| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/23/2007 12:04:44 PM | | What kind of Caveman philosophy is that? Because a woman dresses a certain way, she's asking for it? Regardless of your archaic upbringing, and as long as you have that mindset, you'll probably continue to look for "sex", and not the rewards of making love. There is a vast difference. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/23/2007 2:34:42 PM | | Yes I am looking for sex on this site my profile clearly says intimate encounters. I don't really care about a relationship. A casual sex is really nice and convenient for me it has never broken my heart . | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/24/2007 12:30:12 AM | | lol, not all of us - sex can be had prettty well anywhere at pretty well anytime, but a massive gulf exists between sex & making love....sounds cheesy, but i dont care | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/24/2007 12:46:15 AM | | im finding the exact same problem ?????????and even when i xplain on my profile that i dont do cyber sex, i either get "a" no replies what so ever or"b"men tryin to pretend to be real sweet till they get ur msn address then they try ???????????wat the hell do i do .i tell u wat i"l just not bother anymore >??????????/// | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/24/2007 4:42:51 AM | | "Making love" (as oppose to sex) does not presuppose a so called "commitment" to a so called "long term relationship". It presupposes the choice of the "right" lover. One who does not think intercourse = making love but that making love > intercourse. I propose that the rationale that these kind of lovers are to be found by women via seeking "LTR seeking" males only is flawed. Thus some women POFers might want to review and rethink their search parameters in their profiles. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 3/24/2007 5:18:09 AM | | im a mature male that works alot and i would love to meet someone on here,but most woman think that all of us are just looking for sex and that the problem. There is some nice guys out there trying to find the right one not in the bar and dont know how to do it any other way but to try online and i wish it would work.i dont get any responces and i have a great job, a good future just work to much to find the right one,so ladyies dont give up,my pic is worse than it looks and i dont have a double chin haha thats the only pic i had but you girls always look outside not inside or i would have some e-mails so most guys want sex but girls want trophy guys when most of the time they have no future | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 6/26/2007 2:27:04 PM | Damn this was posted back in 05? Ok you want the truth? Can you handle it?
BY INSTINCT MEN LOOK FOR SEX...There's nothing wrong with that. When we are hungry we look for food..duh. When we are thirsty we look for a drink, and when we get horny we look for sex. It's very simple and logical. Women complicate the issue and blame men for being men. Now pay close attention...If a man goes after sex right from the start then good for you, that means that an individual has found you attractive and thinks that it would be great to have sex.(with you)
So is it a problem that we want sex? or is the problem that some women don't know how to say,"no"? They go ahead and have the sex and then worry about what's his last name again? Get all confused and down on themselves because they feel all dirty for getting freaky with the guy they don't really know but I can assure you that said guy is at work the next day smiling and whistling all day thinking about last night, wondering if he can get some more sex or if she will start trippin, blowing up the cell phone, getting mad when we don't come running like a dog when you whistle. Any signs of crazy behaivior will result in your phone number getting deleted and the next time you see him again will probably be at the same club you met at last time. So just chill. They call us dogs but what are they if they had sex with us right away. Women shouldn't get mad and file us all in the same catagory under "DOGS".
Even when a man goes slow and doesn't ask for sex right away that doesn't mean that it's not on his mind. As a divorced man I have to say that when a man stops being sexually attracted to his mate then you can pretty much call it "over."
Sex isn't the only thing on our minds but make no mistake it's there and GUESS WHAT? When and if that stops, women will have a whole new set of complaints.
So enjoy men while you can still put a smile on our faces...
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 6/26/2007 4:24:51 PM | btw i agree with the guy right above me, sex ia a part of a relationship and most men are looking for SEX along with LOVE and FUN. Sounds scary doesn't it!
Society nowadays have put so many taboos on normal healthy everyday functions. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 6/26/2007 4:54:19 PM | What about this one...
I was on-line here - pissed that I just found out I had just met another player/jerk.. I think that is about 1000 .. .. maybe more.. I have lost count... Some guy wanted to chat with me --- I should have known better!! I told him I wasn't in a good mood to talk to him.. he asked why so I told him about it...........
Do you know what his response was???????????????????????
He asks me if I like phone fun.. I said....... NO...... BLOCK/DELETE!!!!!
He couldn't have had any better timing to totally turn me off to ever want to talk to another guy for the rest of my life. Do they EVER think about anything else AT ALL??? I honestly don't think so. | |
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Joined: 2/26/2007
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 10/5/2007 10:22:37 AM | Yes guys think and talk about sex - I understand women do to.
There are decent guys here - but please, do not put all men into one catagory.
Sex means many things to many people - find out what it means to you and politely ask the guy to refrain from talking about sex any other way.
I am sure you are wise and will use the keys needed, so you can talk about what you feel comfortable talking about.
Just because someone wants to show their personality a certain way, does not mean you need to accept it.
Usually the people that talk about sex a certain way will talk differently if you talk about Religion.
Have Fun and Smile.
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htarw
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Joined: 6/29/2007
Msg: 442 | |
| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 10/5/2007 11:50:06 AM | | personally, I refuse to discuss sex, at least not early when you get to know someone. There are far more interesting things to talk about than just sex all the time. It has its time and place, but not when you are getting to know someone at first...just IMO | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:25:11 PM | Don't you see it ladies.... these guys aren't getting enough sex that is why they are here! Repeat: They aren't getting sex. Now if you get one (if they hang out long enough) and you start having sex with them on a regular basis, they start whinning down alittle bet and before you know it your begging for it aleast once a week and even then you lucky to get it!
Geez... This banana's been getting it! They don't dance like that after awhile... I am tried of fishing in all the wrong ponds! I'll stay with hoping Mr. Right lands on my roof tonight... hey, there's a song there, somewhere....over the rainbow, now that's a different song, oops sorry.
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cami64
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Joined: 10/28/2007
Msg: 445 | |
| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:48:34 PM | Yes all guys, men, are looking for sex. A good conversation comes in once in a while. Like my dad told me and someone else very special all men are Dogs. LOL  | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/12/2007 6:02:35 PM | wolf wolf.... Yes, Yes Yes.....
I am looking for sex.... But I am not looking for just sex! I am looking for really good sex!
Really good sex with a woman that can spark a fire deep in my soul! One that can stimulate my mind as well as my body!
If thats so wrong then why did I get one of these and two of theses ?
~Belly~ | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/12/2007 6:08:16 PM | | If they're not looking for sex, there's something seriously wrong with them. The same applies to you, too. Also, if anyone says they're not looking for sex, they're LYING! They're LIARS! | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/12/2007 6:13:04 PM | "What irritates me is when they tell you all the other bs, that they are really into you, all that, when all they wanted in the first place was a piece of a**. Like I've said before, nothing wrong with wanting to get laid, but at least have the b***s to be honest about it!"
I hear ya girlfriend!! I am no prude. I am at a stage where I want dating or long term monogamous relationship, but there have been times in my life where I have not been an angel either.....Yes...Just have the BALLS to put what the Hell you are REALLY looking for. We can all handle it & you would save us all a lot of wasted time. I also get a kick out of these guys who then get pissed when I call them on the issue after they decide that "OH I am not ready after all for a relationship"....Didn't seem to bother them when they were in the throes........BS. I have had "friends". If that is what a woman wants, that is what we say. If we say Dating or Long term, that is what we want. I have wasted time on guys pretending to want more than sex & $$$ on baby sitters. Pisses me off! Cowards. Maybe the quality of the gals in intimate encounters is not there??? But please do the rest of us women a favor & just be upfront with what you want so nobody gets hurt or pissed off. Pretty simple really!!! | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/12/2007 6:14:35 PM | that is what the guys who want that should be under...not Long term. Hopefully all relationships will have a sexual aspect; however, when we are looking for a guy in LT or dating we are hoping for more than 1 screw. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/12/2007 6:18:33 PM | | so then we are supposed to wear turtlenecks & no make-up??? that should get lots of responses....can't win!!! that is like saying that if u are attractive & dress like a sexy woman you are asking to get raped. | |
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