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 Lambent
Joined: 12/4/2004
Msg: 26
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No way on earth would I do this. But I know a girl who sleeps over with my roomates who does.
 Silly_Boy
Joined: 11/15/2004
Msg: 27
Would you accept or turn down?
Posted: 12/27/2004 1:07:49 PM
I would have to turn it down.
 SetFree
Joined: 9/25/2004
Msg: 28
Would you accept or turn down?
Posted: 12/27/2004 1:38:21 PM
Right now, all my internal warning bells are going off saying "agent - never sell out. . . don't do it" yadda yadda yadda. The whole moral and conscience deal, ya know.

But, if an older woman approaches me and wants to be a sugar momma, would I actually do it? I don't know. I can sit here and say "NO WAY", but, I really wouldn't know until this extremely hypothetical situation occurs (which I'm pretty sure never will, so the entire point is moot anyways).

To summarize, I'm a waffle. Sans syrup.
 Lady Marie
Joined: 11/17/2004
Msg: 29
Would you accept or turn down?
Posted: 12/28/2004 8:12:45 PM
What is the wealth & comfort for if there is no LOVE?

Love is all that matters...

Turn down ofcourse.
 Benny604
Joined: 10/6/2004
Msg: 30
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Would you accept or turn down?
Posted: 12/29/2004 3:57:13 AM
I would accept the offer, hell that's a sweet deal. Even though your benefactor is most likely not very physically attractive....but hey he/she is rich. And yes you can still keep your dignity and respect; just don't tell anybody about your overnight fortune. Just imagine it, you can quit your day job and just smootch off of your sugar mama/daddy. And as for love, it comes and goes with time, but an bank account collects interest over time!
 Rheanna
Joined: 3/23/2004
Msg: 31
Would you accept or turn down?
Posted: 12/29/2004 4:42:30 AM
^ LOL Benny
 shyatfirst76
Joined: 11/15/2004
Msg: 32
Would you accept or turn down?
Posted: 12/29/2004 4:50:46 AM
I myself would turn something like that down. There is a dirty old perfevt here in MONTANA who was doing that for woman all over a town and now is facing many years in prison for all kinds of charges and the woman who acepted the money are now facing prostitution charges so who is to say that this old perv isnt doing the same thing out there.
I also think that it is a matter of self respect and how much you love and care for yourself
 1oceanlvr
Joined: 11/13/2004
Msg: 33
Would you accept or turn down?
Posted: 12/29/2004 5:48:19 AM
rheanna,

I've read enough of your posts to know you are an intelligent women. You already know what you should do. I'm a strong believer in following my insticts. Your self esteem is what is important. If you are honest about what this man can and cannot expect from you and you are ok with whatever is expected from you then it's between the two of you and no one else. Just be sure you aren't doing emotional damage to yourself. Make sure you know exactly what you will get. I've know several women who have been in the same situation and either had to fight to get what was promised or never got it at all. You are the only one who knows what you are capable of dealing with. Think carefully. Whatever you decide to do I hope you find yourself a very happy person in the end.
 Rheanna
Joined: 3/23/2004
Msg: 34
Would you accept or turn down?
Posted: 12/29/2004 10:07:39 AM
you people didn't bother to READ THE QUESTION


If you were in this situation. Would you accept or turn down?

and here I thought I was blonde!!!

Truth you no nothing about me to make ASS/U/MEumption.

I was merely asking those, if put in a postion. Would do it?
 hd77303
Joined: 11/14/2004
Msg: 35
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Posted: 12/29/2004 3:47:08 PM
Wow, tough question.
But then again as was stated before everyone has a price.
And most everyone has held something against another person for one thing or another.
When you dance do you ask the question, "hmm what kind of a lap dance should he get for $10, 20$, 50$ or a fanklin?"

A good friend of mine had a relationship like that, new harley, new lexus, plenty of cash on hand.
She seems to live with herself allright I guess.

Did your mother never tell you "darlin, your sitting on a gold mine?"

But go with what your gut tells you, you will have to live with yourself not us.

Best of luck.
 whosyourbadkitty
Joined: 8/27/2004
Msg: 36
Would you accept or turn down?
Posted: 12/29/2004 3:53:00 PM
without reading any of the posts here but yours rheanna... i have to say i'd turn him down for obvious reasons. but i also wouldn't shun you if you did the deed. it's a choice you'll have to seriously consider if these material things mean so much to you that you'd offer yourself up in exchange. and it's a choice you will always have to live with... so if you could live with it with no regrets... hmmmmm... (i still wouldn't do it) but you'll have to do some soul searching to find the answer to this one. ;) good luck to ya...
 CEC93013
Joined: 12/28/2004
Msg: 37
Would you accept or turn down???
Posted: 12/29/2004 4:35:50 PM
Well Rheanna,


First off,leave your boobs alone they are just fine the way they are...

As to the sugar daddy???

I guess you could say that I did that,but I never met her face to face...

I did pay for her home,I did pay for her education,PC,Cell Phone,a home for her mom ect.

And I did want to marry her,but she grew up and now I'm just too old to understand her any more...(-;

But I'm not sorry I did it,I like to think that my efforts gave her a better chance at life...

She have become a well respected college educator,in good standing in her community and a very level headed young woman,she will do well in her life and some day she will choose the right man because she knows what she's looking for...(-;

I would not do the same for an american girl,just because there are far too many distraction's...(-;

So I jst come and flirt...
 Quack
Joined: 12/17/2004
Msg: 38
Would you accept or turn down?
Posted: 12/29/2004 6:22:17 PM
And just think this post came from woman that wouldnt date a guy cause he hunts... Yet you woud consider his? Kinda makes me wonder.

I would turn it down, and I could really use the money right now, it would be hard, but I would prolly have to turn it down.
 redneckgirl133
Joined: 11/18/2004
Msg: 39
Would you accept or turn down?
Posted: 12/29/2004 7:12:05 PM
Rheanna..if you don`t stand for something..you`ll fall for anything..My God, girl..don`t you have standards????Anyone can do what your friend is suggesting...How the hell does that you make you feel at the end of the day...??? That is a lazy women`s way, and you didn`t strike me as a lazy woman...but what do I know...redneckgirl133
 Rheanna
Joined: 3/23/2004
Msg: 40
Would you accept or turn down?
Posted: 12/29/2004 8:18:37 PM
You guys are too funny! Especially you Truth..I was sugar mama for crying out loud...So I've been on the other fence. And just cause he's hot, hell yeah I would let him spoil me. Than I would chain him to the bed, so he couldn't go find another chick.. :P

No I'm not lazy I work a good 16-18 hours..and 6 of it is just on the road alone.... I don't mind working in a relationship. Never had that problem before. I don't mind pitching in. I would rather have a 2 way street relationship and not a one sided relationship.

As for standards and morals..I've been dancing 10 years and been with my x for 14 years and never once have I ever cheated on him.

(I don't consider this cheating) Once a guy begged me to go to the mall. I drove to the mall by myself, met him in my favorite shop. (I was going to mall anyway) stayed only in that shop for probably about 1/2 hour trying on different clothes and modeling them for him. (Night Club, Street Wear) (nothing provactive) And he spent 3k on me. Hey it was nice for a change for a guy to do something for me. Rather than me me me me being the one always doing something for the guy. I didn't do anything wrong. After he bought all the clothes he said thank you for a being a sport and left the mall. Than I went to work. I didn't do anything wrong, Didn't have to sleep with him. And it felt good to be spoiled for a day. Only reason he did it was to put smile on face. He said I deserved to be treated nice and that was last I ever seen or heard of him.

Would I do it again...If I don't have to sleep with him.. Yep, I would say "Yes, I would"

Doesn't make me any less of a person...I don't care what anybody thinks of me. I'm not a bad person, and I have my standards of morality. And there are things that I will and will not do.

To be spoiled for 1/2 hour out of one day of my life that was the best thing anyone ever did for me..And it felt special...Like I meant something.

I'll shut up now.. I don't really care if you people like me or not but I sure and heck am not a gold digger. I work more hours than half you people. And put up with a lot more BS in a day than most people.

And no I will still not date a hunter..Poor animals...
 ItzAskill
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 41
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Posted: 12/29/2004 9:18:43 PM
i would strongly agree with that other guy, you ABSOLUTLEY cannot buy back ur dignity and whut not... Just tis not worth it. Find someone that likes you for you and is not a complete buy out... It just doesnt work that way... I mean it can, but At somepoint in your life you WILL regret it, cuz ya u will be living well... But whut good id it if the feelings arent there, and you cannot live a life filled with love, but only objects. I would back out, for your own good. But hey you dont have to listen to me, I am just another person.
 Rheanna
Joined: 3/23/2004
Msg: 42
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Posted: 12/29/2004 9:32:41 PM
Thanks guys now the cops are coming after me...grr Couldn't just give an opinion could you..:p
 FictionWriter901
Joined: 12/13/2004
Msg: 43
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Posted: 12/29/2004 9:37:13 PM
No way, Rheanna- I've seen way too much evidence to the contrary. You're far from a bad person. :-)
 tommyray1
Joined: 12/29/2004
Msg: 44
Would you accept or turn down?
Posted: 12/29/2004 9:42:03 PM
turn and go away...your not a lady of the night, no real relationship,no love
 Rheanna
Joined: 3/23/2004
Msg: 45
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Posted: 12/29/2004 9:43:06 PM
^MUAH fiction :)

^Tommy - I'll go away when I get my car back...then my butt will be working 18 hours..Oh yeah what a life??? Won't even have the time to date.
 FictionWriter901
Joined: 12/13/2004
Msg: 46
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Posted: 12/29/2004 9:45:56 PM
Right back at ya!
 Rheanna
Joined: 3/23/2004
Msg: 47
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Posted: 12/29/2004 9:46:42 PM
YW
 Rheanna
Joined: 3/23/2004
Msg: 48
turn down
Posted: 12/29/2004 9:55:20 PM
Darn it!! Now the cops are knocking on my door! OOHH and he's a hottie!!!!! :p Getting the handcuffs out..
 FictionWriter901
Joined: 12/13/2004
Msg: 49
turn down
Posted: 12/29/2004 10:03:00 PM


I don't know, though- i doubt you'd need to go to such measures. ;-)
 Rheanna
Joined: 3/23/2004
Msg: 50
Would you accept or turn down?
Posted: 12/30/2004 11:07:56 AM
Yes I am..I am just a gold digger..You are right...I am not going argue my case with a pion. Truth, We are just out for your money...Not like I commit duress to make you guys go into the clubs. Funny, I'm the gold digger and I'm the one that supported the X for 14 years. That makes sense.

Hey Truth, How come you are a pansy about not putting a photo up? HMM!!
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