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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 4/21/2005 7:47:27 PM | | I think the reality is u have to find someone in the same head space as your in. A single woman who isn't ready for children of her own will probably not be ready for someone else's. Women who have kids, most likely don't want to parent children younger than her own because the reality is she probably already feels she's done most of the child rearing alone and may be past the point of going back to little ones. That of course is not to say that there are always women who love a man first...then accept everything that comes with him, ex wife, children, baggage, all in the same hand. First though, she should fall in love with u, and then your children. Without that connection, it just won't work. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 4/21/2005 9:44:44 PM | | well.. I can onlyspeak for myself here.. But i'm a single mom ,my kids are 20, and 18, so i'm sort of alone anyway. lol.. but as for dating men with kids.. Sure, why the hell not? I love kids.. I usually end up adopting all my kids friends as mine anyway. lol I"m 2nd mom to about 30 of em now. All wonderful in there own way. Single dads with kids are great..At least I know they handle responsibility well.. Unlike some I've met. lol | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 4/26/2005 9:21:19 AM | | I personally prefer men with children as i don't want any more...he has had that need fulfilled which is perfect. Plus...the way a man is with his children indicates alot about him. Not to mention that a good dad is a sexy man! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 4/26/2005 6:36:16 PM | Ramcharger you need to go into some of the other post and let some of the men there know how you feel cause I have seen alot of guys on here that dont share the same point of views like you do. I dont mind being with a man that has kids. As a matter of fact I would prefer it but if they dont have kids that is fine as well just aslong they will accept me and my son.
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 4/26/2005 8:08:03 PM | | Um ok, I am lost where are all you women. I have not met any of you. All the women I have met run the other way, especially because I try to get my kids every weekend I can. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 4/26/2005 8:14:59 PM | I am wondering the same. I am thinking all the women who do not mind dating Dads with kids live on the opposite coast | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 4/26/2005 9:15:38 PM | | don't you dare change your name!!! and if you do it should be "Superman" Hats off to you!!!! Wishing you all the best in your life!!!! You deserve it! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 4/27/2005 4:28:28 AM | | I've been kinda reading thru some posts and I figured I would give my two sense.... look around at the stereo types we have.... We actually have the term M.I.L.F..... I'm NOT trying to offend anyone but 99.9% of us know what it means.... Now why is it we have a term like that, and nothing for the men who, well, act like men! A vast majority of children lack any form of POSITIVE roll model (you go ahead and count on those pro sport players if ya really want to) I, my self, am a single father with a three month old... Now, she is the most important endevor I will EVER have. I am moving so I can be more than a once a month dad! If a woman thinks its a turn off who cares? Let her chase the "bad boy" or what ever floats her boat... Just Know the tune will change when she's doing it all alone......... | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 4/27/2005 6:54:44 AM | | Speaking for myself, I don't mind a single dad at all! I think that the trick is to look for someone with comparable qualities, and really make it clear from day 1 that you are a package deal! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 4/27/2005 2:56:22 PM | I'm wondering the same thing as though i am a single mother of 1 and i find it hard meeting men cuz i feel they don't want nothing to do with a single mother unless she makes lots of money, receives alot in child support then they "men" want to freeload off her....is this true?
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why don't single dads meet up with singlemom's? we can all relate... is it bcuz your looking for looks? i don't have any but i am a great person inside & out. If your looking for a nice shy single mom who is down to earth drop me a line.... | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 4/27/2005 4:33:36 PM | | I prefer not to date guys without kids! I want someone who likes kids, and knows a little about them. Some people without kids tend to be a little selfish and impatient when it comes to people with kids. Plus I'm not really interested in having any more of my own. A few more of someone elses I wouldn't mind! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 4/28/2005 5:07:25 AM | | I have my 15yr. old daughter full time. She started high school this year and is involved in so many activities, I hardly have time for myself. I know how all of you other single parents feel. I have learned through this thread and this entire site actually, that the hottest women with the best attitudes seem to live in Canada. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 4/28/2005 2:45:31 PM | | Hey everyone!!Dude I'm getting the same idea I am a single dad to my daughter is 4 and splits her time between my house and her mothers.I just got of the army in Sept and would just like to meet a women that like me for me!! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 4/28/2005 4:59:40 PM | Hey I love your attitude what you say is so true! I have 2 kids and they come first. I have no time for bad boys.... I need a family man. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/1/2005 11:31:17 PM | | I have mostly female friends, and they seem to be looking for someone who also has kids, cause in their experience, those men who aren't experienced with kids seem uncomfortable when the kids are around. Myself, I have 2 wonderful girls half-time, and I know I'm a huge influence in their lives. I don't get any feedback about not dating me cause I have kids, but then I'm pretty easy-going and would look at it as their loss....I'm a package deal, kids included....though the kids wouldn't meet the woman I'm dating until it became more serious. Looks like both men and women face challenges in dating when they have kids...c'est la vie! | |
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