| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/3/2005 8:12:02 AM | Funny Girl,
Lots of batteries and something to use them in, will take care of the main item on your list. Turn up the heat and get a thermal blanket. Your smart you should be able to figure it all out by yourself. | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/3/2005 8:14:53 AM | | There is lots I like. But the downside is no hugs, solo holidays, no one to share things with - and the feeling of being alone (which is not the same as lonely). | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/3/2005 8:22:43 AM |
Tell you what next wedding you have let me know I'll pretend for you if you do the same for me.
@triplebp: deal… I’ll let you know ahead of time. lol
Angle smile, rent a date for the weddings, funerals well going alone is best for this function anyway, and stormy nights , hot tea and a good book, find you a small dog , You will be fine.
@gtxblueyes: I just made a deal with triplebp- date for wedding and other family function is solved.. lol
I do have a dog, and other stuff to keep me occupied ….i don’t hate being single… I just miss few little things. | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/3/2005 9:06:27 AM | | I miss someone asking how my day was. Genuinely listening to the answer. I really miss the neck rubs. Sometimes my neck hurts so bad I could cry.....and no one to help me out. Usually end up in a hot bath, (alone) to relieve the pain. My ex-husband gave excellent stress-relieving massages,,,,,that's what I miss most about him. Thats about the only thing I miss about him. lol | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/3/2005 9:20:34 AM | @angel_smile
deal!!!!! Just email me and I'll send you a pic so you know what I look like so when you describe the incredible man you met you won't say he's blonde blue eyed etc. Hate to have to dye my hair and wear contacts. lool
@ scottsmom
Don't miss the ex just hire a massage therapist it's cheaper and there is no guilt. Mind you they usually don't get into the bath with you. Ooo you just wanted a massage. | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/3/2005 2:21:08 PM | | What I hate most about being single is the lonliness of it. I've been thrue alot in the last 8 years and have had to deal all on my own. It's just nice to know that that we have someone in our lives that can just let us know that things will be o.k. and that no matter what we are loved, needed and wanted. | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/3/2005 2:27:08 PM | Not having someone who ****es, moans and whines about every single thing that isn't done to her "specs". So I left the seat up....put it down already...sheesh. Aw c'mon hun, just cause you were awake when I farted doesn't mean I don't have to leave the room when you are sleepily passing gas.... And my fave...."What the hell do you mean the lines from the vacuum cleaner are going the wrong way?"
Yup...Im sure hating being single.... oh, and I loved being coached on how to talk to family and friends. | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/3/2005 4:27:55 PM | | Well I only recently became single and what I REALLY hate is coming home to an empty house and the feeling of being alone. And coming home very drunk and not having anyone to take off my boots and rub my back while I throw-up. LOL | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/3/2005 5:13:09 PM | | I love being single because I dont have to answer to ...Is this really what we are all looking for tho????Lonelyness on a cold winters night...Sleeping alone without the touch of another. Waking up alone without a morning kiss. Do we live alone and in solitude ? | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/3/2005 5:19:14 PM | hmmm......what i hate most is when my children go back to their father's house and they forget to clean their bathroom - - it is scary for me to go in there!! but who else is going to do it?!?! remember, i am single.
no really, i do not hate anything. I do wish that i had a constant partner, who would stick around and not be "flighty" and/or skiddish......but other than that, i am a very independent person. I had an awful marriage and i had allowed myself to get "lost" when in that situation. now, being on my own, i have grown/changed/blossomed and i have no regrets......i love my life!! | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/4/2005 8:12:08 AM | | I think that loneliness is the BIG thing. Going to functions alone, getting invited to friends for drinks etc and finding that you're the " 5th wheel ". Also the lack of being close to someone who cares for you and you care for them. | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/4/2005 8:20:13 AM |
I think that loneliness is the BIG thing. Going to functions alone, getting invited to friends for drinks etc and finding that you're the " 5th wheel ". Also the lack of being close to someone who cares for you and you care for them.
agrees with all that and would like to add, not having someone to snuggle up to all night. | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/4/2005 8:23:20 AM | Having to drink alone... And someone with me to enjoy a great thunderstorm!!!! Otherwise, I'm pretty good hiding away in my dungeon...lol | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/4/2005 8:41:55 AM | | I miss being able to share myself and having someone share with me. Laughs,love,sleeps, just the moments that life offers really. There is nothing greater than feeling loved, loving someone..and being able to experience that togetherness!! :) | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/4/2005 8:44:50 AM | .
Hate most about being single? What’s to hate?
. . . . scratches head . . . thinks a while . . . shrugs . . . .
It’s been so long that I can’t remember NOT being single.
The best part of single life, now that I’m retired, is that all of my time is my own to do with as I wish.
The downside of being single is the lack of companionship. But, I’m used to quiet and like it that way.
. . . wonders if there is such a thing as a very loving PART TIME relationship? LOL
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/4/2005 8:49:56 AM | | what I hate most is good conversation....meaning when you are with someone you should be able to talk about anything and everything....don't get me wrong I miss sex, but its been so long since I've had it I am starting to forget what its like..lol and I am not just going to run out and sleep with someone just to get it either..lol I find in this day and age there is too much shit going around to spend one night with someone and have to live the rest of your life with something that will never go away....so until i can find that someone that fulfills all me desires...who i can laugh with and have a good conversation with I actually love being single and do not miss anything...lol ok may be the cuddling and having to sleep alone..but hey I only have to make 1/2 a bed in the morning now .lol and thats kewl..lol | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/4/2005 9:22:36 AM | Being single certainly does have it's benefits, you can travel where you want when you want. Your money is truly yours. No asking, "Hon, can I buy this" ? These days I guitar shop whenever I want, but the down side is, there is no one to play and sing a new tune to. The up side is music has always been my salvation, so when I get lonely I pick up my six string love and gently caress it's neck, while she sings to me in response to my touch.
Another benefit is you can have emotionally meaningless sex virtually whenever you want. It appears that some people like that, I tried it,found it distasteful and will never do it again. To be in the throws of passion and to look at your partner and be able to say with heartfelt conviction,"I love you", that is what intimacy should be about. But, to each his own,no judgements here.
I miss going to bed and just lying there watching my loved one, peaceful in her slumber, while my heart swells with love for her. There's a lot to be said for having someone to kiss and hug goodbye on your way to work, and to exchange a phone call with during the work day,just to say I love you and say "wasn't lastnight great" ! Someone to hold onto in the evening when one or both of your have had a stressful day, or to just get silly with and laugh your ass off while you share the twinkle in each others eyes.
I don't think being single, or being yoked to someone ever offers anyone "everything" that they desire in life, there are always pros and cons to either life style, life is not a guarantee of happiness, it is a compromise. I know for the past few years it is difficult to be with my friends and relatives who are either happily married, or in long term relationships. I find myself feeling like the only patient at group counseling meeting. If I hear one more time about how I should "look here or there", or give up and "just be happy", I'm tiring of wel intentioned advice. It's easy to give advice when you're the happy camper sittin' round the campfire! | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/4/2005 9:25:46 AM |
Another benefit is you can have emotionally meaningless sex virtually whenever you want. It appears that some people like that, I tried it,found it distasteful and will never do it again. To be in the throws of passion and to look at your partner and be able to say with heartfelt conviction,"I love you", that is what intimacy should be about. But, to each his own,no judgements here.
With this I agree wholeheartedly. I've always said (yes, I'm sure you've heard me say it, haven't you?) that sex is easy to come by...it's finding somebody that you want to talk to afterward that is difficult. I also tried it, found it distasteful, and will never do it again - at least not until I find somebody who is SOOOO attractive I can't stand not to.... | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/4/2005 9:26:15 AM | | I think the biggest thing for me is not having anyone I can talk to. Not like I would with my friends, but just talk about anything for any reason. Curl up on the couch, and just talk. I miss that a lot. | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/4/2005 9:58:49 AM | Not having someone to share my life with. Being single has it's advantages but when you've been single for a long time, you start to get lonely.
To me it feels like something is missing in my life. Love, companionship, a soulmate and a friend. What could be better than that? | |
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| What do you hate most about being single?
Posted: 12/4/2005 10:03:00 AM | I hate that certain group of friends (everybody has these friends) that only invite you to functions if you have someone to bring with you--
Like Sam and Peter are having a****ail party, you should bring someone.. Like I'm not enough? lol..
Besides that- I'm cool. I find ways to make up for other things that don't happen in single life; and enjoy alot of the benefits as well. :)
xo
-bella | |
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