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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 1/26/2006 10:17:56 AM |
I'm looking for sex with a special that I meet and fall in love with here. I'm not looking for a fling or anything like that.
Which is why, let me guess, you don't write to "few extra pounds" profiles. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 1/26/2006 10:24:32 AM |
Once, in another thread, a woman said that a man would not pass up a chance to have sex if it was offered it to him.
... and it was probably from her direct and frequent personal experience. 
So I started my own thread "Guys that turned down a woman for sex." There were many positive responces on how a man does not always want or always think about sex.
When I was married, I was the one who eventually wanted the sex far less, or not at all.
It's actually a common problem for women in long relationships: the guy losing interest.
Time for some Al Bundy quotes:
"If you want to have sex, the kids will have to leave. If you want it to be good, then you will have to leave."
"What was I thinking when I said 'I do'? I'd already had sex with her so I didn't need that again."
"This is a sex free house and by God it will be for the rest of my life."
"Oh, Lord, if I ever meant anything to you, please let me fall asleep before she thinks of sex."
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 1/26/2006 1:52:49 PM |
are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Not JUST sex. But I am looking for someone to love and to love me in return. For me lovemaking is an important emotional part of that relationship.
But then again I'm OLD.  | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 1/26/2006 1:57:22 PM |
Once, in another thread, a woman said that a man would not pass up a chance to have sex if it was offered it to him.
Well, meet an exception! I have in fact refused and even felt uncomfortable with a lady who was being quite sexually agressive with me. She put her hand behind my head and was forcing me in closer. She also wouldn't take NO for an answrer. It was a weird experience because my reaction was unexpected and emotional. OH - there wasn't anythign wrong with her to my view. | |
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Dxun
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Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 159 | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 1/26/2006 3:52:40 PM | Well I am not looking for sex online, because that to me is creepy, and pointless. But I am single and I am a man, so what am I gonna tell ya right? I am looking for that one special girl.
Are all girls on here looking for not sex? hahaha
Honestly though I have had girls steer the conversation into sexual talk too, I think guys mix up the stages of courtship though. Girls tend not to bring it up until they become sexually frustrated by my innate me-ness.
I personally only talk about that kind of thing face to face with a girl though, and typically after she gives the signs that it is cool to initiate, telephones and the Internet, there is no point really if you know what i am saying? | |
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Teksas
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Joined: 1/24/2006
Msg: 161 | |
| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 1/26/2006 6:57:33 PM | | Oh I get it. It’s a rhetorical question, right? I mean we really can’t answer this question without losing something. It’s a catch-22. If you say “I’m not looking for sex”, then you’re in denial or paralyzed. On the other hand, if you say “I’m all about sex”, then you’re a sex offender. Sex is the main reason we’re here. It is the common instinctive goal we have between genders. In fact, it is the very act of sex (in most cases) that facilitated the fertilization necessary to conceive our very own existences. I find it hard to argue against anything that was instrumental in my own existence. There’s a reason men think about sex so frequently and it has to do with the preservation of our species. Being a man, I can validate the pretense that men think about sex all the time. The question is, what kind of man would I be if I didn’t think about it as much. Allot of my character and personality result from and are driven by this one instinctive behavior. I have a Great Dane that has been castrated. I am positive he never thinks about sex. Before his surgery, he was all about sex. Now he is very subdued and fun to have around and he has none of those sexual issues messing up my life. Hmmm…Personally, I choose to acknowledge myself as being normal and healthy when I think about sex and even if I do it every 4.x minutes. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/12/2006 6:23:40 PM | | Not really I talk to alot of people who are looking for long term things friendship activity pals.I assume though if a guy is single that he might be looking for sex though. If he was single and didnt like sex that would be odd wouldnt it :) | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/14/2006 4:59:41 PM |
Sex is the main reason we’re here.
No; problems relating to the opposite sex is why you're here.
It’s a catch-22.
It's the damaged women with sexual issues that put you into the catch-22. | |
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daisie
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Joined: 9/22/2004
Msg: 168 | |
| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/14/2006 9:00:44 PM | | I have to agree with ^^^^^^. The vast majority of men I talk to on here are polite and decent to talk to. Of course there are some who complete as$es and are really proud of showing just how obnoxious they can be. Those guys are the exception...they have my pity and yet they make me laugh. I know, I know...but the truth is I also like to stare at car wrecks on the highway, invesitgate what the cat dragged in up close, and go see the circus freak shows too. So these guys are just like circus freaks who write to me now and then!! Hehehe. Bottom line is, most guys here do have decent manners, and good manners is better than circus mutants any day. | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/14/2006 9:04:35 PM | Wow you all seem to think that is all men want is just a quick encounter.. talk about gun shy.. That is the biggest cop out that I have heard.. If that is the case then go become a nun. :) Really. If men on here only want to talk about is sex, though, well some might be, But, I d not thing that all the men that are on here really want to have that kind of relationship. And you know really I am flagging the BS sign as you would think that you have the audacity to think they would want to talk just sex to you in the first place. :) do not get me wrong... There is a time and place for everything. But I know that for me it is not that important. And to be grouped with men whom have no control is like saying that woman get into cat fights over the makeup counter. Or that the only thing woman wants is to get all the money out of our wallets and leave us high and dry with out anything but a thanks no relationship or even a after date call back. I think it is time we start calling apples, apples. If men are on here that are only interested in that then why bother with them. Go find the ones that do not start out with hey my D*** is this long and you will like it you… blaa… find the ones that truly care.. and I KNOW that you have not talked to all the men on here as I do not even know you.. so :P:P hehe.. just my two cents worth. Now go out and find that Man GIRL!. hehe
P.s Spelling not included. :P but Hey I LOVE YA and well I care that you feel that way. it is life just pick up the pieces and drive on. | |
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umm1
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Joined: 2/13/2006
Msg: 170 | |
| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/14/2006 9:34:12 PM | | Maybe its good they come online looking for sex, keeps them off the streets and you can tell if someone has a personal ad going year after year after year after year that maybe its someone to not bother with :) lol | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/14/2006 10:00:16 PM | Yes,Absolutely,Positively,Without a shadow of doubt! 
It has nothing to do with his decency,but rather his libido. 
Teksas-The best reply on this thread!  | |
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Teksas
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Joined: 1/24/2006
Msg: 172 | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/18/2006 10:26:45 AM | In my opinion - women are about emotion when it comes to a relationship, men are about sex when it comes to a relationship.
For me personally, every time I go out with someone, after the first date they call and want a second with sex included. I always turn them down, sometimes they come back for another date after that, sometimes they don't. I have one gentleman who has been "asking" for the last 5 dates now (we only meet at a restaurant and then only every few months, as he travels a great deal). I still say no and he still keeps (as he puts it) 'begging'. I think it is cute, but have told him I am not interested in him that way - still, he keeps coming back.
My personal experience - men are all about sex first and relations second. For some, I think it is about the "conquest", once they have "scored" they move on (but, that is only a few). | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/18/2006 1:39:01 PM | Some of us are doing more than just looking
I have been praying for sex for about 6 months now without any luck
Its gotten so bad my priest yelled at me not to talk to him about sex anymore. i guess he got tired of me hitting on him | |
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| are all the guys on here looking for sex?
Posted: 2/18/2006 8:13:56 PM | | maddie, in my opinion, if you have no intention, whatsoever, of sleeping w/ this man, you are leading him on. read your 1st sentence again... if he is still "taking" you out, why do you think this is? is he paying? maddie...! | |
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