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 Coach_reds

Joined: 9/15/2007
Msg: 51
Muscular women... Turn-on or off?
Posted: 1/22/2008 7:05:19 PM
i would love to be with a woman who keeps herself in good shape. Fitness competitor body style is perfect, muscular is good, as long as they stay fit
 Ignoble

Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 52
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Posted: 1/22/2008 7:09:44 PM
RE: First post.

lol I love how women automatically assume it makes them intimidating or makes us feel inadequate. Why avoid the obvious answer?

Muscles = Manly.

Im not attracted to men at all. Soo.... seeing a masculine quality on a woman is disconcerting to me. But hey, with the lights out I dont even care. Hahahaha.


***NOTE

I dont have a problem with a woman being stronger or more fit than me. But looking muscular is genetically built into the species as a masculine trait (WHOOAAA feminists. Dont fly off the handle, Im not saying men are stronger then women, genetically, Im saying men are generitcally predisposed to being muscular whereas women are predisposed to being lithe and quick). So it really kills the attraction for me. Im sure I could get past it though, assuming it isnt ridiculous.
 rit18

Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 53
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Posted: 1/22/2008 7:12:30 PM
Depends on what "muscular" is. If every muscle she has is ripped like a bodybuilder, then no way. Nothing to do with feeling immasculized, just don't thinks it's attractive.
 papadawg

Joined: 1/18/2008
Msg: 54
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Posted: 1/22/2008 7:14:40 PM
There's being in shape & then there's being to muscular & looking like a man more then a woman. To much of anything is no good for you...
 svj

Joined: 1/11/2008
Msg: 55
Muscular women... Turn-on or off?
Posted: 1/22/2008 7:21:22 PM
It totally depends on the man. Each man has individual tastes.

As for as intimidation or inadequacy goes, that is more related to the man's self-esteem than your body.

The same guy that would be intimidated by your body would be the same guy that wouldn't be able to handle it if you beat him at, say, tennis.

But that shouldn't be a problem... how likely are you to be turned on by a guy that insecure?

So the problem should literally take care of itself.

Hope that helps!
 moptop63

Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 56
Muscular women... Turn-on or off?
Posted: 1/22/2008 8:08:14 PM
A good friend dated the woman who owns a pretty serious gym in town where most of the pros work out. She holds several titles. He said it was like "sleeping with his brother."
 LK-13

Joined: 1/6/2008
Msg: 57
Muscular women... Turn-on or off?
Posted: 1/22/2008 8:11:12 PM
a great looking person is a great looking person no matter fat, thin, short, tall or some where in between.

I've seen a woman that was 5 foot tall and 400lbs, and she was breath taking beautiful.
I've see a woman that was 5 foot 10 and 98 lbs and she looked like 40 miles of bad road.

there are no absolutes.
it's all in the eye of the beholder.
 Kongzilla

Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 58
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Posted: 1/23/2008 3:42:25 PM
I'd have no problem being with a muscular woman. Maybe she could even give me some pointers.
 AJJM10306ny

Joined: 8/7/2006
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Posted: 1/23/2008 4:02:13 PM
I do have to say that all women turn me on as they all are a work of true beautiful human art.
 mixxalot

Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 60
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Posted: 1/23/2008 8:23:10 PM
Depends I don't really want to date a woman who has more muscles and ripped like a dude otherwise I feel like I am dating a guy and that is way too gay for me.

Healthy toned body and slim is fine but not ripped and looking like a dude, thats a freak in my book!
 Urbanessa

Joined: 8/15/2007
Msg: 61
Muscular women... Turn-on or off?
Posted: 1/23/2008 9:23:00 PM

women are meant to be soft and cuddly not hard and muscular

Oh yeah? Interesting. And which law exactly requires women to be "soft and cuddly" (which probably translates into "overweight and in bad shape" anyway).
 Gunner57

Joined: 4/17/2007
Msg: 62
Muscular women... Turn-on or off?
Posted: 1/23/2008 9:40:15 PM

especially in the bedroom? Does it make them feel inadequate?


inadequate has nothing to do with it. There's just some thing strange that comes along with being groped by a woman with bigger biceps than Me.

 bunkerjohn2

Joined: 9/19/2007
Msg: 63
Muscular women... Turn-on or off?
Posted: 1/23/2008 9:55:11 PM
Any chick that can bench press me is badass
 crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007
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Posted: 1/23/2008 10:12:34 PM
We havent noted that some women are turned off by muscular guys too.
 2BlovedeternalE

Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 65
Muscular women... Turn-on or off?
Posted: 1/23/2008 10:14:00 PM
Muscular women are a Turn-on, for sure . . but mostly as a *Fantasy*
I'm not going to make it a Deal-Breaker . . !!
It's like Very Tall Women . . Same thing . .
I've just never had very good Luck with them . . !!
. . . .
 vinny low

Joined: 8/18/2006
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Posted: 1/23/2008 10:37:22 PM
if im not allowed to be muscular neither is she....i spent my whole life working out and women think im uglier than a burning barrel full of puke .....so if i cant have credit neither can she.
 ShinyToyGuns

Joined: 11/28/2006
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Posted: 1/23/2008 10:43:19 PM
definite turn-off
 Red_Sonja

Joined: 5/7/2007
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Posted: 1/23/2008 11:09:53 PM
Maybe it's a turn off when your look emasculates the look of your man!
You know, if you look like your ready to get oiled up and compete in "Miss. biggest-muscles" then definately a turn off.
But for me, I'm a bigger girl. Geneticly I have a wider bone structure and long legs. I also, have a few extra pounds of 'jelly' to cover up my muscle tone. I kinda like it that way because I also have long legs. Tall for a girl at least 5"10 so that could be intimidating if I were a slimmer. HAha
Random question. But if that's you lifestyle, I'm sure theres a person out there for you... into body building as well!
Peace
 Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007
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Posted: 1/23/2008 11:21:06 PM
muscular women
 swindonmart

Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 70
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Posted: 1/24/2008 11:28:15 AM
Hi I have to say I find them a turn on esp in the bedroom
 Theonly1!

Joined: 5/1/2007
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Posted: 1/24/2008 11:44:29 AM
Turn-off extraordinaire if were talking chiseled muscles... I don't like a girl with abs showing either...
 everyday-guy

Joined: 12/20/2007
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Posted: 1/24/2008 12:29:50 PM
HELL no, if you make more then me, I m urs
 seven15

Joined: 2/13/2006
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Posted: 1/24/2008 1:58:10 PM
Turn on.........been looking for one all my life it seems................like why get the jack out of the trunk to change a flat when she could just lift the car up and hold it.............
 bostonsportsgal789

Joined: 12/4/2007
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Posted: 1/24/2008 2:59:07 PM
Many men I know would be attracted to athletic/fit women with some muscle. But not a hard core bodybuilder.
 Monikerjak

Joined: 12/28/2007
Msg: 75
Muscular women... Turn-on or off?
Posted: 1/24/2008 3:01:29 PM
Ya watch the testosterone levels you dont want to get too buff thats nasty, women should go for tone. I like girls that are girly, not manly.
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