| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 1/31/2007 8:46:24 PM | I don't think the women who are talking about the guys here ONLY wanting sex are talking about a normal relationship including sex.
What they are talking about is the guys who figure that now you have emailed back and forth a bit or chatted on an IM, that it is time to go get naked. No coffee, no drink, no "hello", no dating...just meet as complete strangers to fvck. A "real gentleman" might suggest ongoing casual hookups....
Unfortunately, it sometimes seems the majority of the guys on this site seem to feel this is exactly what "online dating" is all about..... | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/3/2007 10:01:52 AM | I have to say that you are right that not everyone of them is on here looking for sex. If anyone is offended by the way a conversation is going remember that you have the choice to continue to chat with that person or end the conversation. Unfortunately there are a few that are on here that tell you they want all the good things(friends/companions etc) then if added to msn or yahoo then the real them comes out and they are all about the sex. It goes both ways from what i hear that some of the women are just as bad if not worse sometimes.
This is something that i have figured out that in MOST cases men need to have sex to be happy in a relationship and women need to be happy in the relationship to have sex.
I know for myself that i have a teenage daughter that i want to know that you dont have to give it up to be in a relationship but that it is ok to if you are truly happy with that person. There is nothing wrong with waiting til you feel the time is right and if the person you are with is the right person for you then they will wait for you to be ready. In some cases that might happen after the first couple of meetings but the thing is everyone has a choice and unless it is rape then no one is forcing anyone else to do something they dont want to. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/3/2007 10:39:36 AM | Who the fox if all your attracting is guys looking for sex maybe you should change you profile cause pic cause your giving off the impression that all you want. Your dressed in hardly anything so its your own fault if guy think your nothing more then a quick F***.
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/9/2007 1:57:47 PM | [your dresses in hardly anything so it is your own fault....]
was this reply directed at me?? sorry to tell you that what i was wearing was a v neck shit with another shirt on under it. I am not showing any cleavage or showing off my boobs. so i dont see how anyone can look at that picture and think that i am nothing more than a quick f***. and if taken the time to read through my profile there is nothing in there that suggests anything like that either. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/9/2007 2:05:51 PM | Yes we are sweety!!!! You could be wearing a sleeping bag in your pics it won't deter most guys
 Just kidding there are some nice guys on here,,,I think!!! | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/9/2007 2:06:20 PM |
are all the guys on here looking for sex
just as big of percentage of the women on here are just looking for sex as well.
There is no gender discrimination when it comes to that. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/9/2007 2:12:45 PM | | Most of us here are looking for a sexual relationship, rather it be for a one nightstand to that person holding out until marriage. And to inform you Branlynn, professional studies have shown that woman are thinking about sex just as much as men. Rather or not you are vocal about your sexual needs and wants has nothing to do with decency on the part of the speaker/pursuer, but in the mind of the person receiving that message. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/9/2007 4:17:45 PM | | Yes, If guy's would make contact with the lady's that make it clear what they are looking for, or a least semi-clear that sex would be on the menu before the night is over, and leave the ones alone that you have to drum up a 1000 lbs of bs to get them interested. Everyone would be happy. Seem's so simple. Oh, excuse me what was I thinking that would be to easy wouldn't it? not near the challange,would not be the same to brag about that additional hole in your belt so to speak. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/9/2007 4:27:13 PM | | No....Us guys are looking to spend all our time and money, going out with a girl ...just so we can buy her a nice dinner, watch her dance, buy her drinks,watch her purse, and drive her home at the end of the nite .....safley | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/9/2007 4:31:18 PM | Who the fox if all your attracting is guys looking for sex maybe you should change you profile cause pic cause your giving off the impression that all you want. Your dressed in hardly anything so its your own fault if guy think your nothing more then a quick F***.
Actually, I have found that the MORE clothing I have on, the more of the casual encounters guys I attract. If I post just a headshot with no body at all, my inbox fills with obscene invitations and the IM window is usually opening to some guy playing with Mr Happy.
Explain that. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/9/2007 4:36:16 PM | | Sure just as soon as you can expalin why so many of the women on this site say they are looking for long term and on anther site those same women are looking for something that is of a lot shorter duration. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/9/2007 4:44:55 PM | | All of this and threads like this i think just puts a bad taste in womens mouth towards men...There are atleast i think there are men out there that when it comes to women are not just after sex...Im not and never have been...I just always wanted to be close to a women and no i dont mean sex wise..It really bothers me to think that women think that of us. Because we are not all like that...Or maybe im just the only one in the universe left that isnt like that. that with myself is a very touchy subject i hate it and hate that women see it that way. But im sure that men even myself see women a way and im sure that not all women are that way. Yes there are a lot of sex nuts out there women and men huge players that only want that one thing from every girl/man they meet....As for me im not one. Yes i can go to a club anytime and pic up a hot girl and take her home... but i look for more then that. I look for depth and if sex comes up fine if it dont thats great also. Sorry for the rant and writing a book...But not every man is that way. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/9/2007 4:49:13 PM | Don't worry about it. The women know that we are not all like this. They also know that women do the same exact thing. It is just not politically correct to remind them.
On the other hand since I am here mostly for the forums due to distances involved I don't try to be politically correct. Not that I would anyway. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/9/2007 4:49:59 PM | Sure us guys think about sex just as women think about shopping, and actually us men even think about shopping just as women think about sex. Come to think of it we will often think of clothes just as women think of beer and I'm pretty sure we think of companionship just as women think of love. Looking however for sex I'm sure alot of us are as I am also sure alot of women are.
If you can't accept the possibility of friendships turning into something else then I fear your view of reality may be a little off centre.
No matter how anyone may see their current situation, experiences and thoughts is sadly or happily not the way it will stay, if you can't see that possibility, then you really do have some serious thinking to do. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/9/2007 5:01:49 PM | somebodyelse...
What irritates me is when they tell you all the other bs, that they are really into you, all that, when all they wanted in the first place was a piece of a**. Like I've said before, nothing wrong with wanting to get laid, but at least have the b***s to be honest about it!
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like woman dont do this either...sorry to inform you but there is just as many woman out there that do exactly what you just accused all men of... | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/9/2007 8:08:05 PM |
What irritates me is when they tell you all the other bs, that they are really into you, all that, when all they wanted in the first place was a piece of a**. Like I've said before, nothing wrong with wanting to get laid, but at least have the b***s to be honest about it!
Exactly.
If I was looking for intimate encounters or casual sex, I would say so outright. I expect the same honesty from a man. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/12/2007 7:54:23 AM |
Well seems like u cant have a decent conversation with anyone, it seems like all the guys on here think about is sex. Im sure there are decent guys, but so far no luck with it/
I love a decent conversation.
Lots of decent guys here too, however, as it seems from what I keep reading in the forums, it's pretty difficult for them to get a connection happening. What's the reason for that? Not sexy enough? boring? not exciting? blah blah blah. The oft-stated need for pics and chemistry? Nooo..you're not looking for physical attraction at all....thou dost protest too much!
Unrealistic expectations in a 'relationship'? Going to find the good in that bad-boy!
He'll change for me! .....And, when he doesn't.....men are no good.
Only one thing I do know for sure in all of this ladies. Enjoy the interest of the men while you can still get it. It is, after all, the favourite tool of the female for manipulating the male. You'll be substantially sadder and wiser once that has lost it's effectiveness. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/3/2007 9:41:04 PM | OMG...are YOU joking? 
Your pics look like an ad for 2nd hand madame...what do you expect? Actually, I'm surprised any guy would want to meet and f*#@K you...I mean I would be afraid to do you with a stranger's penis.
If you dress like like hooker expect to be treated like a hooker....sorry...not trying to be mean only truthful...and sometimes the truth hurts. | |
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