| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 9/30/2005 7:26:40 PM | | If the truth be known...........I personally prefer men who have kids.........they understand the time it takes to be a proper parent :) | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 9/30/2005 9:09:11 PM | | All I know is Iam an awesome guy.I also have three kids and they are awesome to.When I do find the right women,she will be loved all that much more.We single parrents have alot to offer.Oh ya and my kids are not baggage,there little people.Single parrents ,give yourself a pat on the back ,you deserve it. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 10/1/2005 11:42:10 AM | | The women here seem to, lol, can be pretty frustrating, but doug, the silver lining, you dont want a woman who isnt good with the kids, they filter out the baddies. I'm unsure of my judgement,(lol why am I here?), but far more sure of thiers (the kids). | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 10/21/2005 12:57:53 PM | | Hi All. I to am a single Dad of a great little 7 year old boy & I wouldn't want it any other way & we don't see the mother at all. Its true about most women I get in touch with some women on here & all goes well until you mention that I'm a single dad even if they have kid,s they want you but for you to have one no way!! I say to hell with them our children are all that matter in this world & thier are lots women that don't mind so for all the men out there going threw the same thing don't frett it a good woman will come along just be patient & don't settle for second best & never ever wish it were different!!!!!!!!! God Bless! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 10/21/2005 2:18:17 PM | | i personally prefer to daye guys with kids. for a few reasons but the most important ones are theya re more mature and responsible as well as they know wht needs to be done to raise a child and that helps us single moms alot when it comes to a man understanding. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 10/21/2005 3:47:38 PM | | i",m a single dad i have 3 girls that i raise full time they are my everything .sometimes it's tough but i seem to get through it ok.i understand totally what single parents life is all about. i never wanted this nor i never wanted it for my girls . but someday i hope i will find a swet lady who will stand by me all the way. if not so be it. in todays society it seems like nothing lasts i have the upmost respect for all the single parents out there keep up the good work | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 10/22/2005 12:34:08 AM | Once again... I love men. Men with kids, men without. Men with orange hair, men with black hair. Men yummy. MMMM-mmm. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 10/22/2005 12:53:36 PM |
It seems the last few women I have met, as soon as they find out I have kids thats the end.
Don't feel like the lone ranger on the women running as soon as they find out your are a single custodial dad. Kinda funny too with all the women who say they will/have/do date single custodial dads seems like it wouldn't be that hard to find a date but it sure is hard to even get a conversation going with them.
Kevin | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 10/23/2005 10:52:22 AM | I am a single mother and have the same problem. I need to tell you that I admire you for raising your 3 children alone. It's a very hard job and I am proud of men that are dedicated to their children. I personally don't mind men that have children at all. None of us should be judged and we shouldn't be punished because we have children. Children are the greatest gifts to have.
I would love to chat more with you if you'd like. You seem like a nice man. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 10/23/2005 11:50:03 AM | | I know all about that i have children myself and have found most of the time its cause i have children that im still involved in their lives and always will be thats causes people to basicaly just vanish. Im a proud father and love my kids. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 10/23/2005 4:54:02 PM |
Join the club man. I am not even have custody of my son and as soon as I say the words ... I can't go out sat. cause I have my son sat night and sun. they don't ever want to talk to me again. That is time that I will never give up and if they don't like it **** em. But hey man keep your head up the right girl will come around and don't ever give up your kids cause there time is precious.
Ditto. In my experience the majority say no way straight off and the remainder run as soon as it gets in the way of their weekends.
Mind you I also work most weekends so thats a **** as well. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/1/2005 9:58:37 AM | I agree whole heartedly with the author of this message....
Its so true about men basing their choices on appearances alone , instead of the type of person that the women is inside.
If you don't believe this then all you have to do is read the profiles of the men and see what type of women they are looking for. NEED I SAY MORE...................
I am sure that there are alot of men out there who have learned this lesson , the hard way shall we say. I think that sometimes they are more concerned with what every one else thinks , and they loose all focus on the real person inside.
Alot of men are missing out on a great relationship because of this stero-type attitude.
Wake up guys and smell the roses!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/1/2005 10:57:27 AM | Single Mom of three that would love to date a single Dad! Nobody could better understand me than someone who is doing it! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/1/2005 12:02:05 PM | | the guy im with right now has a son. 8 year old lots of women love single dads it shows there more resposible well at least most of them | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/7/2005 2:10:22 PM | Since the only single dads are those single men whom have adopted a child, there are very few. There are lots of divorced & separated dads, quite a few with custody too. Exceptionally few single dads or moms.
I am a divorced dad with 2 kids I got custody of. I never had to ask anyone out, however I was asked out frequently ... always by single ladies without children who were younger then me. Never a problem. Never an issue!
Remember, a "Single Parent" does not know who the other parent is or has adopted.
A divorced or separated parent or a widowed parent does, so there is another parent around, even if they have little to do with the children or they haver died. But they are not a "Single Parent" in legal accepted terms. To say otherwise is disrespectful to the children and the other parent and you are fooling yourself and attempting to fool others.
Be up front with potential suitors and there usually is not a problem. It weeds aout those who don't like kids around et cetera. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/7/2005 2:49:15 PM | | I still agree with the fact that alot of women won't date a guy that has kids, im a father myself and everytime I mention my son they go away | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/7/2005 6:43:25 PM | Well let me just say that I am a single dad and have raised my son SOLEY on my own for the last 6 years and any woman that doesn't respect the fact that my son is always going to be there and he is always number 1 - well the door is in the same place as it was when u came in and just be sure u move a little quicker as you leave ;)
Guys!!! ... If a woman doesn't respect that you are raising kids on your own and accept that then don't waste your time and it actually goes for all the single moms out there as well with these same issues w/ men. These people have their opinion but in my opinion we are the most responsible and grounded individuals out there and are always the kind of guys you come looking for when all the bad ones have used you until you feel you have nothing left .... should have stuck with that single daddy ;) Best of luck to all single parents out there, i know how tough it can be but you are not alone!! Take care all!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/10/2005 5:32:08 PM |  well i would date someone who has kids cause i love kids. see me & my ex broke up , i am still buying he's son something for christmas. i love he's son like he was my own . i miss him too.. so i see nothing wrong with dating guys who have kids.. | |
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kelvin
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Joined: 10/6/2005
Msg: 420 | |
| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/10/2005 6:29:42 PM | Single dad here.... 4 kids. From diapers to high school. My wife left me with a 3 yr old and a 16 yr old. Now it's up to me to wake up at 6 in the morning, get my 3 yr old up for daycare, go to work, work all day, come back and pick up my kid, go home and stare at the cupboards for something to cook. If I knew being a single dad was so hard, I may have been a little nicer to my ex. My life is hell. I'm tired, my kid is tired, usually falls asleep before I can make supper. Why would anybody date Me? When would I go out? If you are going to date a single parent, be prepared for a lot of issues. On weekends I have to drive an hour to trade kids, and see the other ones. I love my kids and I wouldn't give them up for anything, but the strain might kill me. I've aged 10 years in the past year. So if there are any single girls that like men with kids, here I am.  | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/10/2005 7:07:28 PM | | I am a divorce male.I have custody of my 6 year old son. I am 52. As soon as I tell the lady I am chatting with that I have a 6 year old son. I never hear back from her. The age dose not matter I have talked to woman from 35 to 50 and I get the same reponse.It also dose not matter what site you use I get the same response, They do not evan try to get to know me or anything | |
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TOOFOO
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Joined: 7/3/2005
Msg: 422 | |
| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/10/2005 7:42:24 PM | I must be looking in the wrong places because Im in the same boat as everyone here.. Im a single dad of a 10 year old and cannt find a date even if I fall over her...I have come to think my time is over with daten and just play the daddy role....If anyone has any advice to help me or for the rest of us lonly dads helllllllllllp
Im fallen and cant get up.........lol | |
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Cory74
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Joined: 9/8/2005
Msg: 423 | |
| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/10/2005 7:54:16 PM | Same here. I am a single dad (sort of). When my ex and I split up three years ago, the deal was I took my daughter (now 5 yrs old) every other weekend and every Wednesday. As it is, I have had here at least one night of every weekend and every other day. Even last year over Christmas, I had here straight from the middle of November to the middle of January except for Christmas eve.
Now do not get me wrong, I love my daughter and would kill for this time with her, but I have absolutely zero "my time". I think in total I have gone on less then 4 dates in three years due to how much I have my daughter.
*sigh* ... | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/10/2005 8:01:03 PM | | UMMMMMM, NO! I know how hard being a single mum is and it is very enticing to find a single dad. Of course I cannot speak for all women, this is just one opinion | |
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warloc
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Joined: 10/28/2005
Msg: 425 | |
| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/11/2005 2:43:06 AM | I have to agree with you.
I have also found women and i mean most women do not want to know when they find out your a single Dad.
It's quite a let down.
But then again it would probably help if i were at least good looking. I'm not. | |
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