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| threesomes: do they ruin relationships?
Posted: 2/26/2008 2:50:50 PM | | Well I am often the 3rd in a threesome(sometimes a foursome) I just don t get attached to anyone. I have too much fun keeping my independence and and options open. | |
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| threesomes: do they ruin relationships?
Posted: 2/26/2008 10:54:31 PM | | Actually 3somes don't ruin relationships once you get all the rules into place and make sure you 2 discuss things together before ANYTHING even happens. Make sure everyone is very clear, and make sure the 3rd person knows what the feelings are. Seriously once you get into a 3some, its not bad, they're fun to a point, but once one of you guys get out of it, then it should end. | |
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| threesomes: do they ruin relationships?
Posted: 2/27/2008 1:24:38 AM | lets just put it this way, if youre not secure with your relationship to begin with, you shouldnt endeavor into threesome, foursomes or moresomes... you have to have AMAZING communication with your partner, meaning no secrets and have a good understanding of what the other person wants
now that being said, in my experience, no threesomes dont ruin relationships... | |
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| threesomes: do they ruin relationships?
Posted: 2/27/2008 4:29:03 AM | First of all.... its completely dependent on that particular relationship. To wave a wand and say it ruins ALL relationships can't or isn't accurate.
Second, all these people referring to Dr. Drew and whatnot... religion is a form of belief, monogomy is a form of belief (we are created to enjoy sex, other life forms may mate for life out of security... not pleasure) so its subjective.
I do believe there are things you need to be concious of. Communication is key, making sure that there are no resentments, and that it works for the couple in question as well as the third. I have been the third a number of times with great success.
I am in an open relationship thats not typical, but after 9 years we are more in love with each other than ever. Do I recommend it??? NO WAY!!!! You have to be so secure that it won't adversely affect your primary relationship. | |
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| threesomes: do they ruin relationships?
Posted: 2/27/2008 8:33:19 AM | | If you want to do the threesome, fine. Get it out of your system. I just wouldn't do it in a committed relationship. I really don't care how much your wife/husband or whatever wants it, it will cause problems. You pay too much attention to the other party and it's 20 questions. Not worth it. | |
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