| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/3/2007 11:33:50 PM | Who the fox if all your attracting is guys looking for sex maybe you should change you profile cause pic cause your giving off the impression that all you want. Your dressed in hardly anything so its your own fault if guy think your nothing more then a quick F***.
I get the same crap too, guys looking for a quicky,even the religious ones saying God put woman here to reproduce....my pictures are dicent. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/15/2007 6:07:12 PM | well.....SEX is nice...but...everyone is looking for that sort of intimacy eventually.....
i was once asked how far i go on a 1st date...there is no definite..wherever it takes us....that's how far we go..... | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/15/2007 6:11:19 PM | | I won't say they all are, because in my experience some are looking for more. Being a decent guy isn't all you need though... they have to be compatible with you at least on some levels. I think that a high percentage on here are just hoping for a quick in and out (excuse the pun) so it makes it harder to find someone worth digging a bit deeper with. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/15/2007 6:21:27 PM | No, not all men are looking for sex. It is a very nice side benefit, but I'd much rather have the deep down connection emotionally and mentally before going that route.
There is a big difference between affection and sex.......I'd rather have affection first.
This may surprise alot on here, but it is true. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/15/2007 6:49:14 PM | | Yes all men are looking for sex but some (like me) want it with that one special woman for the rest of our lives. Men feel loved though sex and I sure want to feel loved but not by just anyone. Some of us want more than just sex, we want a best friend and mate too and then some guys just don't care who it is as long as they get laid. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/15/2007 7:08:45 PM |  Is this a trick question
No there are some very decent men on here, they are the only ones I talk too!  once ya weed out the weenies it's all good! | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/19/2007 5:04:21 AM | | Yes men look for sex. Perhaps it's up to the women to demonstrate that they are worth more than just sex. Do women ever take the time to consider that perhaps they are part of the problem? | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/19/2007 11:56:44 AM | Hmmm. Am I looking for sex. Indeed I am. I am also looking for a lady to share life's hopes and dreams with. A lady that I can enjoy her company as she will enjoy mine. I would very much like a lady that will make me feel good about myself when I need it. Vice versa for her of course. Part of our genetic makeup up is to procreate. Sex in my opinion is part of a loving caring relationship.
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/19/2007 12:14:52 PM |
Sex in my opinion is part of a loving caring relationship.
Indeed it is. If a man is a man, he surely wants sex just because it feels soooo good. It is even better as part of that loving/caring relationship. However, due to circumstances beyond his control, a man may not be physically able to enjoy the sexual side of a relationship, but that doesn't stop him from wanting it and thinking about it. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/19/2007 1:40:16 PM |
I get the same crap too, guys looking for a quicky
The problem is, Sugarbandit (& others), is that a lot of guys have never grown up, and sex is everything to them. Total emotional disconnect maybe? They fail to understand that for most (not gonna say all) women, they want the emotional connection there, and that if you can make/find that connection, the sex is going to be a natural part of the relationship. Women love sex just as much as guys, and sure, maybe some *just* want sex, thats ok too, but I think there's a "percentage disconnect", ie, 80% of guys just want sex, yet only 20% of women just want sex (thus 20% of guys want more, and 80% of women want more)... the numbers dont mesh well do they?
At least the guys looking for a quickie usually show their true colors pretty quick (ie, looking for 'sex chat' in the first 5 minutes). The real good players can put on a good 'face' and lead you on for a while to get what they want, they're not as immature.
Just keep your chin up and keep looking... we're not all total losers (as my GF would tell you). | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/19/2007 3:54:48 PM | If you dress like like hooker expect to be treated like a hooker....sorry...not trying to be mean only truthful...and sometimes the truth hurts.
And if you're a big fattie, sometimes you have to deal with being overwhelming jealous.
My profile is hidden and has been for sometime. When I was interested in dating men from this site, all I had up was a head shot and a pic of my legs.
The current pic is posted just because it makes some people livid and that amuses me. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/19/2007 4:22:49 PM |  Thud....Will Work for Sex!!LMAO at that one...As to the poster Most are and thats ONLY my expereince thus far but I AINT gonna stop my hunt for the one who wants a relationship(LONG TERM) but having said that even in my profile I guess some cant read or think uh I can change her mind...Im older and I meet for a coffee/drink and the next question wanna go back to my place uh NO ....what was your name again??geez get to know me!! Theres got to be hope!!jewel | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/19/2007 10:02:14 PM | Come on guys, marriage is a sexual relationship. And yes, that is certainly not all that is involved but this is a dating site. What the OP is really complaining about is guys looking only for sex. It's kinda age related, an adolescent thing...
Great cartoon a few years back; don't remember where I saw it. Two teenage boys walking home from a ball game, bats over sholders, swinging gloves. First one says: I read in the Readers Digest that teenage boys spend 83% of their time thinking about sex. The other replies after a long pause: Gee, I wonder what they think about the other 17% of the time.
Ah yes... | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/20/2007 6:34:20 AM | | Some guy's do and some guy's don't. I think it all depends on what your profile and pictures envoke. Even some women on here just want sex,.. so it's not fair to say that it's just the men that think about sex. If you choose to start asking such a question chances are someone will assume that's what you think about! "What a tangled web we weave....."! | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/20/2007 11:34:03 AM | | hmmmmmmmmmmm. i really never intended to post on this subject since its soooooooo blase' but then i ran across your comment james. i must say i feel abit sad in an empathetic way for you as a person. regarding your reply, it seems to me that perhaps you havent really had too many great experiences with women. because if u had, you would certainly have a different opinion about why men and women communicate with each other. most of my friends are guys and they talk about everything with me from fishing to the famous 2 body acts they have on occasion. ive found more often than not my conversations with women do tend to be more deep and kindred, but ive had many great ones with the guys as well. maybe you have just been underpriveleged in the area of intelect when it comes to the women you have entertained in conversation. if a guy cant think of anything other than sex to talk about with me, i doubt very seriously he would be anymore stimulating in the intimate bare naked area. sex is way over rated. dogs do it because of their nature, as well as some people. but true unbridled, erotic, mindblowing, body bashing only evolves when the mind and heart are familiar and the imagination and anticipation level of it all has truly bordered on taking each of you to the edge until u reach that ultimate level of what i call the point of no return when intimacy is at its best. and i dont want to talk to the opposite sex because im looking for sex. who has to look for sex? its not like its undiscovered. its everywhere. now getting my car worked on or whos winning the game or help firing up the grill, and so forth. those are things i certainly say i choose to talk to a guy about, and most of my interests are tomboyish so id be up a creek with out my macho compadres. and i am not dead. ive been abstinate for 3 years, and im more alive today than i was before and i think someone who is merely looking for sex is really a better example of dead in the aspect that there is nothing self gratifying for the person unless they are being physical with someone. and really sex is a pitiful man made word which is actually a loweration of the true beauty through intimacy God created for us to become one with another soul. sexual intercourse. geez it sounds like some kind of surgical procedure. and lets have sex has never got my motor going. i can think of lots of other words sexy, erotic, and down right dirty, but sex, detest the word. and we all think about the act at times, but some people just have better social ettiquette and self control. i hope someday you meet someone who perhaps will strike you so awesomely that you experience conversation with her you enjoy that involves lots of things you both cherish other than the subject of sex. until you experience the deepest part of a womans heart, you havent even begun to know what mind blowing making out is all about. touch her heart, and passion is born. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/20/2007 11:40:43 AM | | The majority are looking for sex and then you have the lazy bums who are looking for someone to take care of them, Liars, cheaters and game players, But if you stay persistent you can actually find a rose in the patch of weeds! | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/23/2007 11:50:30 AM | | Very profound thinking. What ever happened to 2 people enjoying their company and WANTING to make love. Sex is simple mechanics. And, for those who "need sex", you can get whatever you want on the streets. | |
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