AI03™
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Joined: 5/3/2005
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Tinkle
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Joined: 11/2/2005
Msg: 28 | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/3/2005 4:58:09 PM | | Sparda, I'm not too big on these politically correct race threads, but you're still my man, dude. | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/3/2005 5:14:10 PM | Thanx laverboy. See, I'm not such a bad guy. Just the silly females in my local area seem to think I am for whatever odd reason (go figure)  | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/3/2005 5:18:34 PM | They are all stereotypes and as such.... I see them as negatives simply because I believe that people can be individuals.
I also view ALL stereotypes as being negative, but I do believe that all people ARE individuals. They should'nt be categorized by their similarities. They should only be held accountable for their own actions as an individual. | |
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jdctx
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Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 33 | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/3/2005 5:59:48 PM | | None of that is true about everyone. But it is not easy for a white guy to get a date with a black woman. I have sent emails to black women who were positively beautiful but got no response. They dont always say they just want a black guy (or hispanic guys, I have found), but often, its the way they respond. I am not attracted to ALL people of all races, no matter what. But neither am I unattracted to someone because of race. It just depends. Either they are fine, or they are not, pretty much. Thats as far as the physical thing goes with me. | |
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jimb77
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Joined: 8/30/2005
Msg: 35 | |
| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/3/2005 6:01:48 PM | Gee, that was hard to figure who or what would start this topic
You left out who likes basketball and chicken and who talks to the movie screen etc....
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jimb77
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Joined: 8/30/2005
Msg: 37 | |
| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/3/2005 6:03:01 PM | Lady fair, do you live on the moon? Are you nuts? do you really believe that?
"Irresponsible fathers ... only as much as any other race." | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/3/2005 6:12:58 PM | | Race is like many other attributes. It is something that you can't change and it is something people will use as criteria when determining to date you. Some people just will not date you because of your race. This is a reality. I do thing someone that is willing to date interacially has an advantage simply because they have more options. | |
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jdctx
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Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 39 | |
| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/3/2005 6:14:16 PM | Well the horse won't die..
I have dealt with racism and sterotyping myself
Sometime it funny but other time you realiize they are serious..
I am half hispanic my mom is Colombian and my Dad is american.
Most of the time when something is said to me about Colombia its rarelly about something positive like the coffee or history. Its almost always a drug comment..
Sometimes when I'm around all white people. I'll here negative comments about hispanics. With them never knowing I'm half
on the flip side
If I'm around hispanics they think I have to prove to them I'm one of them by talking spanish... | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/12/2005 11:51:19 PM | I only want to comment on this bc I am an Asian woman:
You say : asian women: exotic, submissive, know how to treat a man, likes white men
I say : NOT TRUE
WHY:
- Asian women are exotic...BUT THEY ARE NOWHERE NEAR SUBMISSIVE
* I don't know where people get this but if you look at Asian households, the women rule the roost
* Women make the money, the decisions on child rearing, education etc
- How to treat a man?
* Now how does this translate exactly? Is there a book of guidelines that state the exact steps on how to treat a man " right " ? Every man is different. Let's put it this way : men who kill love women who support them ( is this the kind of that you mean? See the subjectiveness? )
- " Likes white men "
* Not necessarily so. Whomever is attractive to me is fine enough. | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/13/2005 10:26:43 AM | A man gets on a plane and as luck would have it he gets seated next to a drop dead gorgeous woman.He sits down and immediately tries to engage the beauty in conversation,"You traveling for business or pleasure?"He asks.She excitedly begins to tell him,"Oh I'm traveling to LA for business,I'm a sex educator and our association is having a symposium on sexual stereotypes and myths.We've laid to rest some popular myths,for example,we used to believe that is was the African American male who was the most well endowed,but now we find that it's really the Native American.We also used to believe that Frenchmen made the greatest lovers but now we know that it's Jewish men,followed by the southern American redneck,but I'm boring you,my name is Marie,what's yours?"
The man replies,"Tonto,Tonto Goldstien.Friends call me Bubba." | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 1/31/2006 4:39:46 PM | | Cute one! Gotta love the southern redneck part! People often can't believe a country boy would date a "sista". I love the beauty of a black lady...the eyes, hair (if its real), skin, booty, lips.. Just hard to find the non "urban" type. I am a country boy and I just want a good country girl with similar interests. Hard to find a black lady who is conservative in politics, Christian, likes country life and country music and likes a good ole NON RACIST redneck feller! KIinda unusual, huh? | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 1/31/2006 4:51:40 PM | | i am being realistic when i say that i'm at a disadvantage in the dating world, a lot of women can't look past my ethnicity to notice that i actually have a lot of good things to offer someone. it's also kind of discouraging when a lot of asian women seem to be more in dating white guys exclusively than even white women are. that said, i've had my share of terrific girlfriends in the past, of all races. i probably have to knock on a few more doors than some people, but whatever. | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 1/31/2006 9:09:46 PM | crunchberries said:
"But it is not easy for a white guy to get a date with a black woman. "
Dude...this 110% untrue. There are literally hundreds of black woman WILL ONLY DATE WHITE GUYS....period. I mean....in some cases, they don't even havt to say word....ya' just can look at at em' and tell...they have no interest in their own race. No big deal..though. In fact there are sites devoted to just this and only this. | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 1/31/2006 9:18:08 PM | "Hard to find a black lady who is conservative in politics,"
.....ummmm whatta' bout' Condelezza Rice and she's from Alabama | |
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Zain.
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Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 46 | |
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j-mix
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Joined: 10/4/2005
Msg: 47 | |
| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 3/20/2006 4:58:37 PM | Another list (all is my very stupid opinion):
black men: financially insecure, physically superior, big size, always have several sex partners
asian men: financially most secure, physically inferior, small size
white men: financially secure, physically inferior, average size, one sex partner
latino men: financially insecure, physically inferior, average size, trying to have several sex partners
black american women: financially insecure, easy, always have children, fat, sexually open, don’t cook, foxy, average wives, smell, loose pus%sy
asian American women: financially insecure, easy, exotic but far from beautiful, slender, gold diggers, good wives, tight pus%sy, flat ass, rule by family
white american women: financially secure, very easy, fat and average, sexually open, don’t cook, clean, bad wives, gold diggers, demanding, loose and average pus%sy
latino women: financially insecure, very easy, likes American and white, always have children, fat, stupid, cook, good wives, demanding, loose pus%sy
if black is slender… then all guys want her. she is queen of Beauty and slut
if white is slender… then all guys want her. then she is queen of England and slut
if asian is beautiful… then all guys want her. She is… donno… slut.
If latino is slender… then all guys want her. she is my dream… and slut of course. | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 3/20/2006 5:21:02 PM | OP is dead on.
And yeah a lot of the stereotypes are mostly true.
That is why they are stereotypes. | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/15/2006 3:24:57 PM | | Racism is based on ignorance.some people try to cover up and make like their not racist but really is a racist.when you judge people by the color of their skin complexion you are a racist.I dont care what anybody says that is some form of racism. | |
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