Kixxie
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Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 51 | |
| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/7/2007 5:37:28 AM | | Personally, when it comes to dating, I dont care what color a person is. If they're attractive to me, both phycially and mentally.....then it's all good. | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/7/2007 11:03:05 AM | | Ummm, I'm not your "sistah"...my relatives have EVOLVED and have become educated to this non-sensical way of thinking! And, even though I DO prefer white men, there's no way in HELL I'd ever be reduced to the way you see the world. Pitiful. | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/7/2007 11:11:59 AM | Karma is everywhere.
I know that as soon as I say something like: "I would never date a ___ person", I'm going to fall madly in love with one, and it will not be requited. | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/7/2007 3:53:41 PM | With me - race is like this:
I am primarily attracted to caucasian, mixed asian / caucasian, mixed african american/ caucasian, hispanic, and native american ladies.
I am not very attracted to entirely asian or entirely african american ladies.
Why? - is it because I'm racist? NO!
It is a psycho-sexual element of my makeup - like sexual orientation.
Would you accuse a lesbian of being a man hater? - Of course you wouldn't.
Would you accuse a gay man of being a woman hater? - Absolutely not.
Racial sexual preference operates the same way as gender sexual preference - it's a biological mechanism, nothing more. | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/7/2007 4:04:08 PM | i myself am just looking for friends but i also am looking for a girl who loves to wrestle and/or roughhouse with men. in private of course. so if anybody knows any fiesty girls anywhere near me, regardless of race, let me know.
kenny | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/7/2007 4:14:44 PM | Chilly62 - did you call me an idiot?
WHY?
Oh - that's right...your on line and not here face to face, so I guess you feel safe and secure enough to be a Jack A$$. | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/7/2007 4:33:47 PM | NO - WAIT - HOLD IT RIGHT THERE!
I did NOT say that I WOULD NOT date an african american woman - because I WOULD!
I would ALSO date an asian woman.
I'm just saying that I find the others I list more sexually attractive to me - not that I hated them, or anyrthing like that.
My point is that just because you might be attracted to primarily only a specific race no more means that your a racist than being atracted to a certain gender means that you are a sexist. I think your not understanding me and I'm being badly treated here. | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/7/2007 5:36:41 PM | I just love these, save the world type threads..
Most wouldn't even consider putting there real beliefs out on the table.. To many people would come unglued.....
I love women!!!!!!!!!!
Sorry if I feel no need to paint them or shape them to make myself look open minded!
To the OP! Those stereo types are not racist.. They are just plain ignorance! (lack of knowledge) There is a huge difference!!!!
~Belly~ | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/7/2007 6:23:08 PM |
maybe you should read more papers and watch more news before you think he is ignorant. reality is what it is and stereotypes do exist and usually right on. your as ignorant as anybody else, unless you have a job where you see what goes on in the world day to day you have no clue.
Think what you want med boy! Comprehend what you can, insult what you can't!
The op's list is not racist at all! It is a list of things people think with out investigating!
A lack of knowledge is "ignorance"! I don't care if you never read a paper or watch news! The word means what it means..
So your job is of a worldly way I take it...LMFAO... I live in the world day to day. If I don't know first hand what is going on around me, no one does!
Talk about the blind and stupid leading the blind and stupid... Anyone with even and ounce of common sense know that the media makes it's money on over selling and rewriting what is really going on in the world.. Media coverage is racist! So if thats where you draw your ignorance from I understand your point of view..
After Katrina, the news shows a white man and woman pushing a raft with a t.v. beer, stereo equipment and a few other things in boxes from some local stores and they called it "finding ways to survive..
Then they show a couple of black men pushing a raft full of food and water! They called that "looting" !
Yup, the trusty news papers and t.v. media....
~Belly~ | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/7/2007 6:39:42 PM | I won't date white girls, is that racist?
That's s a good questions. When I was 17, a young good looking black man and I were found of each other, but I didn't want to date him. Did that make me racist? I don't really care for blond men either, does that make me a blond bigot? Sexual preference...that makes more sense. | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/7/2007 6:50:30 PM | | Ok I have avoided this subject as long as could stand it.Now precedeing this message im sure I will catch some flack from a few close minded prople that find my words to be wrong , Yet keep in mind they are MY WORDS and I am entitled to speak them just as "50 cents"is allowed to shoot and kill white people" in his new video"granted it's just a video . Lets just say it was "Great white" the band and they were stalking black prodominate sucsesful men and putting crosshairs on black me . The entire Black community would be up in arms about it . So folks jsut remember whats good for the goose is good for the gander . Also for all the people that want to call me a racist for speaking my opinion I would just like to let you know I hate everyone equally so there take that to the bank or bong or what ever you want to take it to and lets end this bullshit race crap once and for all we are all humans we all bleed red we all breath the same air and some day some global event , perhaps a mega disaster ;, Is what it is going to take to unite us all as one race to save the world , perhaps then we will all look back and see just how really stupid we have all been acting all these years | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/7/2007 8:25:18 PM | Well what the hell, why not... I own a small construction company... Med boy! I am a self made man.. Not a clock puncher. My living comes from putting roofs over peoples heads. Not playing taxi to injured people!
I do a lot of rehab work in the inner city.. I also work very close with recovering alcoholics and addicts.. The scum of the earth as most call us!
I was almost beaten to death when I was 23, by a few ignorant kids that had the belief that I was the enemy because I was white.. So what say ye now?
I also grew up in the projects! The only white kid in a hispanic barrio..
I know first hand what racism is! I have the scares to prove it!
What do you have? A job that pays you to be around people that don't like your kind. You know the kind...
If my hearts bleeding, it's bleeding for the ignorant! Not idiots that think the press is honest and to be believed! So go read your paper. I'm sure there is something in there to make you feel validated about your views..
~Belly~ | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/7/2007 8:31:14 PM | The problem of racism will always exist because it can never be discussed intelligently and without anger. What a shame. Maybe the next generation...our children...will be able to do it. One can only hope.
Merry Christmas! | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/7/2007 8:39:19 PM |
The problem of racism will always exist because it can never be discussed intelligently and without anger.
Racism will always exist because it is human nature. The same reason racism will always exist is the same reason love will always exist. It is the same reason hope will always exist. It is the same reason anger will always exist....etc. | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/7/2007 8:55:37 PM | You wouldn't last one day on a construction site. Who do you think built the home you live in........never mind, under rocks don't count.
Construction workers are some of the hardest workers I know and it is not all about muscles and labor. They have to read blue prints, tape measures (and not just inches) and know about every aspect of what they are doing. From the type of wood they are using to the electrical and plumbing part of it, the brick, the concrete....way more than I know and so much more to it than you know. Your work is admirable and necessary and so is the work of construction workers. Why put down and bring someones occupation into a thread about racism is beyond me. | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/7/2007 9:37:17 PM |
You wouldn't last one day on a construction site. Who do you think built the home you live in........never mind, under rocks don't count.
The house he lives in? Lets try the hospitals he taxis people to. Or even the bridges he taxi's them over on the way to the hospital! LMAO!
The corner bar..LMAO... I'm sober genius! So are most of my friends!
I sit in rooms every day with people of all races.. We are all equal. We all suffer from all of the same things.. But like you have demonstrated some of us are sicker then others! you can get help though..
I will look up some meetings for you in your area! Asking for help for everything from anger to drugs is a really hard thing to do.. But if you want help it's out there! I hope you get some soon! You are a very angry person...
Hate like yours just breads more hate.. From the dating world to the way your children will act when they get older...
Your job is a very important one, thats for sure. But it doesn't make you special or any more informed then the next guy!
I'll teach you to hammer if you will teach me how to properly put on a scooby doo band-aid...
~Belly~ | |
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Kixxie
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Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 73 | |
| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/7/2007 11:35:01 PM | | I have no room in my life for racist people, whether it be in the dating world or anywhere else. | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/8/2007 10:28:22 PM | ....yeah, construction, something to be proud of, wish i could hammer, cut wood, and go to the local dive everyday, wow how fun. yeah and how much college is required, oh yeah.....
You are wrong my friend. There is a great deal of education needed for construction. Pick up a welder’s manual and see if you can figure it out. I couldn't begin to and I've got my master and more credits than I care to count. More and more construction workers make more money than college graduates.... and they're not paying off college loads for twenty years. College is still my hope for everyone, but I don’t look down my nose at anyone for not going after that type of higher education. Next time you need a hammer, wood cutting job done, you can do it yourself and it will look like you did it yourself. Or you can call a professional who will do the job right because he/she will have the knowledge on how to do it.
 P.S. You'll live longer and happier if you improve on controlling your temper a little bit. | |
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| Racism in the dating world
Posted: 12/9/2007 12:48:36 AM | there's a reason they're called stereotypes.
i recall seeing a petition online (with lots of 'votes') trying to make red heads a 'race'. it's pretty ridiculous to go that far... but... you know how many people wont date a red head, 'they're all ugly', blah blah etc etc...?
it's sorta funny, because we only date those with excellent genes (apparently)... i don't recall the vikings (red heads) exactly being a bunch of sissies. | |
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