| For the Ladies... Posted: 4/3/2007 2:29:23 AM |
Anybody else on here disgusted with the young girls going after the older men? I think back to when I was 20 and I couldn't imagine having some old guy on top of me.. ewwww!!!! Still can't!!!..lol. Anybody else get really annoyed with this?
Another whinging female!!!! Build a bridge and get over it, if they aren't hitting on your guy then why do you care it's their life so be it. Good on the older fellas for getting some nice firm ass at least the younger girls know how to chill unlike u O.P!! No wonder the older guys r looking for the younger gals. | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 4/3/2007 8:52:49 AM | Instead of complaining so much, maybe we should just enjoy that finally we are all becoming more equal in the dating game......
As I mature now, there are many more options for dating than there were when very young. It is nice to see women that are much younger and older look and consider me as an option to know better, as I do them.
Maybe we should not think about the age but more of how they look, act, and treat others as well as themselves???......
You OP seem caught up on the age thing and that is your problem, not others, and for me, I would focus much more on the body that the brain is in and how it looks and functions with the brain power.
My eeewwwwwww would be to think about, or have someone, that has let themselves go, is soft and fat, and not caring enough about themselves, to take care of their body. This has nothing to do with age, but more with attitude and respect for ones self and your body.
Just my opinion......  | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 4/3/2007 5:16:48 PM | Why would someone else actions that have nothing to do with me - upset me. If they choose to go out with an older man so be it. I wouldn't want anyone judging me based on who I decided to go out with.
Live and let live - no one is hurting anyone | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 4/4/2007 7:57:56 PM | Hey if the older guys want to think the young girls really love them for who they are, all the more power to them.  | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 4/6/2007 3:14:55 AM | I think its actually comical. It happens to us all due to the cougars out there that only want young men. They just assume we want them and will be flattered enough to go for it. All depends what your looking for. But the line and I'm sure its copy and paste....(Because your more mature, not into games and know what you want. Women of their own age are wackos, players and have no clue what they want) LMFAO  | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 4/6/2007 3:16:50 PM | I get a LOT of younger girls emailing me. Depending on the age,I just usually tell em'Grand Pa's busy'. They either want experience,or a Sugar Daddy. never bothered to ask.
And HOW could you put that poor dog in that outfit???? Everybody knows GREY..thats the color this year.
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 5/21/2007 11:09:25 AM | Each to their own.
I currently have a 22 year old chasing me. My ego is doing very well thank you ! | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 5/21/2007 3:50:09 PM | | It's not disgusting that younger women go for older men. Obviously their personal preference, however I don't think I could have dated a much older guy in my early twenties but that doesn't mean those who do are somehow wrong. | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 5/21/2007 6:43:56 PM | I've always dated older guys..... Not because of money, they had none. When I was 18 I got involved with a man 31,,,,13 years older...I have rarely dated my age and never younger ( Now thats something I don't quite get , but hey...whatever floats a persons boat.)
So , No I see nothing wrong with older men and younger women as long as it's for the right reasons.... | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 5/23/2007 7:58:50 AM | Why on earth should it matter to you who is attracted to who? You're not attracted to older men and everyone has to accept that, But you can't accept that some younger women prefer older men?
Everyone has preferences, I usually end up dating men younger than myself, not sure why, that's just how it seems to work out. Men my age very seldom ask me out, usually it's men in their 30's.
I'm not real sure why it bothers you so much, it's really not any of your business who goes after who. | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 11/1/2009 10:18:04 PM | | Thye are just using them for their money. | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 11/1/2009 10:22:35 PM | I do try not to get disgusted with what other people are doing. Its very jr high. as long as it doesnt complicate my life, what do I care? | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 11/1/2009 10:42:54 PM | Judging other people makes me feel better about my crappy life. | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 11/2/2009 5:38:16 PM | | No I don't get annoyed or disgusted by young women going after old men. It is their prerogative to do so. I try as much as I can to keep my nose out of other adults business. | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 11/2/2009 6:31:07 PM | op, if that's what someone wants, more power to them. i'm not sure i think the motives are pure, but it could work, nevertheless. couldn't be a heck of a lot worse than all these same age people getting divorced, yah? on the other hand, yeah, someone way older isn't going to really thrill me a lot...but younger, sure...i guess i'm a bad dawg! | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 11/2/2009 6:41:15 PM | | plus, if some young stud uses me (hee hee), and i don't know the difference...then i die a happy woman!!! ok, to be serious...my ex's grandfather had a 45 yr old gf when he was 90 (i kid you not). i was appalled thinking how awful it was for him to be so blatantly used, but some yrs later, when i thought about it again, i cam to the conclusion, he knew what she was doing, he was loenly, she was there for him (no matter her motive)...and he died a happy man...so there was really no harm. they both found something they sought. were their motives really so different than other people's?? | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 11/2/2009 7:34:11 PM | | I'm 42 and I get a lot of attention from women at the gym who are late teens early 20s. Also, for most of my adult life I was trapped in a bad relationship with an older woman, so now is my time to live the life I always should have and the young ladies are benefiting greatly from my enthusiasm to be with them. So to answer: No it doesn't bother me at all - its healthy. | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 11/2/2009 10:59:41 PM | I'm curious OP, is this on a personal note, like some barely 20something going after your dad or just people in general? I can see how if it's personal and you know the intentions behind the ones involved, you may have cause for concern or be upset. But if just in general, no I don't see why you are spending time and energy on it, but that's just my opinion. :)
And it really amazes me that someone is thinking something, post a comment on a thread, and gets all sorts of snotty replies. People judge before even knowing the background to the question. Generally the question is a small piece to a much larger puzzle that person is trying to figure out. Cut her some slack and everyone else who posts on here. The drama on this site is very comparable to being back in high school, which is why I don't come on here very often. | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 11/2/2009 11:22:08 PM | Yes, I too am very annoyed by the thought of an old man on top of me. EWW!  | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 11/4/2009 2:42:06 PM | Nope, not me. I occasionally get approached by women 10~12 years younger than me at events I go to, or ones I host at my home.
Who am I to look a gift horse in the mouth? | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 11/4/2009 3:00:17 PM | And it really amazes me that someone is thinking something, post a comment on a thread, and gets all sorts of snotty replies.
Agreed. I've only been on POF for a matter of days, and I am amazed at how personal people are in these forums. If you can't make your point without personal attacks, it obviously isn't a good one.
I thought everyone was here to find some enjoyment in their life? Whatever form that takes, if they're all consenting adults, why should we care? | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 11/4/2009 7:08:10 PM | | How do you know so much about what age woman is going after what aged man anyways? Second, what's it too you? Are you one of those cranky & jeleous women that sticks their nose in other peoples busn.? Only thing I can think of. What a stupid topic to even discuss. Get a life & leave others alone, what is it hurting you? Ya, run along & go "gossip" with the other older women at the water cooler about how you even wish you could even get a younger man. | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 11/8/2009 7:00:52 PM | I'm just looking for some happiness with a good woman who could be a little bad!
You know, I find it funny because I find many younger women are judgmental. They get very demanding and are never happy. Those are things you actually expect from older women.
It may be about the perception that sex is free and wild with younger women/girls, as older women seem to have too many taboos or hangups about it.
What do you all think? | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 11/8/2009 8:53:43 PM | | I get annoyed. Back in the summer time this seasonal help gal was 18 flirting around with a 42 yr old married man and a 52 yr old single man. She didn't like when the 52 yr old flirted with me. She had 2 have some motive, or seems like she wanted to "collect them all". | |
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| For the Ladies... Posted: 11/8/2009 8:55:54 PM | country gal75, they want the young gals cause they are young and dumb and naive.
At our age we're able to wade through alot of the BS | |
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