| Serious relationship after sex the first day?
Posted: 3/2/2006 4:16:57 AM | What I don't understand here is the assumption that having sex soon after meeting would "taint" the relationship in some way. I wonder how many people here avoid black cats and carry a lucky rabbit foot too.
Nice people have sex sometimes...and sometimes sooner than later, and sometimes they wait. If we really had prescient minds, I don't suppose we would be here. | |
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| Serious relationship after sex the first day?
Posted: 4/23/2006 5:12:59 AM | I FIND SEX ON FIRST DATE VERY AROUSING AND SPECIAL IT,S LIKE YOUR HUMAN ANIMAL INSTINCT CONTROLS YOUR ATTRACTION THE PERFUME THE SMILE IF YOUR SEXUALLY ATRACTED GO FOR IT !!IT MAY BE WONDER FUL SUPER EXPLOSIVE YOU MAY NOT PART FOR HOURS DAYS AND IF IT WAS GREAT YOU SHOULD TELL THEM AND ALWAYS GO BACK FOR MORE AND MORE.!! IF YOUR SHY OR HESATENT SHE MAY THINK YOUR NOT THAT INTERESTED IN HER SEXUALLY OR YOUR A WIMP NOT A MAN. H$SATATION I,m SURE ENDED SOMETHING THAT COULD HAVE BEEN FANTASTIC BUT BEFORE IT EVER BEGAN -happened-SEX THE MOST NATURAL HIGH IN THE WORLD NOT CREATED BY BAYER OR ROCHE OR DUPONT OR ENDO CORPORATION IN A LAB GOD,S GIFT TO LIFE ON THIS PLANET THE ORGASM THE KISSING THE RITUAL CALLED FOREPLAY IF YOU DO NOT EXPERIENCE THE ULTIMATE HIGH A REAL ORGASM I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU.. AND LADIES MAYBE I CAN ACOMPLISH THAT ENJOYABLE EXPERIENCE FOR YOU MAY TAKE TIME BUT I DON,T WEAR A WATCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WRITTEN BY:: WILDLOVER 1 WHAT DAY OR TIME UNKNOWN--WHO CARES  | |
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Ciana5
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| Serious relationship after sex the first day?
Posted: 4/23/2006 5:35:02 AM | | I beleive that when there is a strong chemistry between 2 people, whether they have sex the first night or a month after makes absolutely no difference. | |
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| Serious relationship after sex the first day?
Posted: 4/23/2006 5:44:53 AM | | I think this is one of those topics again that can't be generalized. Of course it's possible depending on the people involved and the circumstances. Can it last and become permanent without eventual trust issues? Well, that's another question. But yes it can become serious no matter when the sex takes place if both people trust enough to stay and find out more. Stranger things have happened. | |
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I Spy
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Joined: 4/7/2006
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| Serious relationship after sex the first day?
Posted: 4/23/2006 6:06:14 AM | | Might regret never getting to experience THAT...ya never know!! Might end up being a good thing....serious or not, at least you would know what is in store...or if you would want to continue THAT... | |
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| Serious relationship after sex the first day?
Posted: 4/23/2006 2:43:08 PM | So was it good sex? Was it intimate?
I can't think of many more personal experiences one can have than sex. Since the purpose of a date is to get past the walls and get to know the person, were is the problem? It is also a big part of finding the right partner. I dated a girl for almost 2 years that would not have made it past the first date normally. The glimps of the real person hiding under all the correctness was made me want to find out more about her.
When the moment is right, act on it!. Don't play games... | |
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| Serious relationship after sex the first day?
Posted: 4/23/2006 2:49:54 PM | yes, in fact in can be done and i'll tell you why i say that, i have done that and now we are still together and we ini fact still together and guess what else we are happily married now and that was five years ago but hey it don't work that way for all people   | |
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| Serious relationship after sex the first day?
Posted: 4/23/2006 3:11:14 PM | Sorry to me,,serious relationships + sex do not add properly,as say "you pick someone up at a bar go home with them,,only to reliaze you couldnt beleive what made you do that last night..and you leave in the morning and dont even think twice of calling again. you forget them quicky.
Making love is examining each and every part of thier/your bodies wanting to know every scar,,how they laugh, every memory ,every wrinkle,every muscle, you feel complete in every sence of the word " love".being together as one".,"thinking to yourself ",,you just want to know more about them you want to love them inside out. | |
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| Serious relationship after sex the first day?
Posted: 4/23/2006 7:25:05 PM | | yeah not only was there sex, i actually accidently uttered i love you..i know he should have run for the hills, and its not like im imbalanced or anything or said that to anyone else before, but it lasted four years. | |
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| Serious relationship after sex the first day?
Posted: 4/23/2006 8:36:55 PM | Yes, I've done it. We lasted a long time, but I had it thrown in my face before it ended.
I think if the strength of the fellings and the things in common are so overwhelming, It should work, without the accusations. It is a rare gift to find someone you feel that close to at any stage of a relationship. | |
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| Serious relationship after sex the first day?
Posted: 4/23/2006 9:13:04 PM | Absolutely... Sex is just a added benefit.... Unlike the sterotypical male, (I suppose there are a few of those running around), I do not "Love 'em and Leave 'em"... I call back and hope for further dates and back when I was looking for such a thing, a serious relationship... Now I just go for the "more dates".... Actually having sex, gets a major item out of the way... No longer is the guy having to do the mating dance and grovelling to get sex. He can work on other parts of the relationship since sex is not an issue any more... Let's face it, in most relationship, except for some male-female "friendship" relationships (and yes I believe that sometimes a guy can be a friend with a female or females and and not want to jump their bones), the guy wants one thing from a woman...sex. True all the rest, companionship, etc is a plus but sex is the main thing. Any guy who is in anything more than a friendship with a woman (and even some of those in a friendship type relationship) and says he is not after sex is either lying or gay...
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| Serious relationship after sex the first day?
Posted: 4/24/2006 5:33:37 PM | After reading all the posts, there is something all of you missed. If you hadn't been TAUGHT that it was wrong, I bet ALL of you would jump in bed at the first chance. Think back and blame it on the Christian values that were crammed down your throat when you were younger.
I'm Pagan/Wiccan and don't suffer from the hang ups Christianity instilled in most of you.
In my religion sleeping together is the highest compliment you can give a person of the opposite sex. If we both want to roll around in a pile, it's accepted with no second thoughts or guilt, even if it's NOT a date.
And yes, you can have a long relationship if ya have sex on the first date. One lasted 8 years and I'd still be with her if she hadn't turned into a crack whore. Another girl I waited weeks and weeks. She turned out to be worthless and lousy in bed. So...???
I like to get the sex out of the way fast, preferably on the first date. If it sucks, what's the point of continuing dating? Additionally, there are FAR too many women just playin the guys to suck up free dinners, drinks, etc. They have NO intention of ever hookin up permanently, much less sleeping together. No quick sex means no additional dates with me. | |
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| Serious relationship after sex the first day?
Posted: 4/24/2006 7:02:24 PM | Wouldn't it be nicer to value and enjoy each moment through each step (from holding hands to first kiss) before hitting the sheets, then to jump right into it??? It would just be for physical desire, and I think to "make love" is much more passionate. Perhaps it could last either way, but why not take time to know the other person and enjoy the steps in between first?
"Good things come to those who wait" | |
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| Serious relationship after sex the first day?
Posted: 4/24/2006 10:53:30 PM | | 4 sure!!! ive been there / done it!! A crazy fast whirlwind thing going on... very nice! We werent even going to meet the day we did but due to a few un-forseen things happening we hooked up... the first minute I met him he walked up to me and kissed me... and from there on it was great! Very odd, scary, exciting, but wouldnt trade it for the world! And its not only the physical attraction thats strong! Amazing! | |
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| Serious relationship after sex the first day?
Posted: 4/25/2006 3:22:46 AM | I wasnt sure before but I am now. I am in a relationship that started like that and we are still together. If one person or both are only in it for sex then no of course it wont turn into a relationship. At least if both are open to a relationship then you have time after to build on it and the sexual tention is out of the way. | |
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| Serious relationship after sex the first day?
Posted: 10/14/2007 10:01:29 PM | | Yep. One of the only friends of mine from highschool who has never been divorced is married to a guy she went home with the first night she met him, in a bar. They've been married for over 20 years. | |
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