| | are all the guys on here looking for sex?Page 19 of 21 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21) | Annie, guys are like a two edge sword, they will tell you want you want to hear
and then they will visit the "intimate encounters", then they come back to the ones who are straight up and say they are looking for long term, dating, etc because that's the game their papa's taught them in ancient times, that have been passed down through centuries and still is the mind set in todays times.
It's elementary, it really is...
by the way what does OP stand for, I am new here.
Thanks in advance,
Chela | |
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Posted: 11/14/2007 6:22:46 PM | | Sex in of itself isn't as important as the intimacy that is brought about by the union. That warm sense of belonging that is brought about giving pleasure and ones self wholly to another. For me the act of is about bringing pleasure to someone. So, the partner must be comfortable and relaxed in order to achieve this goal. I want a potential partner to be "ready" and will always take my time, so that we are both able to fully enjoy each other, on all levels. I don't put a time constraint on when it should occur. I can only say that, when it does, it allows me to develop a closer personal connection with someone that WANTS SPEND TIME WITH ME. | |
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Posted: 11/14/2007 9:10:58 PM | biological drives are not to be denied
no matter how deeply you drive them into your personna
motivation springs from genetics at the deepest part
so yes , sex is part of it but isnt it also about how civilized we are?
about beating our first selfish impules
and everyone, I repeat everyone is selfish first til they train themselves not to act on it
what experience should teach us is that behind every itch is the cost to scratch
and the possibilites to use what we know to turn it all into something
worth sharing.
To give isnt a crime though it damn well could be punished
just try to understand that if what you really want is a better tomorrow
try not being selfish today, and develop that into your actions
Now good luck finding someone that also has grown in that direction | |
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Posted: 11/14/2007 10:39:36 PM | | nope. i'm looking to when i can go back to work so i can get the HELL outta these forums ...but you know a good script was made from them! | |
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Posted: 11/15/2007 5:28:23 AM | | Every guy i've spoken too just wants sex and i'd be up for that but most of them are a little odd. If I get asked one more time to past a naked picture of myself I'm gonna scream. get a life perverts. ask your wives instead | |
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Posted: 11/17/2007 5:08:07 PM | | I have encountered the same thing. No real conversation just sex talk and wanting to meet for sex. They need to be on another site if you ask me!! | |
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Posted: 11/17/2007 6:36:20 PM | | i agree with all of you guys!!!! mostly all the guys that message me ask about sex. i once had this one guy offer me money to come have sex with 20 guys and i was like thinking to myself. why are men on this site looking for a gurl to come have sex with him and 19 of his buddys.. how gross and disrespectful to us women. i feel like all men only want one thing and no freindship... | |
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Posted: 11/17/2007 7:39:46 PM | Some Fifty years, or so ago a naive young girl graduated from an Australian Catholic convent to enter university. This kids name was Germaine Greer and it’s important to clearly establish her background because her naive comments have had such a massive influence on female attitudes for the last half century.
In those days girls normally left school after year eight. They lent a hand in caring for their younger siblings, or nieces and nephews, until they were considered old enough to marry themselves.
Catholic convents, teaching senior years, existed for only three reasons.
The first was Archbishop Mannix’s finishing school and those of the same style. These didn’t actually educate the girls any further but taught them polish and poise. Good grooming, ettiqute, how to organize the home help in a large house. A factory to turn out suitable wives for pollies, diplomats, and industry captains.
The second reason was to keep any girls, who were already too keen on boys, well away from them till they were at least eighteen, sometimes twenty. This one was notorious for backfiring because all the good young men had been snapped up by then leaving these poor girls with the dregs.
The final reason was as a breeding ground for the next generation of nuns.
University education of girls was normally only undertaken in exceptional circumstances. Many Catholic parishes strongly advised parents against it for no other reason than they had heard of one or two individuals, on the campus, who “didn’t believe in god”.
At a sexual level these schools were not just non sexual. They were anti sexual. Not a problem if the convents were purely breeding grounds for the next generation of nuns but a disaster when the girls left to become wives and mothers.
This was the world that this child, by the name of Germaine Greer left to enter university. It was also an age where the status of women was changing. Rosie the riveter and her sisters had already proved themselves industry capable in the munitions factories during world war two.
This was the seed of the women’s lib movement which re started at the time. It initially started with the Suffragettes but had gone quiet. This movement was something that Greer, often unintentionally, milked for all it was worth, often getting credit for advances that she had little or nothing to do with.
The sexual repression however was something that Greer vigorously rebelled against. For a decade, or two, anyway!
But there was still no way that she could go through her convent upbringing without being influenced by it. On the campus she was shocked to hear young men discussing their sex lives as casually as they discussed the footy scores.
This led Greer to come barging blindly out with one of the worst pieces of misinformation that has ever dogged, and destroyed relationships for the past half century.
“Men are a bunch of slaves to their penises and are after nothing from a relationship but a semen spittoon.”
Anybody, who really thinks that its the men who are the penis slaves should really chat to the cancer clinics. Men worry about dying far more than about castration. Women worry about losing a breast, far more than dying. Many of those women who do actually lose a breast, are so emotionally damaged, that they are unable to function without reconstructive surgery.
The truth is that while men do want a semen spittoon, as a part of the relationship package, a common prostitute is a more than adequate semen spitoon. Men want a semen spittoon and a whole lot more before they are even thinking about any sort of committed relationship.
Now any teenage kid, who is young, stupid, and thinks they know the ways of the world , will regularly drop these clangers, not just on sexual issues but on everything from politics, to money, to whatever. Most of these comments don’t go much past general conversation, and rarely beyond the conversation of young teenagers.
The voice that declared men a bunch of penis slave s wasn’t the voice of a feminist at all. It was the voice of a nun.
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But for some inexplicable reason, several generations of women, with a thousand times the sexual savvy as the young Greer, have blindly swallowed this particular “penis slaves” blunder, hook line and sinker. Millions of women, worldwide, have dedicated all their efforts to providing a better semen spittoon, in an effort to make relationships work. To the total neglect of the million and one other things that also go into a successful relationship! | |
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Posted: 11/17/2007 7:56:19 PM | I agree. I have had nothing but bad experiences her on plenty of fish. Men seem to just want sex. Ya I love sex like everyone else and want it like everyone else but a guy that talks nothing but sex is a major turn off. me like other woman want a man to care and want to get to know me, not just ask my bra size. It is just plain tastless behavior. If I say right off the bat that I want a gentleman that will not try to nail me on the first date ill never hear from them again.
I am giving guys some advise. The best way to score with a woman fast is to #1 show interest in her as a human being and have meaning full conversations with her and wait till you meet before jumping to much into the topic of sex and #2 be romantic. Woman love romantic men. You guys will score faster with a gal by showing interest in her other than sex. Woman are emotional creatures. We want to feel love and respected. But that is just my opinion. You know this is the internet. Does anyone want to have sex and talk about having sex with some stranger you do not know? Sorry not me. Too much risk for std's and aids. | |
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Posted: 11/18/2007 8:08:56 AM | | not all men are looking for sex some just need friends but after a while a male and female are going to do what they were put on this earth todo so go for it if it feels good do it again but alwaays think about the relationship and why yu are there in the first place dont run off true friends | |
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Posted: 11/18/2007 10:46:30 AM | Welcome to the new American sex shop (internet dating). Why have a relationship when so many of you are all screwed up and will eventially give up sex without the commitment! Besides relaitonships in this day and age are too hard, but we all still need SEX!  | |
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Posted: 11/18/2007 12:29:24 PM | """"I have encountered the same thing. No real conversation just sex talk and wanting to meet for sex"""
Ok, I'm sorry I apologize. At least I was polite I think? Do you have a better idea? | |
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Posted: 11/18/2007 12:44:26 PM | I have had nothing but bad experiences her on plenty of fish. Men seem to just want sex
One wonders if you feel that way, *why* are you still here? It is not just the male that is looking for sex. I have spoken to many men who were totally stunned to get used in the same fashion. I've made some good friendships here, even though I haven't met anyone to write home about yet.
Why have a relationship when so many of you are all screwed up and will eventially give up sex without the commitment!
Many PEOPLE, both male and female, have begun to feel this way. It started wayyyyyyy back in the *free love* era and was only slightly slowed with the advent of HIV/AIDS. Contrary to popular belief, it was not begun on Plenty of Fish or any other dating site, but right out there in the REAL WORLD!!! | |
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Posted: 11/18/2007 3:14:44 PM | Honestly people, get over yourselves. You make it sound like the "good males" don't want sex. They do. All of them. Even when they say they don't. Especially when they say they don't.
Let's turn the question around, shall we? I think it's time a guy posted a thread with the question, "Are all women on here looking for babies/security?" | |
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Posted: 11/18/2007 4:10:31 PM | | Well the natural drives (I. E. "sex") that are instilled in us to procreate are embellished with romance, love, rituals, and all kinds of good behavior that separates us from small multi cell organisms as well as animals. The instinctive drive to keep the species alive has been humanized and results in some of our finest behavior as well as for some a lot of bad behavior. | |
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Posted: 11/18/2007 5:23:57 PM | It's because youa re saying you don't want a relationship likely! Maybe saying the reverse will work better. Maybe we should switch profile write ups!!!! Just kidding. I am really bad at pretending I am someone else/playing games. | |
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Posted: 11/20/2007 4:15:22 PM | | yep. pretty much. oh and just so you know. it's not just limited to pof. in fact, there are men, right now, everywhere, looking for sex. thinking about sexing. dreaming about it. scheming about how to actually get sex. It's just how most of them (okay pretty much all of them) are wired. you can't blame them. so now that you know the truth, go fish! | |
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