| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/2/2005 4:08:48 AM | i agree with you on that larsha.. I have a few male friends who have children living with them, and to me I just see them as an extension of who my friends are. Personally I would prefer to go out with someone who has children as my son is an only child, and if the kids got on I would be one happy bunny..lol | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/2/2005 2:20:25 PM | Most women don't mind, but then there are crazy women like my stepmoms. The current monster told my dad she is jealos cause he is real close to his kids, her kids won't talk to her and haven't in 7 yrs. She treats my brothers and I like hell. The stepmom I had before that one disliked us too, it was very clear. My dads money bought her children stuff and everyone knew it, my dad had to sneak my brothers and I money or she would ****. He finallly got rid of her. All I know is if I am ever to be a stepmommy, I will be the bestfriend to these kids. Some women love guys with kids, kids are cute, loving and fun..its cute to see their daddy taking them to park or school..It shows that That man has to be more grown up, and responsible. So sorry long message. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/2/2005 3:16:55 PM | | I can't understand this for the life of me!?! even before I had kids I htought there was nothing more noble than a man who had his kid(s) and actually took care of them!!! there's nothing more sexy than that! Any woman who doesn't want you pruely based on you being a single dad is far to selfish and closeminded to bother with. Don't sweat it because she's obvioulsy not worth the time!!! too bad i find the same thing with the men i meet! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/2/2005 3:20:06 PM | | ^^^^ Agreed! ..... a great test for weeding out those that may have character flaws in regards to a relationship, ..kids or not. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/2/2005 11:39:17 PM | Okay, I hear all these wonderful things to say about single Dads.My question is,where are all these women that want to meet them?I have been a full time single parent for four years, the women I have met don't seem to be that interested or interesting.I find myself on this web-site for all these women to prove me wrong. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/3/2005 5:18:51 AM | | i would love the chance to find out its hard enough meeting without kids but with them some women think you cant have fun or be normal | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/3/2005 1:51:49 PM | | I totally agree...You want to be with someone who can accept your child the same as you! If men aren't kid-friendly from the beginning, then ditch 'em. I would love to meet someone with kids and to be able to see the real side of them, kids and all! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/3/2005 3:06:38 PM | | Hi, I know how U feel as I am a single mom of a 16 month old. I think that if a woman doesn't want the whole package deal, then to hell with her! Now a days there are just as many single dads as there are moms. So Ladies, get real, if u want to find true happiness, sometimes u have to make sacrifices!!!!!!!! Single Mom | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/3/2005 4:12:55 PM | | my brother has 2 kids and has no problems at all, its all in your personality and how you bring it up that women accept it. right now im in a legal battle to determine whether or not im a dad, so i dont bring up, seems DNA testing isnt good enough for the court system where i live | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/3/2005 9:33:43 PM | | well I am a single dad of 2 wonderful boys. I have raised them alone for10 years and have only dated 2 women one said she loved kids until she met mine. the other on did the same loved kids till she met them. both gave me the same reason for not liking me or the kids reason being was I am Native American and my kids are half native and half white. It kinda scares me about what I may be putting my kids through if I date again. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/4/2005 10:44:10 AM | Being a single, sole custodial parent of now two, handsome grown you men, I can only congratulate all single fathers...we ( collectively speaking ) don't hear enough of men such as this!
Well done..it speaks high volumns in my books!  | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/4/2005 11:49:04 AM | | if they are like that theya re not worth your time.......but a fact about women is they have a hard time loving and excepting other womens children | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/4/2005 11:53:05 AM | | if they are like that they are not worth your time.......but a fact about women is they have a hard time loving and excepting other womens children. But sexy is watching a man with his children or any child.......WOW....... them ladys have got to be no right in the head!!!! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/4/2005 1:06:51 PM | I am just a recent single father with two young children,I work fulltime and also am a full time student is there any hope for a young man like myself,there doesn't seen like there is enough hours in the day expecally to have a social life. So does anyone have any suggestions how I can fit in a dating life to my already hectic schedual???  | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/4/2005 3:02:29 PM | | WEll sorry to say i have to disagree with you i am a single dad witht three girsl and i dont seem to have a problem finding a dte the women that i date know off first hand i have kids and it does not seem to bother them thay actually give me credit for taking care of them on my own | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/4/2005 4:27:44 PM | | im a single uncle of 13 newborn to 10 years old, i treat them all as my own kids and the older ones come to me for advice | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/5/2005 4:43:35 PM | Well a lot of guys dont mind single mothers with kids. I am a single mother with a 7month old lil girl andi cant see the problem with meeting a guy whos in my boat. Congrats to u for being there for ur child! | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/6/2005 2:24:17 AM | | i get that, you meet someone nice, you tell em you have kids and they run faster than roger bannister, even though my kids dont live with me, do they think that im looking for a mum for em? well im not they have a great mum already, i want someone for me | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/6/2005 5:44:42 AM | I know I actually prefer it! I have a very young son, and my focus is "will this man be good to my boy?" And since people are who they are, I get to see first hand how they treat children if they have thier own. I have decided against going out with some guys who had kids because I didn't like how they treated thier little ones. Children are a blessing and to be honest. I wish I could find a guy who had full custody of his kids to settle down with. Instant family works for me!!!! I LOVE kids... | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/6/2005 12:29:53 PM | depends, on the kids and how old they are. I would say generally someone that has already raised their kids and gotten them out of the house doesn't want to start over.
I have met some men over 40 and even 50 who had babies. I think that would make things very hard for them being ladies in their age group don't want ababies and ladies who have babies want a man their age. Just my opinion. | |
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| Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 5/6/2005 8:27:57 PM | I prefer to date single Dad's raising their kids. I think it says alot about their charactor. I am a single Mom and I find that a man with kids is more understanding of the responsibilies involved in raising kids. I think its wonderful that some Dad's take being a parent serious. | |
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