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basspl
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Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 27 | |
| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 3/20/2005 7:20:27 PM | | Well my deal is im older 45 with a 7 year old daughter. I run in to the gal's my age are not wahting to have mom thing agan, and the younger ones think Im to old for them. I think I have the catch 22 thing going here. Or Im just feeling kinda whiney tonight. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 3/20/2005 8:29:38 PM | | Although everyone is right that you are better off without those types of women, those types of women are the kind I seem to attract.. or better yet repel. I've even had some woman with a kid tell me that she didnt want to date a guy with kids. Go figure. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 3/20/2005 10:04:46 PM | | I have been a single dad for 4 years now.I just have'nt found time or energy to give to a woman on a steady basis.My youngest leaves for college next year and I hope it changes then. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 3/21/2005 12:43:02 AM | | i don't mind if a guy has kids....i have two kids myself....and its hard for me to find a guy with kids or without kids..... | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 3/21/2005 4:22:25 PM | | I have to agree, I totally like the idea of meeting up with a single dad with kids !! I think it takes a real special guy to want to have his kids with him on weekends ( or full time) and it's so important ... shows a different side to them ! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 3/21/2005 9:05:07 PM | I have three kids, love them dearly, and my ex wife is my best friend, go figure! If that doesn't scare of a potential new partner, what wouldn't?!?!? Mnay dating experiences I have had in the past have been just that, experiences. Chalk it up to jus tthat. If they don't like it, it was't meant to be. You will find "the one" Just keep looking. The woman will find you, you won't find here, you know?
Good luck! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 3/21/2005 11:15:27 PM | | Well as a man that has 2 children and has been a single parent for 11 years it kind of works both ways I have not had a serious relationship since my ex left it seems that I get the cold shoulder when I say I have children or should I say when I tell them that they are with me all the time. As a man I get how can you have them all the time or who helps you with them I know then that it’s not going to work. I so feel for all single parents out there but all I say is that they are missing out on a good thing. | |
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xander
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Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 34 | |
| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 3/21/2005 11:26:54 PM | bebewood: yes, why would i want someone elses left overs?
and why the **** would i want to raise a child that isnt even mind? dont like it? should have worn a condom
This is two threads in a row where you have shown yourself to be an ignorant, self-absorbed, immature moron. WTF are you doing in this forum? Or on this site, for that matter? You say in your profile that you "are not ghetto" but your words belie that. If you hate children that much, get the hell out of a Single Parents forum.
For those wondering: http://forums.plentyoffish.com/253749datingPostpage2.aspx | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 3/21/2005 11:28:18 PM | I have fallen in love with two guys in my life and both of them have left me with a kid. I know what it is like to try to find that right person no matter if they have kids or not. Hey, at least if they do, mine will have someone to play with. I was an only child when my parents got divorced and 10 yrs old at that, my mom married a man with a child 5 yrs younger than me and my dad married a woman with 3 kids of her own... to me they were and still are my brothers and sisters. We had our fights and our bonding moments and I want that for my kids as well. I think a man with kids shows that he is sensitive enough to care about someone other than himself. | |
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xander
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Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 36 | |
| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 3/21/2005 11:47:25 PM | You're 19, clearly (from your words) uneducated, and hateful. What else needs be said?
Nobody said anything about knowing how to use a condom. Your utter ignorance is "ghetto". | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 3/22/2005 3:31:04 AM | | im in the same boat as you travelgirl75459......and i agree with you about that a man that has kids showing sensitivety...... | |
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basspl
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Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 38 | |
| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 3/29/2005 4:01:10 PM | | Now I just need some of you girls to move yo missouri lol. But you all give me some hope. And I did meet one very sweet girl from here. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 3/29/2005 5:43:15 PM | I am a single mom of a 3 and 1/2 year old lil boy, and I have 100% custody of him. I would rather date a guy who has kids than someone who does not. They know what it is like and understand that you have to make alot of sacrifices for your child. Most guys that I meet run in the other direction as fast as they can either when they find out that I have full custody of my son, (MY EX-HUBBY SIGNED AWAY ALL HIS PARENTAL RIGHTS IN OUR DIVORCE), or when they find out that I can not have any more children.
The last guy I dated had 2 boys, 7 and 8, and it was great.
Hurray for single dads.................Wish I could meet one........
Sarah | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 3/30/2005 3:16:56 AM | I dont mind men with kids I love kids and I am quite happy meeting anyone let alone anyonwe who might have kids. I lvoe the idea that a man acts responsible and cares for his kids let a lone full time instead of the mother.
Awesome more power to ya ..
Angie | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 3/30/2005 10:02:32 PM | | i have the utmost respect for single dads..especially those raising their children full time. I think it is alot harder for single dads to find women who will date them. And that is sad. Single dads are awesome. i mean whats more attractive then a man who wants to love his children and be a part of their lives? .. NOTHING! keep on looking guys .. we r out there!! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 3/31/2005 12:49:23 AM |
xander_w on 06-09-2004 06:43 PM
Subject: Do women mind single dads with kids
Message: bebewood: yes, why would i want someone elses left overs?
and why the **** would i want to raise a child that isnt even mind? dont like it? should have worn a condom
This is two threads in a row where you have shown yourself to be an ignorant, self-absorbed, immature moron. WTF are you doing in this forum? Or on this site, for that matter? You say in your profile that you "are not ghetto" but your words belie that. If you hate children that much, get the hell out of a Single Parents forum.
I'm not getting involved in this one other than agreeing some people do have that opinion and they often have good reasons for it. Sometimes the truth hurts when others tell it like the feel it.
I don't think it's a matter of ignorance, more a matter of insensitive truth. | |
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Pixle
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Joined: 3/21/2005
Msg: 45 | |
| No they dont
Posted: 3/31/2005 7:34:16 AM | I have the same problem. the last girl I wanted to date told me she hated kids and wouldn't date me because I have a child. It's not fair. Im attractive single and working torwards a career. I can drive I blah blah. I had more girlfriends before I had my son. Girls talk about wanting someone mature and responsible etc but they are full of it when it comes down to it they lie to themselves.
There are lots of single mother out there that understand though and like dating men with children. | |
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| No they dont
Posted: 3/31/2005 8:25:23 PM | "watch what they do, not what they say."
The best lie detectors are often the very best liars in the first place.
This goes for both women and men. | |
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| No they dont
Posted: 4/1/2005 6:49:39 AM | I was amazed when a single dad friend of mind told me that women were turning him down and usuing his children as an excuse.
To me personally.. WTG single Dads! There aren't enough of you! Too often children are given to the mother just cause she's their mother. (Which in my opinion is just stupid... it takes two to make the child, and it takes a family to raise a child... no matter how that family is made up)
I'm obiviously not dating right now, and have never dated a single father with custody of his children.... but I would in a second if I met the right person. (and of course I wasn't married lol)
If a woman doesn't want you, because you are a real man and caring for your children. She's nothing that you would want anyway, so just be thankful that you found that out and got rid of her. You deserve much better, and your children do too! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 4/1/2005 8:54:25 PM | | Sadly quite a few women do mind. Sometimes it's hard to believe that there are women and men out there that do not want to 'go there' they may feel that we carry extra baggage or they may feel that they would not be #1 and that would not be acceptable. To anyone out there who is a single parent hold your heads up because when we are old and decrept our children will take care of us (hopefully lol) and those that felt it best to leave that territory uncharted will be miserable and lonely and missing out the joys and pains of parenthood with not many fond memories to reminisce on.... | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 4/1/2005 9:01:59 PM | Yes why would you want someone's left overs. I mean you must be perfect and untainted therefore you deserve the best... a man who does not know the first thing about comminment and responsible and luckily uses a condom because obviously you are too perfect and pristine to use birth control...
I guess you figured that out huh? Considering you turned to girls....
Mira pendeja you make me embarrased to be latina.... | |
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