| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/20/2007 6:17:16 PM | sorry caryonzz, but I hear that term SS one more time I think I will urp! This is 2007 remember? And with all due respect to MS. Greer the girls today are not like the 'free love' gals of our age and time, they know what they want and what they are doing sexually, give them some credit, please!
PS I rarely , if ever, get a rude or sexually innundated private message from any man on this site, ever, maybe it's my horrid appearance, or perhaps it is how I present myself! who knows? and who cares? | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/21/2007 3:19:42 PM | hey, i'm a straight guy and i'm not looking for sex on here, hell i buy all the sex i want.
at least i know what i'm getting and don't have to worry about stupid women that don't take birth control and i don't have to worry about std's
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/21/2007 10:20:03 PM | You BUY all the sex you want and dont have to worry about STD's??...
bahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Jesus...
That was the funniest thing I've heard all year.
Well, here's a fact PEOPLE think about sex, some more than others. Here's another fact for the most part it is harder for men to find sex (unless they are PAYING for it) than it is for women. Some men keep sex on the brain, use the internet to satisfy their nerdy needs and wants and use dating websites such as POF to find/act out those fantasies. But at the same time there are men that are interested in more than sex.
My advice is to keep fishing, eventually you'll get a live one on your line.
Happy Thanksgiving Everyone
and
Happy Fishing!
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nogo3
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Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 480 | |
| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/22/2007 10:32:44 AM | hey heart, you can laugh all you want to but in high society we do not have to worry unless we step down and mess around average people.
lmao
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/22/2007 5:07:08 PM | nope. lookin' for someone that can hold an interesting conversation -- notice i used interesting. if sex happens -- bonus.
happy holidays everyone! | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/23/2007 6:01:08 AM | I can tellI you that I had the same problem...over and over again and I was beginning to think they were all the same BUT I have started chatting with a very charming man who has not mentioned sex once much to my surprise and relief . There are men out here with some class....don't give up! You'll find him!  | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/23/2007 9:40:19 AM | Thanx, Stef . . 
There ARE a Few decent, respectful gentlemen left . . !! . . 
'Attraction'..to some degree, is sexually motivated . . is it Not . . ??
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.. So .. 'NO' .. Not _All_ guys are looking for Sex . . _Exclusively_ . .
It's just the cement that makes a Good relationship . . GOOD .. !!
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/23/2007 9:55:53 AM | "looking"?.... like as if to put an actual 'effort' on POF?
heh.
i'd be hardpressed to find someone worth the time & effort on here .... so ..."no" | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/23/2007 10:30:53 AM | | Well Mr. Dynomite, would you be including yourself in your statement, since you are on here? Or are you an exception to your opinion making you the only one on here who is worth the time and effort? | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/23/2007 12:32:17 PM | From what I have experienced online, some men like to address sex almost right away, to get a feel for how prudish (or not) the person they're talking to is. Unfortunately, as a woman, if you decide to engage in that type of conversation (IME):
1. Most times, you can't ever have a conversation about anything else from that point on.
2. It tends to turn too personal (from general sex discussion to volunteering his likes and dislikes and asking about YOUR sex life and preferences), which is basically not something they need to know about. Unless and until I am actually interested in having sex with that person, what we both like and dislike is out of context.
Weird because men think if you don't want to discuss sex immediately that you're too closed off or frigid, but what they don't get that until you know/like them enough to get to that point of conversation, it's just weird and offensive. Thing is, a lot of women like sex and enjoy it, and are actually agressive about it, but have no interest in discussing it with a stranger.
In my case I have no problem talking about sex (in a personal sense) when I am ready to, but if it's brought up before that, it's a turn off. Very few men have made it to that point. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/23/2007 12:48:55 PM | | I don't think they all are, but I think that in this day and age of promiscuity, men view women as sperm banks that are open for deposit immediately after purchasing a first meeting coffee. I grew up in the hippie era, where free love was the thing. I did not practice free love then and do not plan to start now. Guess that means I will be alone forever because men want sperm banks not a loving, caring relationship where sex is love making to someone you care about. Just call me a freak, cause I ain't nobody's sperm bank open for deposit, quick widrawal, and leaving for a new depository. Boy are we going to catch h*ll from the guys on this subject. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/24/2007 12:51:48 AM | | An intelligent woman can manipulate a man any way she wants by using sex. Using sex to trap a man into marriage or to get pregnant to trap him is the oldest trick in the book and men still fall for it. It is the women who sleep with every tom,**** or harry that have made it hard for decent women who want a little steak to go with their salad. Now, men expect sex without having to make any intellectual or emotional connection or committment. Everybody likes sex, unfortunately, sex takes about (what) for a man 5-minutes, a woman, 20-minutes, then what do you do, twiddle your thumbs, pick your nose. You gotta have more for a relationship than sex because 95% of your time is engaging in other activities. Face it, once you have had sex with one man or woman, they are basically all the same, and basically do the same things to you. I am a nurse and have seen hundreds of penises over the years. Some very large, some so small you could not even find them. The largest was on a black man so maybe the myth is true. The smallest was on a white man. Penises do not impress me. You need more than a penis to bring most women to orgasm. I think men are obsessed with their penis from the day they are born. They play with them, think with them, and dream about them. I was told by a man once that they do this because when they are very young "it moves". Whateverrrr! Yes, all men are looking for sex but only the smart ones will get it, and all the dumb ones will get a disease or get someone pregnant. Women can take it or leave it because sometimes there are more interesting things to do and someone more interesting to do them with. Some women believe sex equals love. Wrong!!! | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/24/2007 7:54:36 AM | | i really havnt met anyone on here that is not interested in sex.its what makes the opposite sex want the other one in its base form,but guys if you dont want the relationship part be honest about it.all these girls are asking is for you to not waste there time and make them feel like shit.if you want to get laid go to a club and role the dice or look under intemate incounters,dont lie and be decietfull to those who dont want that.your boner is not worth hurting a perfectly nice girl is it? | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/24/2007 4:18:06 PM | Passionandsong said it just right.
"you dont want the relationship part be honest about it.all these girls are asking is for you to not waste there time and make them feel like shit." | |
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Posted: 11/24/2007 5:12:43 PM | I totally agree with you! I was on my yahoo messenger recently, not even chatting, when some guy IMed me and starts talking casually. We exchanged pics and he said the usual "you are very pretty".... more talking... "wanna meet?".... etc. etc. etc. he eventually just disappeared.... did he log off rudely or get booted? I think it was the first.... jerk..... | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/24/2007 10:10:07 PM | | I'm here to talk to people and find new friends. I'm not here for sex, as I get plenty of that here at home anytime. Am I one in a million? Yes, but I'm also married and that eliminates any chance of a relationship, so it's no wonder that most of the girls I message don't want to talk to me much. That's ok, because the ones that do reply are the ones worth talking to! | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/24/2007 10:20:19 PM | Girl I have had both on here...
It is what you want and how far you want to go with it....
I have some really great friends on here that never ever talk indecent too me...
I have had one man that I dated for several months and well..... what we did was very personal and rated XXXXX :) smile you know whom you are...
The thing that always got me about the sex talk is someone that just comes right out and off the bat is nasty.... they usually get deleted from me..
I don't know about anyone else... But that is not a turn on.......
and you know, if you are like me... I rock there... but I rock so many other places in my life, I wish that they could see that about us also..........
Men would get alot further if they used some respect, get to know us, then slowly maybe flirt your way into some fun................. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/24/2007 10:56:57 PM | Well seems like u cant have a decent conversation with anyone, it seems like all the guys on here think about is sex. Im sure there are decent guys, but so far no luck with it/
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Decent converstation.
I dont' call a girls gripe session, about what baa baa baarstards men are, any sort of "decent conversation"
You want a decent conversation.
My interstestes are
- hybrid petrol electric motorcycles, vulcanology and continential drift, palentology, skewed statistics of all types, forensics, .
But few women seem to be insterested in such things. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 11/24/2007 11:05:47 PM | You know I have had some very good friends on here that are men.
And I still talk to several everyday... some are friends for life.
When I first start talking to a man on here one of the things I ask is,
"How long have you been on here", and another, "Tell me about the woman
on here and how you preceive them".
I am amazed at how many men, with all different kinds or personalites have told me that woman are just as bad about the whole sex thing. From talk, web, phone, hooking up from the moment that they contact each other..
So, In all fairness, it is what you want out there and whom you want to/or not give it to.
If i usually see a man that has on no shirt that took his pic from his web and dating is what he is looking for, well then I know he is looking for sex and only sex.... just from talking to them... I have seen some woman on here that adverstise in the same manner.... you know nothing wrong with sexy. My pics are sexy but classy also is sooo much sexier... If you got some pics you want to share with someone keep them for you and them... I have seen some woman on here that it made them look slutty no matter how beautiful they were... Adversisment and maybe you dont mean it the way it is read, but honey.......
men with long term seem more genuine for the most part.... You know it is like this too me.
I have a saying when I talk to people, when they first contact me, and as long as are decent in there manners, well, I give everyone a chance to talk... I am not above anyone until I get to know them... Too me it is like pulling weeds out of a garden talk give them a chance, and you know sometimes after talking they don't always like me, or I am not what they are looking for..
they only say to you what you allow.. I have a number of friendships that are different on here... One man that I had a relationship with, our conversations were not like anyone else's......... Men use your heart and brain instead of you 8=>
you will get lot further... PS... It is sooo much more sexier..... when we get to know you inside and outside a bedroom, and for you to know us in the same manner.... I rock.... in everything I do... see all of me......
Girl, just weed through the weeds and you will get a daisy... | |
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