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Posted: 1/20/2008 4:34:06 PM | Oh, honey: Yup been down that road!!
Doesn't it make you feel like we're back in high school. Or you get the ones who are always looking over their shoulder to see if something better is out there. Chances are that's what happened.
However, hope springs eternal.... There are good guys out there... be patient... Respect yourself hold your head high and say.... "NEXT!" | |
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Posted: 1/20/2008 4:53:08 PM |
you don't get it because you obviously don't have the common sense God gave a bat. if you're gonna be dumb enough to go after crappy guys, then you deserve to get treated like crap. it's called the real world. you might wanna figure out how to live in it.
exactly how would sumone know if there crappy guys just by seeing pictures of them and talking 2 them? they could be putting on a big act and not even YOU would know. | |
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Posted: 1/21/2008 5:25:01 PM | | This happened to me when I first came on here. I talked with a guy for 7 weeks before we met as he was working away. It was all roses and sunshine until we met. It appears catching up on missed drinking days was more important. I spoke to him on it and said I didn't think he was treating me very well by drinking so much. He stopped calling, didn't return my phone calls or text messages. He acted like he didn't know me! Well, the hurt lasted 3 days, I smacked the dust off my jeans and started again. I am glad I found out the type of person he was early. I wish I had given the time I spent talking to him to others on this site who have been super nice. That is my only reget. Sadly, I am finding ignoring people is part of the on-line dating. I think everyone has done it at least once. Incidentally there is no clause in the contract that we have to answer every e-mail and every message, it is tough, but I come to expect it now. | |
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Posted: 1/21/2008 6:08:49 PM | I don't understand it either,has happened to me as well,sometimes I just want to throw in the towel.I will never do that though,I have a will power to go on,still believing that "True Love"
will one day happen for me.
I can only hope that you do not become dis-couraged by this,quality singles are hard to find nowadays..but they do exist..trust me they do.I guess the guy you speak of has unresolved issues,possibly with an ex..?..perhaps he's just a loser,running around like a chicken with no head.
I too have experienced similar circumstances,I meet someone online on 1 of the date sites I am on,things appear to be going well,the chemistry to take it to another level seems to be there,then suddenly POOF! they're gone like Chris Angel and his disappearing acts..makes no sense.
Move on girl,and if this guy suddenly does contact you,tell him how you feel,let him explain,and if it makes sense,give him another chance,but be cautious because he may just do it again.If his reasoning makes no sense to you,kick em' to the curb,and stay focused on what you hope to achieve,also be careful with someone who says they love you after only knowing you a short while..I suppose it is possible to have strong feelings for someone in 1 month,I met my ex 6 years ago on lavalife by phone,we spoke like mad for 2 weeks,and we both fell in love with eachother with out even seeing eachother,and when we finally saw eachother it was LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT,and it was a real,but she died,and I was left to pick up the pieces.
Best of luck,I feel for ya'...............................................................................-Keno***3 | |
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Posted: 1/21/2008 6:18:47 PM | It's as if he were looking for a "one night stand", but you gave him more and more and being the guy he was.... oh well, it was like a kid in a candy shop, and he just indulged himself, got sick, felt guilty, then took a RUN FOR THE HILLS. You, my friend, were duped into believing the two of you were "in love" and would live happily ever after.
The truth of the matter is this... HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU... SO GET OVER IT! | |
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Posted: 3/19/2008 2:24:06 AM | | No one likes games but in dating I have found it always ends up being a game whether you want to play one or you don't. If you make it unchallenging and show someone just how much you care and put to much into it from the beginning you end up setting yourself up for diappointment everytime. Run away until you catch them if that makes sense to you. And to tell someone you love them to soon is just crazy, that seems like something we would do in high school. That's one area where I am careful you may create feelings for someone but be careful when it comes to the whole "ilove you"-- that is enough to scare me right away if someone says that to me to fast. | |
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Posted: 3/19/2008 2:40:27 AM | heya ,,, mmm is anyone missin the point here ,,,,,,,he told shauna he loved her and then walked away..... some men pet are ***holes i have met a few,,,,hard as it is he was just playin ,,, such a muppet,,, it is a horrible feelin i so agree but ye know yeself in a few days you will be feelin a bit better,, and always remember what goes around comes around and ye did nada wrong he did ,, dont doubt youreself at all .... feck him the loser  | |
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Posted: 3/19/2008 2:51:35 AM | So sorry you had to go through all this pain. Long distance relationships are difficult. I hope you can "get over him" by realizing that the sooner you do, the sooner you can "allow" the right one to come along. It has to match up... both ways... seems he changed his mind, and is too much of a coward to let you know. Learn this happens, throughout our lives... even when you get older. The same thing just happened to me... with a guy who is sixty years old.
Men feel different about sex than women do. Just because they have sex with us does not mean that "they have moved to the NEXT LEVEL". It means they have just had sex.
Most of the time, when women have sex, it means they have moved to the Next Level. | |
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Posted: 3/25/2008 8:35:25 AM | sleep in your car or his? that had to feel pretty bad. I cant imagine being asked to sleep in any car, nor tell a lover to go sleep in a car. God what complete loosers; he for having you sleep in a car and you for doing it. Im ofended for you, outraged, and more.
Your self respect is at a all time low. I have never been abusive but that would have made want to throw a punch. | |
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Posted: 4/7/2008 7:33:38 PM | hello shauna, my name is angela n i just wanna say that im tryin to figure out the same damn thing!!?? i was in a relationship with a guy for over a year and one day he was tellin me how much he loved me, n the next day he told me he wanted me out of his life which caused me to get extremely depressed. i made a comment bout swallowing all my seroquel n killin myself, and he told me to go ahead n do it...that he didnt give a ****! so i did,and i succeeded, although he called 911 and they got me breathin again.
my best friend drove from or. to ca. unannounced n picked me up n brought me to live in or. I was mad at her at first cause i didnt get a chance to say goodbye to anyone, including my daughter or that guy.But I love her for it today....she saved my life!!!!
Its been 8 mos. and im still not completely over him, but i have finally started to move on with my life.
I still dont uderstand how someone whos posed to love u, can be so cruel n coldhearted | |
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Posted: 4/8/2008 2:23:25 AM | hiya bab, jus logged on and came across your topic why do men? gotta say not MEN proper guys don't do that sort of thing only boys, what i think the problem is hear is that some people use the love word like its an ordinary word you use every day like football, da match or coming down the pub for a swift one. guys use this word because its what girls like to hear and then when things start to get all soppy and lovey dovey they get scared what you need to do is to keep a man interested make him work for every kiss and cuddle cos then he see's this as a challenge, pay attention to yourself dress nice and smell nice don't do all the running after a guy other wise he will see it that he has got you in his pocket. remember this guys don't like to hear that other males are interested in you or that the fact you are talkin to other guys arha! oh one other thing be confident and strong in what you do we also like this too. x Ps. now go have fun and don't worry about him he'll be back.
byeeeeee Tosh2posh, hey hey | |
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