7times
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Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 26 | |
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Posted: 12/1/2005 10:39:22 AM | Okay.. I will actually be honest and open here on the forums for once without joking around. Damn, this might hurt.
I am one who enjoys the hunt and not just sitting in a stand waiting for one to walk by my field of vision. Let me experience the thrill of exploring, seeing how I can get closer without giving away my intentions, leaving just a hint for her to follow. If I'm truly attracted to someone it makes you feel alive knowing you are leaving your mark and making an impression on her. I don't consider it playing hard to get since she is playing along with the game, it adds a feeling of passion, romance and mystery all at once...
In a sense its like foreplay.. The whole build up for what is to follow | |
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Posted: 12/1/2005 10:41:32 AM | ^^^Gee, thanks for the positive feedback honey. Cynical though isn't it? Oops sorry 7times...this comment was intended for the previous poster , not you.
If he is married that is on him...not me. I doubt it. I usually get an impression about such things and I don't tend to attract attached males. They know I don't go for that. It's not my style. I haven't done anything other than demonstrate my physical attraction to him. His commitment remains his to keep and I wouldn't drop my books or make my attention exclusive toward him UNTIL I knew for sure I had full license to do so. I don't yet...so that is why I'm conducting myself respectfully.
Again, I guess some didn't see my attitude laid out in the previous posts but I will not chase him or drop hints when I have no idea what he is about. All I know and he knows right now is that we are playfully flirting with our eyes and trust me, I've said hello many times with my smile directly at him...he knows that.
@7times...I'm glad you have at least been honest about it. I really truly believe in this idea with all of my being. I've watched men for a long time and I think they are fascinating creatures...but I think denying them that good hunt is very emasculating and just a sad thing to do to a man. And yes, I agree, it is ritualistic and it is exciting. This whole "dating" thing takes away from that true hunt from strangers to lovers. The glances across the room...the inuendoes...the subtle hints...the flirtations...that's a big thing to miss. I enjoy those things way too much and I think giving in too easily makes it that much less rewarding for the male. | |
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Tinkle
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Joined: 11/2/2005
Msg: 28 | |
| Sabotaged...well almost
Posted: 12/1/2005 12:51:53 PM | Seems strange to me (which is strange). All that following you around and then he just gets close and stares at you and walks away? Hope he not a kook. You may luck out and he might be stalking you!  | |
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Posted: 12/1/2005 1:21:09 PM | Mindsky, apparently you didn't read it thoroughly. He didn't stalk me nor has he ever. He takes a completely different bus than I do usually. I personally think this whole "stalking" thing gets taken too far. I happen to believe it is endearing to a man when he tries hard to get into your space long enough to get your attention and he is far from the stalker type...I'm pretty certain of that.
Keep in mind that I got off at HIS stop, not the other way around. It was purely fluke that at last minute I realized I needed to get to the store for something so I got off on that stop instead. So in a way, it may have appeared as if I were stalking him..which I wasn't.
Anyway, I try to be careful about accusations around stalker stuff. I think it has denied women the right to her court in a way. I know it's necessary to be able to weed out the good from the bad but there are some men who just genuinely want to know you and know of no other way than to try and get you alone so they can actually approach you long enough to get a conversation going. | |
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Posted: 12/1/2005 8:11:04 PM | Blast,
I have seen many of your postings, and enjoyed your sense of humor, intuition, and common sense.
I happened accross this post the other day. My heart is with you. I hope this gentleman is everything you've ever dreamed....for I am certain you will fulfil every dream he has ever had.
All the Best.....
Chink
ps:SO......anything today? | |
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Posted: 12/1/2005 9:02:48 PM | wow i really loved reading that story !!!!..i would of just said something to him ....and seen where it went from there...but it sounds like he is shy......you will meet again though ..hopefully he's not married ? or taken ? ...but sometimes guys just like to look even though they are happy with what they have at home.......let us know ok....good luck  | |
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