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| I'm on your favorites list but you won't answer my email
Posted: 11/29/2005 7:39:20 PM |
do not complain , you have 20 women on the fav list I only have two , you are doing good , you stud
LOL, dude, what good does it do to be on the list of someone who won't even answer an email? But, anyway, my numbers are going down and with them whatever "studly" image those numbers create, I guess -- I'm removing myself from the lists of women who won't answer an email. They've got so many thousands of admirers it seems that they won't even miss me, anyway -- and vice versa!  | |
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| I'm on your favorites list but you won't answer my email
Posted: 11/29/2005 8:06:42 PM | Simply put .. she ( I assume it's a she) found your profile interesting at some point but since then she found many others even more interesting that you don't deserve a reply. It's ok you'll get used to it. Welcome to POF  | |
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| I'm on your favorites list but you won't answer my email
Posted: 11/29/2005 9:08:48 PM |
Simply put .. she found your profile interesting at some point but since then she found many others even more interesting that you don't deserve a reply. It's ok you'll get used to it. Welcome to POF
I think you're right. If she's that inconsiderate, who wants her anyway? | |
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| I'm on your favorites list but you won't answer my email
Posted: 11/29/2005 9:15:56 PM | | i would never refuse to answer an email if i got one. i have several of them email me and i have answered them all. there are also people on my friends list that i have never talked to. it's no big deal and i will probably leave them there forever. it doesn't bother me. if they ever do email me, i assure you that i would reply to them. that's just the kinda guy i am. | |
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| I'm on your favorites list but you won't answer my email
Posted: 11/29/2005 9:27:34 PM | @ artandsoul
Different people have different reasons for using their favourites function,
Ive been added and removed regularly-I dont fret over why somebody adds and removes me,
its exactly the same as real life we al have acquientences some become friends , some drift apart......
I am on about 40 I think....there are only so many crazy ladies on here...and if I wasnt such an annnoying smartass I am sure I would be on more
Chiil out buddy -dont let it bother you none - no reply = not interested....
just leave it at that - trust me. | |
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| I'm on your favorites list but you won't answer my email
Posted: 11/29/2005 11:28:23 PM | | Clarification: I don't think that a lady putting me on her favorites list means she should automatically email me. I do think that if she does put me on that list and I email HER after that, she should at least be polite enough to reply. I just thought I should clear that up because evidently some have misunderstood. | |
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| I'm on your favorites list but you won't answer my email
Posted: 11/29/2005 11:53:51 PM | Why are people assuming the people the OP speak of is a guy? I re-read his post a few times, seen no reference to a guy. Sorrry if I missed it. I just woke up. i was JUST thinking that... did anyone notice the GUY who posted the thread ...lol either way.... i've noticed im on people favorites list.. and i've never heard from them ever.... so what...dont bother me none.... plus ive added people thinking maybe im interested... and will try to catch them if they are on next... But... hey its just a LIST..... to keep track of people you'd maybe like to talk to.. or eaiser way to IM them. Maybe she had you on her list for other reasons... not like we have a few LISTS to put people under.... dont take it personal... after all its just an internet dating site.  | |
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| I'm on your favorites list but you won't answer my email
Posted: 11/30/2005 12:22:49 AM | | did she actually read and delete the email? or just read it and has it been more than a few days since then? i just ask because i know i've been guilty of not writing right away...sometimes i just want to think about my reply or i read it when i was going out and shouldn't have or i have a whole wack of replies i need to make and am feeling flooded so i leave it for a better time...but meh, maybe thats just me. if its been deleted then thats a no and kind of weird. | |
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| I'm on your favorites list but you won't answer my email
Posted: 11/30/2005 12:47:07 AM | | Angelic ... there have been a few that read them and apparently just kept them hanging around for more than a week. I know people have busy lives and I'm not that impatient. Thanks for trying to enlighten me about the possibilities, I really do appreciate it. If they're still planning to get back to me someday, after waiting for more than a week for a reply, why would I be interested still? I'd probably be in for a lifetime of waiting to get their attention if we ever did get together. | |
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| I'm on your favorites list but you won't answer my email
Posted: 11/30/2005 1:08:27 AM |
And what's the hang up about being the second, third, or even fortieth choice??? Except for the 18-20 yr olds, do any of us really think we are the first choice?....even in real life? C'mon!!! We meet someone, they aren't the right fishie, so we throw them back in the pond and find another......that's what dating is all about!
Okay, dceeee, suppose I'm on the list but not the guy who seems the MOST interesting. Fine, I can live with that, we haven't met yet and until then who knows anything at all? But once I've taken the initiative to contact her, wouldn't the polite and considerate thing to do be just to take a minute or two to write back and say something to the effect of "Thanks for writing. I am talking to (seeing someone, fill in the blank) someone else right now but I do find you an interesting person. Perhaps I will contact you at a later time. Take care."?
This is assuming I'm even in the running, ie, second third or fortieth choice. If not, write me back and just say, "Sorry. Thanks for writing. I initially thought possibly we could be a match but changed my mind. Best of luck to you." Or take me off the list at least. What possible reason could you have for keeping me on that list if I'm not even important enough to reply to? A polite rejection I can handle. But keeping me on that list and not even bothering to reply is playing some kind of game and just being plain inconsiderate, in my opinion.
Thanks for adding your comments. | |
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| I'm on your favorites list but you won't answer my email
Posted: 11/30/2005 1:27:09 AM | thank u for this posting.i dont freaking understand it?
i have done the same thing and got nothing.....do people forget they have added u or just put u on there for an ego thing,like 'look who i have on my list"
i delete people if i havent ever talked to them or never plan on it
there r to many fish on here to worry about weirdos or as#####s | |
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| I'm on your favorites list but you won't answer my email
Posted: 11/30/2005 1:54:21 AM |
lol, yeah if its a week i would send an email entitled 'your loss neenerneener' and remove yourself from their list
You're funny, Angelic! They didn't answer the first letter though; they aren't even worthy of a second one! I have been removing them. Gotta admit, it feels damn good to say  !
thank u for this posting.i dont freaking understand it?
i have done the same thing and got nothing.....
It's bizarre, isn't it, ice?
i delete people if i havent ever talked to them or never plan on it.
seems like the decent thing to do unless they're playing some silly game... | |
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| I'm on your favorites list but you won't answer my email
Posted: 11/30/2005 1:59:20 AM | Perhaps you're taking it a bit too seriously?
There's dozens of valid reasons someone could add you to a favorites list, then not say anything. You honestly can't think of one, or you just want to rant about it a little?
Perhaps s/he HAS replied to your message, but you didn't receive it. I've had several instances where I'm told I didn't receive messages and I send messages, but the recipient claims to have not received them. It happens. | |
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| I'm on your favorites list but you won't answer my email
Posted: 11/30/2005 2:02:14 AM | Maybe they are just too busy to reply to everyone who e-mails them I have a roomie who gets so many e-mails from friends and family she cannot find time to even read t hose on top of the sites they are a member on who fill up her inbox and yeah...a ton of it are perverts and jerks so anyone who they do not know already or does not fall ito the I want to talk to asap list gets over looked sometimes. I get what your saying but seriously if they did not reply to the first how many did you send  sounds like this has been something that ticked you off pretty good. Hope you do not react so strongly over everything, you seem pretty upset over it and rude to people who respond so me, I would prob ignore you too lol. If your not sure if they get a notice when you remove yourself...add me to your friends list and when I notice that I will remove myself and you can see if your notified.
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| I'm on your favorites list but you won't answer my email
Posted: 11/30/2005 2:45:38 AM |
Perhaps you're taking it a bit too seriously?
Not at all. I'm here for a serious reason.
Perhaps s/he HAS replied to your message, but you didn't receive it.
Good point. Maybe that has happened. Perhaps I should send a second email. Then, if they actually didn't bother to reply, they'll probably think I'm a stalker who can't take no for an answer. But maybe you're right and it's worth a try. It would really be lousy if I was irritated at someone for receiving no reply and on the other end she was irritated at me for not replying to her. Thanks for reminding me of the imperfections of technology and I say that sincerely.
you just want to rant about it a little?
Anytime someone has a valid complaint around here and voices it, inevitably someone pops in to accuse them of "whining", "ranting" or worse. I asked a legitimate question. The issue raised is one that has bothered a number of people. I happen to think it's rude not to reply, even briefly, to a thoughtful, decent letter and doubly so when you have added that person to your favorites list (which is probably what prompted them to write in the first place). Evidently, I'm not the only one. If noone ever complained about anything in this world, nothing would ever change for the better. Your response to my post was in some ways very helpful and appreciated. You could have left the gratuitous insult out. | |
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| I'm on your favorites list but you won't answer my email
Posted: 11/30/2005 2:56:43 AM | It's actually part of a government conspiracy art! Every guy on on this site is going to add you to his favorite list eventually 
Sometimes I hit favorites to bookmark people because i dont have time to write them a message at that instant and on occusion i forgot to remove them if i dont message them. This could be the simple fact, that and your messages are confusing the poor computer illerate user  | |
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| I'm on your favorites list but you won't answer my email
Posted: 11/30/2005 2:59:14 AM |
add me to your friends list and when I notice that I will remove myself and you can see if your notified.
Okay, Barry. Im game. Let's try it. Thanks for your help.
PS If you can find a single person here that I have ever written a rude letter to, let me know. I do get ticked off over things like this, sorry, I think I have a reason to be ticked off. Maybe it's a pet peeve of mine. Maybe it's because of my experiences in running a non profit society (on a volunteer basis) which requires me to send messages to numerous people. Generally speaking, these calls concern something that will benefit them because I don't have time to waste on idle chatter with them. Yet they often seem to think I have nothing better to do than chase them around to get a response. Maybe I'm just fed up with that kind of thing in general.
Adding you as soon as I post this... | |
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