| Sex after a long dryspell
Posted: 5/29/2006 8:28:34 AM | I think that there has to be a connection, common interests, warmth... I agree so much with PurelyKimmy - it is how well the two work together in bed that detrmines the experience. Friendship, long-term and all sorts of good things can grow out of that.
Life is too short!! | |
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| Sex after a long dryspell
Posted: 5/29/2006 11:42:20 AM | Justhappy... I couldn't have written out how I've been feeling any better.
I have done the one nighters... ancient history now... and at this point in my life I'm not comfortable going back to that. Yet. For me it's going to take a sweet, gentle, considerate, understanding, confident, assertive, kind man to get me back in the saddle. I WANT to ride, but sometimes we need a leg up. | |
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| Sex after a long dryspell
Posted: 5/31/2006 12:16:24 AM | It is very hard to have a "dryspell"for someone who likes sex as much as i do but i have been without for soon long that i feel like the next fella i'm with will need a football helmet and a firstaid kit....NEways i think it is up to what kind of person u are and who u are comfortable with. | |
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| Sex after a long dryspell
Posted: 5/31/2006 7:58:54 AM | well stop analyzing it.. *using nike`s slogan*.. "just do it" .. look 4 something more.. it`ll have more meaning 2 it then a 1 nite stand.. | |
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| Sex after a long dryspell
Posted: 5/31/2006 8:22:34 AM | Been there and done the one night stands.
Went back there again during a dry spell - and ended up feeling disgusted with myself... The sex was good and I enjoyed it at the time, but it wasn't what I wanted long term and I knew that. Kinda wished I hadn't after cos it wasn't right for me... not explaining myself very well here.
What I guess I'm trying to say is that if it's what you fancy go for it, but if you're experiencing a dry spell cos you're waiting for the right person, then keep waiting or you won't be impressed with yourself after  | |
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| Sex after a long dryspell
Posted: 5/31/2006 8:46:54 AM | | I try to avoid the dryspell myself, so I don't go without - but the best thing to do would be to just go for it, it will be weird at first but you fall right back into it. | |
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| Sex after a long dryspell
Posted: 5/31/2006 9:50:36 AM | Sex like riding a bike?
Geez...I used to race to be the first to finish.
No wonder getting back in the saddle after a dry spell wasn't so hot! | |
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| Sex after a long dryspell
Posted: 5/31/2006 9:54:40 AM | I am having a dry spell myself at the moment.. LOL...
I haven't even taken out BOB.. I am waiting for the perfect moment before
I commit to sex with someone again.. and I know that it will be perfect!
You will do fine once you are ready... have fun! | |
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| Sex after a long dryspell
Posted: 4/15/2008 7:28:57 PM | | Someone said it's like riding a bicycle. I thought about a one-night stand just to get me going again, but can't get myself to do it!!! I understand the analyzing~~ I have a one-track mind, when I have one goal on my mind...geez, I can't quit. I will "do it" sooner or later, but it will be someone that I really WANT to have me, not just for the orgasm. I can do that myself. | |
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| Sex after a long dryspell
Posted: 4/15/2008 7:34:37 PM | I don't do one night stands.
I enjoy the romantic aspects of sexuality.... and I like to have breakfast the next morning. | |
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| Sex after a long dryspell
Posted: 4/15/2008 7:37:02 PM | | I am going through a dry spell too. Personally I am hoping for more. I am better than a one night stand. Hope you feel the same way about yourself. | |
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| Sex after a long dryspell
Posted: 4/15/2008 7:40:59 PM | It is.
Someone said it's like riding a bicycle.
Dry spell or not, you'll know when it's the right time. | |
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