| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 12/17/2005 7:03:45 AM | Everyone has a diffrent view on this,but i feel oral should be done first.Call me corny or whatever,but first date if theres sparks-then there should be alot of huggin and kissin.After a month---hand jobs-finger poppin should come in to play.Beyond that--oral sex should be done up until u have sex.It hasnt always happened like that for me,but if ur not willin to go down then we shouldnt be having sex.
I went out with this chick that i knew for a while and she forbid to suck me off,she even went as far as to say well u can let someone else do it.I kept it real and let her know about it.She actually called me once while i was gettin head and got mad.She started doing it,and i could tell by the way she blew that she did it before.before sex i feel like yall should have an understandin--let eachother know what u like---but without oral its damn near pointless--just a way to release-- | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 12/17/2005 7:37:58 AM | There are risks involved no matter how anyone wants to deny it. I think you are practicing a wise choice with it and if that is how you feel, you need to go with your gut and trust your decision.
If the guy can't deal with it, and can't wait till you get "serious" enough to feel okay with it...then it's your choice. | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 3/31/2006 4:31:00 AM | | hi wasnt gonna get in the convo but felt i had to.Been with the same woman since high school and tried all kinds of weird shit and i've gotta be honest its hard to beat a good old fasion blow job.69 isnt that just fun for both at the same time?Must admit it's easer to look yaz in the eye with a 69 but harder to tease the bum hole. | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 5/11/2006 3:49:38 PM | | I feel like thats a bad deal..I have never had sex with a woman and her not do the deal..it's all part of the act of foreplay for men and women..so I thought...would be normal..Thats actually pretty odd to me.. | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 5/13/2006 12:19:55 AM | | Personally its a turn off if a guy asks for oral. Let me get to it when I feel comfortable or get in the mood and the better he's making me feel the faster I'm gonna get in the mood. Regardless, if a guy is too shallow and self centered to accept your limits move on because he won't get any better. If you want great sex then find a real man that shows respect and understanding | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 9/15/2006 7:39:30 AM | People who do not participate in oral sex as a regular activity that they enjoy, tend to state that it is way too intimate and it is reserved for those select few who they will not hold any regret in the future for indulging. They can look back and be glad that the person they had oral sex with is someone they can always hold in high esteem, even if they part ways.
I have to agree that mouth to genitals is one of the most intimate and personal things two lovers can do. You have to admit you have to have a lot of trust in a person to allow teeth near your privates!!  | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 9/15/2006 8:38:39 AM | | Yea... I woulnt just go down on a girl that I didnt really know. You dont know the"situation" down there. Having sex is pleasureable but more of a common agreement that both partners want. That is more for when you get to know the person. unless they like doing it. then its whatever I guess. I wouldnt turn it down. But I wouldnt give it right away... | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 9/15/2006 1:05:05 PM | | Ummm, correct me if i'm wrong, but uh isnt it all damn personal? By that I mean, if you compared the personal nature of my mouth buried between her legs to say, shaking hands with her I could see the difference, but this all seems to be in the same category of 'extremely personal' to me, jmo. | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 9/15/2006 1:18:20 PM | | I say don't do anything your not comfortable with or ready to do whatever the reason. If he cares about you he'll understand. True love/friendship means that you don't necessarily agree with why something is important to the other person but respect that it is. | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 9/16/2006 5:54:57 AM |
To me, if I reached a point of the relationship where we where having sex (usually for me sex starts off with some oral forplay, I mean nothing gets a girl started like a good clit lickin) I dunno, I think I'd be a little hurt if the woman said "oh know I don't think we're that personal yet.
Yeah, gotta agree with the guy on this one...how can u say oral is too personal, if you're already having sex with him? If it's 'cuz u just don't like to do it fine, but....that excuse seems a bit illogical at that point..
However, it's your mouth, your decision....
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 9/16/2006 5:55:19 AM |
To me, if I reached a point of the relationship where we where having sex (usually for me sex starts off with some oral forplay, I mean nothing gets a girl started like a good clit lickin) I dunno, I think I'd be a little hurt if the woman said "oh know I don't think we're that personal yet.
Yeah, gotta agree with the guy on this one...how can u say oral is too personal, if you're already having sex with him? If it's 'cuz u just don't like to do it fine, but....that excuse seems a bit illogical at that point..
However, it's your mouth, your decision....
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 9/16/2006 7:36:31 AM | | I disagree with you. I certainly wouldn't perform oral sex on a girl until I know her pretty damn well, so I don't see anything wrong with her not wanting to perform it on him right away. Assuming she isn't expecting him to perform oral on her right now. | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 9/16/2006 8:27:27 AM | and my thread was provocative! wow! people come up with the wildest stuff! why would this even be on your mind? ummmmmmmmmmmmm! i wonder about your countenance! (helen of troy). and i am so tempted to say so many bad things. but lets just say, a pic is worthy of a thousand lies.  | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 9/16/2006 8:37:57 AM | | you done have to EVER do anything you dont want to...EVER....... i agree with you a 100% if he doesnt understand then i guess he should look at his own motives... | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 9/16/2006 9:51:23 AM | to me oral is a part of sex, i love it even more than the intercourse part both giving and recieving. I adore giving head. If a guy didnt want to give me it i wouldnt give him it, i have to say that i have yet to come across anyone refusing it with me. I wouldnt to to a guy though what he wouldnt do to me
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