what it is supposed to have been?) but enough for her to leave me without warning. The problem is she stayed with me for several months after what ever it was that annoyed her and then took an opportunity to go, I have been in love and demonstrated nothing only love for her for all those years throughout which we have been as close as any married couple perhaps better and she won't say what it was and I can't get her to tell me..this is now six months ago and I miss her with all my heart and soul and want her to return but I don't know what to do now to make things right. I couldn't have said anything except as a joke perhaps but we always had a great sense of the same humour so I can't understand this at all, what can I do to let her know that I really love her forever and ever and would do anything to make things as they were? Your unscatching advise please.
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| Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them!
Posted: 2/2/2006 8:57:50 PM | Men will always feel like they are unappreciated and women will always turn their eyes from the ones who seem weak.
We didn't need fifty pages of spiking, whining, cursing, flaming, baiting to figure that out.
It isn't that women don't want a man who will treat them well. They just don't want a guy who needs constant reassurance.
YES...this IS hypocrisy as the women themselves want constant reassurance but that is hardly the point of the thread is it.
We will have to start a different fifty page thread to get to that point, won't we?
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| Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them!
Posted: 2/3/2006 5:34:47 AM |
YES...this IS hypocrisy as the women themselves want constant reassurance
Actually, it's not hypocrisy at all. Mating isn't about finding someone with exactly the same traits as you have. Even the sought-after body parts are (usually) different. 
She wants someone with a penis, but doesn't have one herself. Oh the hypocrisy! Oh, the double standard! | |
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| Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them!
Posted: 2/3/2006 7:35:55 AM |
I do see, and understand that many women on this site have rude tendancies. I have seen some that appear self indulgent, or self absorbed with their looks or personality, but when you don't know someone personally should you judge their character. Just like them judging your character, which 'nice guys' don't seem to like. You judge them and don't like it when they judge you.
Ok I just gotta see what gets said here. LOL. So judge me please...damn it come on!!! Ya I am back in this thread I know, BUT I am NOT WHINING..Waaa Waaaa...Just making a point here.
I am 1000% guilty of it and I think alot of us are...but is the way of life. Just like lots of things we say and do. Women being rude etc is acceptable in my eyes. They have to watch what men they meet and they can't trust every guy they meet or talk to. Nice guys is a phrase i say, has no true meaning and usually it is a negative thought anyhow when someone thinks of them. Anyhow
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