| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/10/2009 12:04:05 PM | | I know I'm a young dad only 23 raising two lil girls by myself and I find that woman are turning me away just cause I have kids. I have even asked a couple of woman why they wouldnt talk to me and then even told me that very reason. I think thats perty sad, men almost always take in womans kids but when the story changes the woman run away. I think thats perty sad | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/10/2009 6:37:26 PM | | It was my experience that most woman dont want the added responsiblity, in my case i was engaged for 2yrs before my 9yr old daughter moved in. she HAD TO either that or social services was taking her. Anywayz the girlfriend had 2 teenaged daughters i accepted with open arms and still love them as my own. My relationship with this woman went down hill from that. She finally told me she didnt want to be with me because a child with adhd was too much for her. She was a christian woman at that. I find in this day in age that there are more and more dads taking care of the children. As such you hear what a great guy your are for taking on the responsibility. But you will rarely find a woman who will date you. I am in the same boat as a few other mena in this forum. as soon as they find out you have a kid living with you they loose interest or just dont call anymore. God Bless to all you out there that is raising a Kid on your own | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/10/2009 8:19:04 PM | | I think the women should accept dads with kids. They expect the other way around. I think dads with kids are AWESOME. It shows that the dad is participating in his childs(rens)life. If the woman doesnt then she is not worth the mans precious time. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/13/2009 8:01:54 PM | in my opinion.. I don't mind men with kids.. honestly it is nice..they know the kinds of problems I have to go through with my son because I am raising him all by himself. the problem is that most men get taken to the cleaners and in my opinion that makes them leary of other women..as it should.
I am so proud that many men take care of thier kids.. my son's father doesn't. In fact he just called my son tonight after about a year. my son is 14 and hasn't seen his dad but one time when he was 5 or so.. it is a shame. so koodos to you men! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/13/2009 8:20:57 PM | If someone doesn't accept your kids ..
with you . .
because that is what you guys are..
a package deal...
unless its just sex...
then SHE was NOT the woman for you !!  | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/13/2009 9:23:34 PM | | i am a single father too, ive got a 17 month old girl. and women don't want to know. but there are women out there with kids already and do want to know. if they don't move on m8 they ain't worth it. good luck | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/14/2009 6:31:10 AM | yes they do ...i have spoken to quiet a few and as soon as u say u have kids they turn away
tell them that u have a kid with a slight learning sydrome as i do and they will run a mile
but they expect you to help and blend in with there family | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/14/2009 6:57:03 AM | I have no problem with single dads myself, I'm a single mum and find that men generally run a mile.
I prefer to know that men will accept my daughter, and it has to be said a guy with a child or children of his own is more open to accepting her. Also, guys with kids seem more mature to me.
So that's my feelings on the matter, I think the women you meet that don't want to know are idiots, I wouldn't ever pass someone over just because they had a child or children =] | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/14/2009 10:40:25 PM | | I not only dated a man with kids, we got married and had a few more. We are now divorced, his kids are 21 and 19, and we live 4500 miles apart, but we keep in touch just as if they were my own. Good luck and don't give up. If the woman doesn't want kids, it's better to find out sooner than later. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/14/2009 10:46:13 PM | | when i see that a guy has a kid, i respect him all that much more. its not so common these days for men to stick around and take care of their children. unfortunately i know from personal experience. so, men with kids win major points in my book. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/15/2009 11:26:15 AM | | i totally agree that theres something about a single dad that is hott, any man that's willing to step up and raise thier kids on thier own, to me that's a real man....:) | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/15/2009 3:32:28 PM | | I've found that some women don't want to date a guy like me who has their kids 24/7, but would date a guy who has them part-time....but I figure that's their loss, because my kids are fantastic and easy to get along with. I actually find it easier to date women with kids because they understand where I'm coming from. So if there are any single moms out there in middle TN, hit me up if you're interested... | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/16/2009 10:57:01 AM | | Personally, I enjoy spending time with a man with children. Then they understand the kid emergencies and the other parent drama that comes along with all of the dating parent scene. Plus gives you more to talk about | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/16/2009 2:25:01 PM | well i really don't mind it if guys have kids.i actually prefer it...because then i know we have at least one thing in common.lol...i love kids,even if they aren't mine...i have 2 and i can't have anymore.i like an extended family already made.lol..so if the guy has kids yay for him! i do not mind nor do i care if he has more than one..lol..it's all great..and good...........................      | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/16/2009 2:31:44 PM | | More power to all the single parents out here!!!! Being a single mom myself I find nothing wrong with a dad being and accepting the challenge of being a full time parent....Stay strong thngs will work out for you.... | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/16/2009 2:32:02 PM | hey there are some pretty good women out there that don't mind if you have kids.you just have to pick or find the right one that doesn't care if you do..because there are some guys that are the same way about women having kids,because i ran into a few like that...if they don't want you because you have kids heck w/them.your kids come first anyways..lol...so good luck..hang in there....kids are god's gift to us.....  | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/16/2009 3:11:01 PM | Women who treat single dads like tat r nt worth them even worryin bout they r obviously so into them selves they wudnt care bout u never mind ur kids,,,
there is plenty of women out there who wudnt mind if u had kids r nt | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/16/2009 7:14:25 PM | | Very true..men who have kids do seem to be more understanding of the demands that parenthood places on a woman. I commend all the single moms and dads out there. They do a great job!!! I am single mom of 3 myself and so I know that dating can be a difficult thing to do. But there are plenty of ppl out there who are worth the wait! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/16/2009 8:45:43 PM | | i didnt think it would be this way. i have 1 little girl she is 3 and i am raising her by myself, and i think that is why women are not interested. it is pathetic! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/17/2009 1:46:48 AM | | well i just hope u dont end up a single mum then as its swings and roundabouts if u meet sm1 wiv kids u take them as a package its not a multipack that can be split and u shouldnt even try if u dont like the full package them move on im so fed up with single minded people that think if u have a child it means u have a disability or something there are so many men and woman ut there that gives single parents a bad name im just glad that there are still a few decent parents that is prepared to actualy raise there children. NEVER BE ASHAMED TO BE A PARENT those who dont like it aint worth a 2nd glance x | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 5/17/2009 4:11:27 AM | well hun i really hope u find the right person that stays with u after u have kids .......
as for this topic good on you to who started it!!!!!!
in my opinion yeah i really think it does seem to matter
i am a single dad to my 2 beautiful children which i care for 12/14 days and i have met some gals over the last 18mths who i have gotten along with great until i mention my kids than it seems to be the cold shoulder see i just wont intruduce just anybody to my kids until i know them a bit hence y i dont mention straight up maybe its the wrong thing to do but honestly though if they cant except my kids well i dont except them that may sound hasrh but they are here with me to stay and will always be part of me ....
sorry guys and gals if i sound harsh but bit of a touchy subject for me ( and us single dads)
anywayz goodluck all
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