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Posted: 1/2/2005 8:42:43 PM | Whitebirch,
I am going to have to use a comparison on this one....You know how a 2 year old pushes & pushes to see how much they can get away with? I see it as being the same type of thing. On the other hand women do it too. It seems that the whole beginning of a relationship mostly consists of this in some way or another.
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Posted: 1/2/2005 10:20:26 PM | The thing that gets me is when you state in your profile that you are not interested in one night stands or casual sex and they still contact you for that...seems to be a lot of illiterate people online... | |
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Posted: 1/3/2005 12:37:41 AM | It's all too common on here nowadays, most people are only looking to get off.
Plain and simple.
It's a red flag for me when when sexual talk comes up in the first few chat sessions, I simply let them know I am not interested in chatting any longer and that ends it.
If it's sex talk they want, there's always millions of other sites for that, I don't tolerate it.
If your not comfortable with it let them know, if they continue, delete them.
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Posted: 1/4/2005 4:27:18 PM | always.... yep, i guess some have to be little kids & try that pushing thing...
but i can't believe so many guys are so dense. people keep saying that women do it, too, but they're forgetting that it's much more common for the men to respond positively than it is for the women. it's just tiring. & the names that some of these people come up with - they make me wanta puke - but at least they're being honest & you can steer clear becuz it's right out there...
to the person who said that everybody (or most people) are just looking for sex; well i don't think that's true at all. i'm not saying that there aren't a ton of people like that, but everybody or most people? nah.... i think generally people would like to find someone who they can relate to on a deeper level (no pun intended), & there's so much loneliness out there that it's not funny. | |
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Posted: 1/4/2005 7:58:59 PM | | Darn, I wish I had that problem, lol! No, I think its bad taste to go into some thing like that right away. I guess in a way its better to find out what that person is like right away. Then wasteing a lot of time to find out what he or she is really after. | |
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Posted: 1/4/2005 10:55:36 PM | | This topic is DEFINATELY a pet peeve of mine, even though some of my most intimate of friends like to 'hint' at 'IT' when talking to me online and I politely, but promptly change the subject, and change it again, and again, and What was it we were dicussing here? Now back to politics (almost as touchy a subject, so personal, religeon too! HA! The very first thing 'they' taught us in 'beauty school' was to never discuss those 3 things with clients. That is, if you wanted a tip...of course forums are different we are here to discuss right? I say nay, get the hint? | |
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Posted: 1/5/2005 5:16:58 PM | *laugh* yep, you just keep changing it. i'd rather not have to in the first place though.
& as far as not discussing politics or religion - isn't that silly? i mean, aren't feelings on those two items so deeply entwined with our feelings on life that they NEED to be discussed?
i mean, can you imagine the dinnertime discussion between a husband & wife:
wife: "i really am glad that the minimum wage was FINALLY raised to help the poor workers who can't support themselves let alone a family."
husband: "what? you mean you're glad businesses will be going under just to support those lazy sons-of-b*tches?"
wife: "that's just a myth. if it was just laziness that made them poor, then why are all the migrants barely making it? more propaganda from the republicans. jesus christ already."
husband: "now don't be talking against me & my friends! we don't want anyone to take a piece of our pile (of money)! & don't use the lord's name in vain."
blah blah blah.. you get the idea. i think these things need to be discussed, or else they can really piss you off later! | |
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Posted: 1/5/2005 9:21:39 PM | I would assume that some people have done the love thing and find it too complicated after a number of relationships and in the end just want pure and simple companionship. Or some people have never done the love thing and all they know is sex.
I would just kindly tell that person that although sex is part of a heathly relationship, it's something that will be discussed when the time is right. | |
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Posted: 1/25/2005 2:20:36 PM | | When I joined this web site, like two previous others, I decided to get everything out in the open immediately. Why? It is frustrating to date a woman only to find later in the relationship her interest in intimacy does not equal mine. So in my profile I spell out my feelings in this area. If the woman disagrees she can find other good men to date. Since I have done this I get few responses, but those who do respond are women of definite interest. I have become friends with a professional woman that brought up the subject on our first meeting. And if that friendship leads to intimacy we know our views are compatible. Today more and more women are comfortable with their sexual freedom. I find myself chased once in awhile and I like it. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2005 10:15:06 PM | | Well, as unappealing as it is ... I appreciate the men who do it -- It helps me weed them out real fast without investing too much time on them. Really guys, it's a huge turn-off. Quite honestly, if that's all you have to talk about after only 5 mins, we'd never get along anyway. | |
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Posted: 8/24/2005 1:48:07 PM | | I personally think it is insultintg to think that all u want from me is sex. I dont wnt that,..Ooops I meant to start off with. I evventually want it,,,lol,,. But not right away. But you knowww,,,there are alot of women that r the same way. | |
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Posted: 12/20/2005 11:21:13 AM | | for me personally if I'm speaking to someone that I have just started chatting with, if there is any sexual remarks, or inuendos made...it is an instant TURN-OFF for me. I will not even respond and quickly disappear.... I want to know that a gentleman is interested in me as a person, after all there are sooo many questions to be asked about one another aside from sex. Note....... that I am no prude by any stretch of the imagination, but I do consider myself a lady and like to be treated as such....perhaps I'm old fashion.....Just the way I see it | |
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Posted: 12/20/2005 9:56:01 PM | What? You mean I wasn't supposed to be swept off my feet when I got the email that said
"I hear older women are horny all the time and can't get enough of it, are you getting it? I am 5'9", 11 inches, fit and clean, email me if interested" | |
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