| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 9/16/2006 6:16:28 PM | my question is, does anyone else feel this way?
***funluvin76, yes I do! Oral sex is IMO a *lot* more intimate than PIV sex. Unfortunately, most younger people today don't see it that way and give BJs to every Tom,****and Harry, like kisses. It's a terrible trend.  | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 9/16/2006 6:18:48 PM | let me be the first to say, "Yes, there is something wrong with you for not wanting to give every man unprotected oral sex".
***Exellentia, that's bull****! What about women who don't do oral sex at all, period? Good grief! We're all entitled to our quirks and prferences, in sex like in anything else.
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 9/16/2006 6:25:04 PM | I'm pretty sure I already said this, must of been in another thread or I'm just being lazy...
Oral sex is extremely impersonal. With most sexual positions you're atleast getting some form of body friction ( Or atleast a good grip  ).
Fondling of the balls does nothing for me, either. | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 9/17/2006 12:56:34 AM | Hi...I strongly agree with you on Oral Sex to be more personal than intercourse. And I believe this is true for both men and women. To me it's very logical emotionally as well as medically. If something is logical and convinces you it doesn't matter if others agrees on that or not. Be confident of yourself! Enjoy safely and don't let others cheat you by high-fi statements/promises during a casual relationship. There is no reason to believe a stranger (1st date) even upto couple of subsequent dates too.
Cheers! ....andy | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 1/6/2007 5:26:20 AM | Girls like you need to be put on an island away from the rest of civilization....and not a tropical resort either. lol
Ouch. If that's the case, me and the OP are going to get a really nice tan together really soon. | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 1/6/2007 5:53:11 AM | Strange whilst out with a mixed group of male/females a conversation started with male friend saying hed had an encounter but no sex just oral.The women in the group looked shocked pointing out that oral is sex.The men looked dumbfounded ans stated that wasn't sex.So maybe its ur own perceptions on what is sexual and what is not.Whilst still at school had a friend that thought anal wasn't having sex,and another who thought if he didn't ejeculate inside her then it wasn't.Sounds outlandish and bizarre to some, but suppose its a personal choice and you must go with what your most comfortable with and OF COURSE SAFELY! Personally I like it lol but thats another story.Don't be pressurised by someones elses idea's unless your really ready. also 40% of women don't like doing it apparently so there u go!! | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 1/6/2007 7:07:35 AM | trust in no way protects you from anything...you can trust someone totally and they on the other hand can screw you over, so where does that leave me?
personally , i think u made the right decision hun , u respect urself and ur body , he should do the same ! when u sleep with a man u should always protect urself from std's etc , i find it hard to believe that some people still dont protect themselves ,its ridiculous - just my opinion tho . as for ur question about where it leaves u ?......making the right choices for urself leaves u with self-respect and a protected body xx m | |
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| Oral sex more personal than actual intercourse?
Posted: 1/6/2007 7:15:02 AM | funluvin76
Honey, yes there is something wrong with you. Don't you know "most (selfish) people will say anything" to get what they want.?
All the best to you in 2007. | |
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