| I swear men are a puzzle...
Posted: 12/27/2004 9:29:41 PM | I'm not sure if I catch exactly the drift of this thread, as I can't say I follow your dating saga all that closely.
But, if I called up someone (guy, girl, love interest, friend, whatevs) and they said they would rather drink gin and go to bed instead of chill with me, there would be this little bell, a really OBVIOUS bell, that would go *ding-a-ling-a-ling* in my head, to indicate that this person wasn't interested in me in the least, and I wouldn't contact them again.
Life is too short to waste on people who make CLEAR signals that they aren't that interested.
We aren't a puzzle, us guys. Girls, however, are, to coin a phrase "consistent in their inconsistency" ;P | |
|
| |
| I swear men are a puzzle...
Posted: 12/27/2004 9:56:12 PM | ok switching the thread for a sec if you dont mind only cause my situation matches the name of the thread.... I have been having an issue all weekend with my guess you call him bf at the moment, i seen him x-mas eve everything was great we exchanged gifts and what not. well come x-mas and he was suppose to come over about 700 pm for dinner, well he doesnt show nothing i didnt even get a call from him all day or night, wow i know what a loser huh?? well i get a call from him early sunday morning and hes explaining what happened so im like ok whatever, he asks if he can come over im like sure why not well we hang out all day even take my lil brother out to eat then we get back to my house we are there for like 45 minutes all of a sudden he gets up says he has to go, not a hug a kiss or anything which is odd for him well then i get a call from him at 530pm says hes on his way to church hell come by when he gets out which will be about 8 im like ok cool but is everything ok he said yeah why??? i was like well ill talk to you when you get here. i hear nothing from him until 9 says he has something weird he has to do hell call me before he comes, well didnt hear from him all night, he called tis morning and to talk to me on his way to work like he always does, I didnt adress the situation and he didnt say one word about it..... what the hell do you think i should be thinking??????
rheanna hunny think you are smart for dumping him!!!!! | |
|
| |
| I swear men are a puzzle...
Posted: 12/27/2004 10:41:46 PM | | you know thats exactly what i thought. guess its time to say buh bye!!! ugh i hate men sometimes. thanks rheanna | |
|
BCGray
|
Joined: 12/1/2004
Msg: 55 | |
| I swear men are a puzzle...
Posted: 12/27/2004 11:07:15 PM | Does that include those dudes that hide under “Rocks” my little flirt, so that is were you were all weekend……………………….Oh the Shame, jilted again, and here on the festive season yet, with no mistletoe left?????? Bah HUMBUG | |
|
| I swear men are a puzzle...
Posted: 12/27/2004 11:20:29 PM | | How the hell can one hate all of one gender when they personally know less then 1/2 of 1/2 of a percent of the population of them....? | |
|
| I swear men are a puzzle...
Posted: 12/28/2004 12:26:49 PM | | No I dont hate all men I just hate the ones that are users and liars. No BC i definately do not hate you my love if I did I hate you then who would I flirt with, just confused at the moment and I think rheanna has it peged right. | |
|
| I swear men are a puzzle...
Posted: 12/28/2004 12:33:53 PM | | Fill my car up with popcorn and i would live in it. Not too much butter tho, gonna get all messy. | |
|
| I swear men are a puzzle...
Posted: 12/28/2004 6:28:15 PM | Yes, I like a religious president. What's bad with that anyway.
he may have erred about IRAQ but I think he is great overall | |
|
jimi77
|
Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 60 | |
| I swear men are a puzzle...
Posted: 12/28/2004 7:15:45 PM | | men ..... little kids in big bodys with differant wants as far as toys.. that simple. | |
|
| I swear men are a puzzle...
Posted: 12/28/2004 8:10:29 PM | Patriarchal? Look at how the vast majority of people, at least in my city, live- and you will see it is really a matriarchal society.
I'm not talking about the privledged few who post here-
Almost everyone I know is a part of the following system:
An older woman is in charge of a household, she takes care of everyone and makes the decisions. She might have a daughter or two who got pregnant, so she now has the father of her daughter's baby in her household. It goes on and on, but one older female is almost always in charge, fixes all problems and runs the family.
Men are usually just sperm donors, wandering in and out of families getting females pregnant. In and out of jail and other matriarchs' homes, etc. They don't hold jobs the way the women do.
This was the basis for primitive societies which are matriarchal. It's the most natural and we are, unfortunately?, going back to it.
We might have men in high political positions, but they get where they are in pursuit of sex (power). For a man the overblown ego= more sex.
If you don't think ALL presidents are getting some under the desk, you need to wake up!
that's off the subject, I'm sorry. | |
|
| I swear men are a puzzle...
Posted: 12/29/2004 10:59:27 AM | | From your side Rheanna,the guy sounds like he has issues.The post about the depression thing might be right on.My ex was like that.Its not a male thing,but I can't really comment because I don't know his side.Being a journalist I can't make a judgement only hearing one side.Put some light on your face for a pic,we can't see your pretty features. | |
|
| |
| I swear men are a puzzle...
Posted: 12/29/2004 12:39:56 PM | Life is a puzzle - a biological puzzle with regeneration and decay to all that live.  | |
|
| I swear men are a puzzle...
Posted: 12/29/2004 12:49:19 PM | | ^Nobody give Limo any weapons!!! I don't know how many threads I just passed but I keep seeing "shoot on the mind" HAHAHA yep sounds like a guy dissed you. Come on, spill it out. | |
|
| I swear men are a puzzle...
Posted: 12/29/2004 1:01:54 PM | I applaud her attitude... sure bet no ones going to step on HER toes (at least not more than once...)
~~Dragon Rider~~
The Dragon awakes, hope rises again
Happy New Year Folks | |
|
| |
| |
| |
| I swear men are a puzzle...
Posted: 12/30/2004 11:25:35 AM | Patriarchal? Look at how the vast majority of people, at least in my city, live- and you will see it is really a matriarchal society.
I'm not talking about the privledged few who post here-
Almost everyone I know is a part of the following system:
An older woman is in charge of a household, she takes care of everyone and makes the decisions. She might have a daughter or two who got pregnant, so she now has the father of her daughter's baby in her household. It goes on and on, but one older female is almost always in charge, fixes all problems and runs the family.
>>
Ok,granted running the families.If she's not working,then welfare and somebody's child support is financially supporting them.The money to run this household has to come from somewhere.If she is working,she can't possibly be doing the 100% effort for the kids and the household.Something has to give at some point.I know,I've tried.I'm a single parent and I work two jobs.No one is omnipotent and omniscient.>
Men are usually just sperm donors, wandering in and out of families getting females pregnant. In and out of jail and other matriarchs' homes, etc. They don't hold jobs the way the women do.
>>Excuse me?????Sperm donors???I take issue.My ex left me with our two daughters and I'm not unique.I would call her and others like her an egg donor.Hold jobs??I've been in the same field for over 25 years.Longest my ex held a job was eight and that was when she was with me.When I was downsized from one job,I had a woman tell me not to worry about getting another job,that I should be spending more time with the kids and to apply for social assistance.Well as I was looking for another job I did apply.Social services in my state don't look at single men with kids the same way they look at single women with kids.>>
This was the basis for primitive societies which are matriarchal. It's the most natural and we are, unfortunately?, going back to it.
>>If we are going back to it,rest assured it will lead to the demise of western civilization as we know it.>>
We might have men in high political positions, but they get where they are in pursuit of sex (power). For a man the overblown ego= more sex.
If you don't think ALL presidents are getting some under the desk, you need to wake up!
that's off the subject, I'm sorry. >>
So what's your point?I could care less how much under the table nookie a president,king,prime minister,whatever gets on his own time.If he can get things done,who cares?While I'm no big fan of Bill Clinton,at least there were no major pigfuk wars going on during his administration and he was trying to do something with this horrendeous health care problem we have here in the US.
I am not bashing women or downplaying their role in society,yet because of the differences in the way men and women think,men still are the motivators,movers and shakers.If women called the shots,I doubt we would have ever put anyone in space or even advanced beyond 19 th century science.It was the quest for power and competitive drive that motivated advancement.This is not to say that women don't possess these characteristics,but they do play a different part in a woman's world. | |
|
Home
login 
