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Posted: 11/28/2007 3:36:01 PM | | Holy cow he made you sleep in the car? OMG I would have gave him a piece of my mind and left. Never ever lower yourself, for anybody. You need to broadcast his name, so he does not do this to another. He got what he wanted(that's if you slept with him) and now he's moved on. Please have more respect for yourself. | |
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Posted: 11/28/2007 4:16:29 PM | Why were you with someone the whole weekend? Guys will take whatever you allow them to, love yourself enough NOT to give them that much of your time. Maybe he's not really ignoring you but actually had something else to do when you went home? Oh yeah, and chances are he uses the word "love " very freely, and might not even know what it means. Love yourself first.  | |
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| Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?...
Posted: 12/1/2007 3:40:07 PM | | I totally agree that kind of action is not only cowardly but dishonest. I just had a guy I was seeing on this site pull the same crap on me and I asked him that if he needed an out, to tell me its not working out. Oh it will always work out for us babe...my butt, not a problem, end it, get depressed for a while and move on. The fact that (either male or female would be so cruel and cowardly) blows my mind. Mine said he was honest as well....yea right, being honest is communicating and speaking your mind not running for the hills like a scared Jack Rabbit. I am sorry this happened to you, it doesn't make since and I know your hurting I'm hurting now but we will go on and we will feel better and some reason try all over again....Good Luck to you. | |
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Posted: 12/1/2007 4:03:30 PM |
How can anyone love someone one day and the next just completely ignore them? :( This is a horrible feeling.
Sounds like we have your side of the story...... which seems incomplete.
It would be interesting to hear what the guy's story is.
Until then, i'm not going to add to the pile of "oh that guy is just an ***hole for leaving you for 'no reason'" write-offs. | |
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Posted: 12/1/2007 4:12:13 PM | | Darlings, men will say anything to get what they want and leave .... I mean not all men are like that but some are.. I remember a friend told me that a guy told her he didn't have kids , then once she knew him his children came out of the wood work like over half a dozen kids or more, running around in town... then there are the ones that say the sweetest word to make you feel great. loved and they haven't worked a day in their life. .. then again there was one that says he is a screen writer and later you find out he hasn't even written a book in his life.... this is one of the guy I met on line and dated till I found out he can't make a decision without talking to his psychologist first... and he told me she was his friend till I caught on to it.. when ever he got into it with me he call her up and say She is mad at me for no reason... OMG he was such a case... I told him he needed to grow up and make decisions for himself... at age 65 .. He still says I am his girlfriend even after I dumped him 1 and a half ago............. why do men lie he lied about so many things.. on his profile and to me..? Even at his age you would think he be honest...... | |
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Posted: 12/1/2007 4:30:43 PM | | wow,you were seeing him for under a month and he claimed he loved you,I think you should have been the one dissapearing,your another example of someone making yourself too available,the mystique is gone,the thrill is gone,theres nothing more to chase, you gave it away too fast,and if you beleive someone loves you after a month again,i'm going to duck tape you to the hood of my car and drive you through the car wash,got it? | |
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Posted: 12/1/2007 4:36:07 PM | | this pof site is the candy store...He found a different candy..when it's waved under your nose,it's too tempting...you just nibble everywhere,until,some candy which looks awful good is locked away...then,that's the one he wants...jmho....men on here aren't into commitment don't you know that?....unless of course,you have some real tempting candy,expensive candy,tasty candy,pretty candy...get my drift? | |
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Posted: 12/1/2007 4:38:50 PM | | I know it sux eh!! Truth is some guys say they want a long term commitment and in fact it is all about the chase. They tell ya things that they think u want to hear and then poof back they go to the chase again. I'm sorry that this happened to u and u probably have so much to offer some other guy that really wants ya!!! So move on keep ur chin up and when u least expect it he will come and not only for a month but will see wat u have to offer and stay long term. Good luck hun!! | |
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Posted: 12/1/2007 4:53:56 PM | | Your not alone, similiar thing happened to me. We were really close and we spent the wknd together and everything seemed fine and Monday afternoon (out of the blue), he left a message on the IM because he was too chicken to speak to me to my face. He said he was not ready for this serious of a relationship and just ended it cold turkey. I just couldnt understand. It hurt because I have a hard time finding someone that I have such a connection with and whom I cared about very much. It is a horrible feeling and only time will heal. I am still distraught with what happened. | |
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Posted: 12/1/2007 4:55:32 PM | Great advice! Yeah,Let's see....be a b****h,treat them like crap,walk on em and then watch them love you? That is the most convaluted/hog wash/b.s I've ever heard! There could be many reasons why he's doing what he's doing.I'm not justifying it...I think people should treat people above all w/ respect and dignity first and foremost!
Not only that but men arent the only ones playing that game! Not all women are natural giving people,just like all men arent either.Any piece of reading material that instructs an individual to treat another gender/individual is not only sexist....Something women throw at men all the time but also complete garbage! I hope you didn't waste your money on it and remember that little word called "Karma"it will find ya. | |
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| Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?...
Posted: 12/1/2007 6:21:29 PM | DON,T WORRY ABOUT PPL LIKE THAT , IF A MAN LOVES YOU ..HE WILL BE WITH YOU NO MATTER WHAT ........
IT HAPPENS TO ME ALL THE TIME ......AFTER TIME YOU GET USE TO IT ...
DON,T TAKE IT TO HEART , JUST PUT YOU STANDS UP ..SO IT GETS RID OF PPL LIKE THAT , SO YOU DON,T WASE YOU TIME ON THEM .
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Posted: 12/3/2007 7:01:40 PM | | Well Shauna. As some one who hasn't been on this site for to long. I to have had this problem with some wemen. I know some men who do play games like that, I do tell them that it is wrong. They don't listen to me...But the amazing thing is that they are always with someone. Witch tells me that it works. ....On some ....This is why they do it. one in three fall for it. But have faith I know that there are good men out there and they don't play head games... I know this because I am one..... I know how you feel. It dose hurt.....You get over it.....Besides any man who plays games like that deserves what he gets. I wish you good luck in your search for happiness... I think we all deserve it ... | |
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Posted: 12/4/2007 9:12:22 AM | | To be honest with you, alot of guys think if they play the intrested type and show some affection you will loosen up just enough to allow them close to you and they get what they are out for(and you know what) and all of sudden its over. Sad thing is , cant really tell which ones are real and which ones are "dogs". So sorry this happened to you but dont let it get you down. Not all guys are that way. Best of luck with your search. | |
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Posted: 12/4/2007 9:24:44 AM | | People can be ambitious so they find someone tastier when you least expect it and the net is a good resource for tastier and tastier hoes. The bad ones keep searching and scoping and scanning with their evil little eyes. It aint right but this aint heaven so you want to prepare yourself for a new cheater in each new angel. | |
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Posted: 12/4/2007 4:23:55 PM | | You slept in his car???? What the heck is that. Is there doormat on you back?? I do not mean to be harsh but honey I love you now go sleep in the car? Oh my god to funny. I really hope that was a joke otherwise would seriously consider what messages were being sent. | |
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Posted: 12/4/2007 5:00:05 PM | Sometimes they tell you what you want to hear "I Love You" to get what they want...and if they get what they want and something comes along better, there they go. You do not have to tell me if thats the way it happened but I got a feeling.
So for the next guy that says "I love you" take it with a grain of salt....Thin with your head not your heart sweetheart!
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