| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/11/2005 6:13:47 AM | "It's quite a let down.
But then again it would probably help if i were at least good looking. I'm not"
Same here.... I feel your pain ! So we do what we do best, Go and look after our kids :)
Ive had MORE than my fair share of rejection.. because of that,the relationship i have with my son is awsome.. And i wouldnt trade it for anything, these last 4 years have been some of the best :) | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/11/2005 8:07:11 AM | Listen up,
Any man who remains a positive part of their own child's life is more of a man for doing so. Be proud and strong with your decision, because a "girl" who doesnt keep their options open enough to recognize this as an attribute to be desired is a waste of time anyway, and will most likely wind up with her own child and no father to be found. I am a single mom, and it is not easy to find someone that you enjoy being around let alone want to be around your child. Give E harmony a shot if you can! Best of luck to you and your child. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/12/2005 8:46:22 PM | Wow!
Aren't you glad you found out they weren't even willing to give you and your kids a fair chance so soon!
Would you really want a woman like that around your kids?
I think single dads are very attractive, they are sensitive, protective and dedicated and that makes them very appealing and sexy!
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/12/2005 9:01:02 PM | I don't mind single dads with kids, because I love kids for one, and I am also a single mother with two kids, I know what its like, and its hard. The woman that don't want to be with a single dad are the ones that are looking for short term relationships.
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/20/2005 2:43:54 PM | Hi,
I just wanna let you know there are women out there who don't mind being with a single dad. Even before I had my two daughter's I still dated men with children. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/20/2005 6:04:05 PM | hey Doug
the ones that let u go because they probably arnt ready for a family. but really they dont know what they are missing. being a single mom i havent had any problems about letting people know that i have children. it the fact they dont understand where ur coming from and just let them go. God will give u the right person that will love u and ur children. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/21/2005 10:46:37 AM | | it says alot about a person who cant accept that you have a kid or kids, they are selfish and and you dont want to be in a relationship with a selfish person worst if married to one it can be devastating....... i have kid i have had women who ran away when they found out i had a kid but good for them.......... | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/21/2005 11:32:50 AM | | most women don't know what they are missing when it comes to single dad's... single fathers who raisde their children alone need the red carpet treatment due to the fact of being a single parent myself doing it alone i know just how hard it is to find someone willing to enter already made families.... keep your head up and the right woman will open her eyes and see that single fathers are the best | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 11/21/2005 12:37:05 PM | I have had good experiences with fathers raising their children or at least those who have shared custody. They tend to be very understanding from helping treat a cold to giving each other ideas about childrens projects.
I am protective of whom I date because I want a good, kind and loving male if they are ever going to be spending time with my little family. Those good men tend to have experience with children....the only down side I have found is arranging our schedules to have an adult date night and differences in child rearing.
There are a multitude of women who don't have maternal instincts, or afraid that the men will want a woman to help take care of the kids. There also is a downside of the children getting all the attention while a woman wants to be centered on completely. This applies to mothers and non-mothers. Life is a carousel, change your seat if necessary.....because isn't stopping | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 1/2/2006 10:24:41 AM | | I seriously hope some women don't mind.....I have 2 girls (6 and 7) whom I would NEVER give up for the world. They mean so much to me.....I'm not looking for someone to be a second mother but rather a really good friend to them! I would do the same for a woman with children.......I'd rather be a really good friend as opposed to dad #2! The kids have a mom and dad (sometimes) and things don't need to be confused anymore for them.....its hard enough for them that their parents don't live together anymore......just my thoughts! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 1/2/2006 10:49:23 AM | | I hope as well that women don't shy away from fathers with children. I haven't been apart of this site or any other for long but my feelings are that they do shy away from us. or maybe just me, as my situation is a bit different I'm a widower and have custody of my kids 100% of the time. My kids are the most important thing to me and if I can't find someone willing to accept that I'm ok with it. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 1/2/2006 5:29:27 PM | | Any singler moms in or near Lakeland, FL? All the people I know are married, way younger and immature, or way older... | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 1/2/2006 5:45:16 PM | | I actually feel more comfortable with a man who has kids. I am a single mom myself, and love kids! And , a man who takes care of his kids is sexy! IT ALSO IS A GOOD WAY TO GET TO KNOW A LITTLE ABOUT A PERSON | |
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Posted: 1/3/2006 7:17:42 AM | i think those who don't give single parents a try aren't worth it...... you can enjoy so much more with single parents......... when the right onw comes around you won't have to worry about them getting scared just because you have kids....... they will open there arms open for you and your kids and will love them .......    to all you sigle people who have done that good for you........ | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 1/3/2006 9:19:33 AM | | I'm a single mom and I would actually prefer to date a man who is a single dad. I think it is easier on you and the kids. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 1/3/2006 1:14:17 PM | | The men I have dated since I became a single mom have had children. We accepted them with open arms. I would much rather be with someone with children, they know how to devote their time. They know what is important to them. Some of them, not all, have their priorities straight! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 1/3/2006 1:17:40 PM | | I am one of those people who would never date a man with a kid. For some reason it shows that they failed somewhere. I don't understand how guys around my age have children, they haven't even been to school do they not want a good life? Do they not want more for themselves? I'm only 23 but I am being honest I am turned off by guys having kids. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 1/3/2006 1:37:30 PM | | Give me a good man with a kid or two and I`ll be happy. I belive that one will understand each other better on a parent to parent-level. Whne there are kids involved in a relationship there is need for a whole different set of rules than a relationship withouth kids. And I do think it`s mostly best to be a parent to understand the sacrifices parents need to make. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 2/9/2006 7:51:16 PM | | No they shouldn't. If the chemistry is there then it donsen't matter. You accept the one you choose and his entire life with it. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 2/11/2006 4:44:13 AM | | just if marriage starts coming into the picture please make sure to address the issue of Stepparenting and stepkids first. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 2/11/2006 8:57:46 AM | I am one of those people who would never date a man with a kid. For some reason it shows that they failed somewhere. I don't understand how guys around my age have children, they haven't even been to school do they not want a good life? Do they not want more for themselves? I'm only 23 but I am being honest I am turned off by guys having kids
It all comes down to choices. If a woman has children; if a woman is older, or if she is not attractive then her choices are limited and so she will date men with children. No doubt you have better choices. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 2/13/2006 4:06:05 AM | "I am one of those people who would never date a man with a kid. For some reason it shows that they failed somewhere. I don't understand how guys around my age have children, they haven't even been to school do they not want a good life? Do they not want more for themselves? I'm only 23 but I am being honest I am turned off by guys having kids"
Watching their kids grow up is an incredibly rewarding thing and once in a lifetime. Its also a full time job and matures people up real quick. Also shows alot of responsibility, capacity to love and sacrifice on thier parts.
And how do you know they failed? Ever occur to you their spouse got killed or died? How friggin ignorant! Maybe their wife cheated on them or had mental instability and was forced to leave for the family's sake. You don't know every person's situation. Maybe they just didn't get along like they thought they would. It happens.
They aren't failures and the he** with people that think they are. bet their kids think the world of them, and ya know what? In the end thats all that matters. | |
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