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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 12/6/2007 5:17:30 PM | You'd think that with all the time spent looking for it and thinking about it ... more men would be better at it.
If it were always as good for us ... hey we'd think about it alot more too. | |
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Joined: 10/7/2006
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 12/8/2007 5:19:08 AM | Flat out, NO! Isn't it a little tireing to be complaining about the choices made instead of making different choices in a situation like this?  | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 12/8/2007 7:05:13 AM | | original OP.. I agree with you.. I have had experiences where most men want nothing but sex with no strings attached.. now I"m not saying ALL men are like that, but I have yet to find one that isn't.. I'm just tired of dating men that are constantly thinking, and talking about sex all the time.. 24/7.. I'm now not interested anymore in finding "the one" cuz I'm now happy with my life the way it is. . I enjoy just going out and meeting new people and making new friends.. If I happen to meet that special someone that is unique and not like all the rest, then, great! but I'm not gonna worry about it.. you have to be careful with whom you meet, because sadly most of them ARE on here for just sex.. women included.. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 1/7/2009 7:58:41 PM | That Brian Thorn A -Hole needs an attitude adjustment.
Hopefully I will meet him one day and I can fix his
little red wagon for him...SMILES | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 1/8/2009 3:05:48 PM | | as much as i love to bash the guys on this site...i honestly believe that there are some good honest ones out there...and that the sex maniacs are ruining it for the rest of them. At least...that's what I keep telling myself. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 1/8/2009 8:59:21 PM | | ya and woman dont think about sex like they dont fart, swear, or check guys butts out. The first thing everybody does, women especially, is check out the bod! | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 1/8/2009 10:13:37 PM | | I certainly didn't bother reading 21 pages of posts, but of course the answer is no. Personally, I'd prefer sex not even enter the equasion until there's a real relationship already developed. Sex can muddy the waters IMO. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 1/8/2009 10:18:50 PM | Hey RedBraemar:
I think you've got it right!
I have read a lot of these types of discussions on many forums over the years, and I have yet to see anybody look at the big picture. I guess I'm a big picture thinker, maybe I was born to be a systems analyst. 
What it comes down to is one of the rules of a man's romantic or sex life: The Law of Large Numbers. It says that if only 1 woman in 100 will accept your advances, then you go out and ask 100 women!
The sex maniacs don't respect you as an individual, they're just looking for that woman who'll agree to have sex with them. To do that, they follow The Law of Large Numbers, and heat up their keyboards sending lots, and lots, and lots of messages to women. On the other hand, those of us men looking for an emotional connection are selective, and we only send out a few messages, only to the women who interest us as individuals.
How does that look in the big picture? Simple, the sex maniacs send thousands of messages, the genuine men send a handful. You just have to count 'em up to realize that even if only a small minority of men are sex maniacs, the vast majority of messages you'll receive, as a woman, are from the sex maniacs! | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 1/8/2009 10:27:06 PM | | A single man thinking about having sex a lot doesn't mean he isn't decent, it means he is normal. Sex is a perfectly natural and normal thing to think about. I think most people think about it a lot. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 1/8/2009 10:46:56 PM | | I'm glad bcsofnc said it. (Almost) everyone is looking for sex -- eventually. The issue is if the guys (and sometimes gals) are looking for *just* sex. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 1/9/2009 2:18:43 AM | | There are plenty of guys out there that can have a conversation with a lady that is not pertaining to sexual activities but I don't think that defines whether they are a decent guy or not. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 1/9/2009 3:10:31 AM | Life is all about sex. Not directly but subconsciously. All of our behaviours are adjusted to get the attention of opposite sex. You do your hair, dress up nice to look and to feel good but at the same time you want the attraction of guys/girls. Sex is not a habit, it's a very natural need of the human being. Just like eating, breathing. You can be hanging out with the coolest guy ever. But if he is lame in bed, you will eventually dump him. Forget about sex, if the guy is not a good kisser you probably won't even go that far. The only thing that differentiates us from animals is, our other needs besides of sex. Communication, feeling content both emotionally and physically.
Now, most people here doesn't matter guy or girl, are looking for sex besides of many other things. But sex is of course one of them. Mind blowing, greatest sex ever if possible. And there's nothing wrong with that. Maybe your question should be "are all the guys on here looking for sex only". Now whoever is here hoping to get laid and move on to the next, is at the wrong place. There are many great guys in here who can offer you a stimulating conversation about any subject. But if you're getting too many emails regarding sex, maybe there's something wrong with your profile, i don't know. | |
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